Hey! One, I just want to say I love your blog so much, I am a huge fan of everything you do. You seem to know a crazy amount, which leads me to my question. In regards to Eliza Hamilton Holly (gosh I love her) I know that she was a very sickly baby, but I read somewhere that Eliza Hamilton's health suffered quite a bit after giving birth to her. I've taken this as fact, but now I can't seem to find where I came across it. Do you know anything about this? Or have I somehow imagined this? Thanks!
Wow, thanks! And an interesting question! Little Eliza did have a health scare as an infant. When Hamilton went up to Albany on legal business in January 1800, he wrote to Eliza that he was “very anxious to hear of the health of my little Betsey.” (26 January 1800). By January 30, however, Eliza had written to him to relieve his fears for his two month old daughter. He replied:
You will easily imagine, My Dear Eliza, how much I have been relieved by the Post of today.1 My darling infant is then recovered.2 Happy news and very contrary to my apprehensions! Let us unite in thanks to that kind being who has thus far protected our little family and ourselves and let us endeavour as far as in us lies to merit a continuance of his favour.
While I’m sure Eliza had some sleepless nights taking care of her daughter, I haven’t seen anything that indicated she suffered more than usual in her pregnancy or after giving birth.
A yellow fever outbreak in New York did send much of the Hamilton family up to Albany in September 1799, when Eliza was about seven months pregnant. The Hamilton children went to Albany by sloop separately from their parents, accompanied by a maid, according to a letter from Philip Schuyler to Hamilton dated 13 September 1799. Eliza, it seems, intended to travel to Albany by coach instead. Hamilton wrote to James McHenry on September 10, 1799, “I am on the point of setting out to accompany Mrs. Hamilton a part of her way on a visit to her father; with the expectation of being back in five days.” That Hamilton didn’t intend to accompany her the entire way indicates he wasn’t overly concerned about her health at that time.
The letters communicating Hamilton’s concerns for little Eliza in January 1800 also lack any indication that Eliza was struggling with any health issues. In expressing concern for their daughter, Hamilton didn’t add any request for an update about her health, which he almost unfailing did when he left her feeling poorly.
Eliza’s health did suffer quite a bit during her last pregnancy, however, which may be what you were thinking of. While on his way to Albany on business in October 1801, Hamilton wrote anxiously to Eliza: “you know that I should be anxious to hear of your health. If the succeeding post does not rectify the omission of the former I shall be dissatisfied and pained.” Losing Philip in the midst of her last pregnancy couldn’t have helped matters, either. On 28 March 1802, Philip Schuyler wrote to Hamilton:
In a letter from Mrs. Church1 of tuesday last she mentions that my dear Eliza had been very much indisposed, but was better. as no mention is made of the disorder with which she has been afflicted, we apprehend that she has miscarryed,2 we are extremely anxious for further Accounts and pray they may be such as shall do away our apprehensions.
Hamilton stayed close by Eliza’s side throughout her pregnancy and after little Phil’s birth. Even four month’s after giving birth, in October 1802, Hamilton was still anxious about Eliza’s precarious health. He wrote to her from Albany on 25 October 1802:
I was much relieved, My Dear Eliza by the receipt yesterday morning of your letter of Monday last.2 How it came to be so long delayed, I am unable to conjecture. But the delay gave much uneasiness in consequence of the imperfect state of health in which I had left you. Thank God you were better—for indeed my Eliza you are very essential to me. Your virtues more and more endear you to me and experience more and more convinces me that true happiness is only to be found in the bosom of ones own family.