I'm only going to say this once.
Being gay doesn't mean that you only can find someone of your own sex attractive. You can find people of the other sex to be attractive and also have relationships with those people while still identifying and being gay.
Attraction is dynamic. And there are gay people who have found people of the opposite sex attractive and also have dated people of the opposite sex.
Like I don't understand how this tag literally doesn't understand queerness but then goes on the other hand and screams about queer erasure b/c shipping a supposedly gay person straight when that actually does happen! Like ace people can find people sexually attractive in certain specific conditions. Straight people can end up dating people of their own sex. Why is sexual exploration okay for everyone except gay people all the sudden when there are always exceptions and situations where it could happen?