Figuring it out. Or not.

A little place for me to talk about gender and sexuality, and maybe other things.

[thenonbinarysafespace]

*puts gender on shuffle* 

[birdfacts-deactivated20200802]

scary story

one time…. i thought i was heterosexual

[tanknaka]

why is it so hard to say “oh, i apologize, i was unaware how this word was used to demean and harm people and i will wipe it from my vocabulary, thank you for pointing that out to me”

[ozcobblehot-archive]

but let’s spread some nonbinary love too

shout out to nonbinary people who don’t look androgynous and who are chubby or fat and who have body hair in wrong places and don’t use binders and who don’t want to cut their hair short and who go by...

[beaft]

i dont want to look “pretty” i want to look otherworldly and vaguely threatening

[elvencantation]

FOR SCIENCE by batlesbo

[khalitalks-deactivated20221130]

idk i made a really stupid thing 

[laughingfish]

im screaming, this is perfect.

[beautyswhereyoufindit]

YES

[remypost]

trans positive shang new best meme on the planet

[caong]

Yes good

[tonidorsay]

approved

[ludgayte-deactivated20140410]

i’m laugh

[therapsid]

Love it.

[steampoppunk-deactivated2013092]

"ah yes an article about a transgender person. time to read the comments i bet they are all very supportive" - me for some god damn shit fucking reason

[rootehful]

[cuteosphere]

a revealing interview

[hellboundhayden]

Fun fact

In 49 I repeat FORTY FUCKING NINE states you can kill a trans person and use the “trans panic defense” as your reason for fucking killing someone like me and IT ACTUALLY WORKS. My life is nothing as long as the person who killed me was scared enough to fucking murder me. Who should really be the scared one here? Marriage equality is great and all but FUCK

[glindalesbian]

Fun fact! Trans and nonbinary people who choose not to go on hormones, get surgery, etc. are still totally valid! Nonbinary people who choose not to present as “androgynous” are still totally valid! Binary trans people who choose not to present traditionally feminine or masculine based on their gender are still totally valid!

Stop policing everyone’s identity. It isn’t difficult.

[genderpunkrock-deactivated20161]

Telling other people how to be trans isn’t very punk rock

[neutrois]

10 Things You're Actually Saying When You Ignore Someone's Gender Pronouns

When people actively refuse to use your pronouns, that sends a message. Here are ten things that this refusal actually signifies to the trans person.

If you haven’t already seen this article, read it now. It’s not a cheesy 10-inane-things list, it’s actually spot in highlighting why pronouns are so important, and why ignoring someone’s request, despite good intentions, can have a significant impact on them.

[gierlsquad]

"but you’re way too ______ to be nonbinary" first rule of nonbinary club is we don’t dictate what’s nonbinary. second rule of nonbinary club is WE DO NOT. DICTATE. WHAT. IS. NONBINARY.

[bloodcountessabendroth-deactiva]

This is a great time to practice congratulating yourself for all the “little” things you may have accomplished today. Getting out of bed, eating something, brushing your teeth and so on might be activities that you do on “auto pilot”, but in the grand scheme of things they’re very important.

You deserve to feel good about everything positive thing that you do for yourself, no matter how small! :D

[feralboywonder]

Things I want: snuggles

Things I receive: struggles

[lgbtkiddo]

Everytime i see a confession from someone on MtFconfessions I just wanna build a blanket fort and take every one of you in there and say “talk to me please I can help”.