he must be a queer. that's cool.

26 | aromantic relationship anarchist | passionately anti-amatonormativity | my gender is whatever's funniest at the moment | tellmewhatyousee on ao3

[docmerlin]

hi! i am ness or archie depending on who you ask. any/all pronouns. i post about whatever is in my brain at the moment, usually it's fandom-related. currently deep in the trenches with bbno$ + yung gravy + ari kytsya 🫶

outside of fandom i have special interests in medicine, sex & kink, relationships (especially of the non-normative sort), and music. sometimes i post about activism— usually of the anti-amatonormativity, anti-censorship, disability justice, pro-nonmonogamy, and/or covid conscious variety.

i make gifs, you're welcome to use them for whatever with credit back to the original post (tumblr does that automatically if you're using the gif search feature).

lastly, my general stance on any fictional content is that you can do whatever you want forever. if you're the kind of person to judge others based on their fictional tastes we probably won't get along, and if you have "proshippers" in your dni you will not like me 👍

links:

about page

gifs

album log (tell me ur favorite album pls)

music yelling tag

writing blog: @tellmewhatyouc

writing blog (rpf edition): @mxclean

[grimmscythe]

Reblog to cast heal on prev

[willgrahamscock]

the most essential part of a fandom are those people who immediately tell you to write it, draw it, make it when you share your ideas, you have no idea how many fanworks are born just because someone encouraged it

[oldbutchdanielmolloy]

getting obsessed with a real life guy who sucks is the ultimate cure for all ails

[actualized-animal]

being anti-divorce is so fucking bonkers to me like yeah i think you're morally obligated to stay with some shithead who you hate forever. this is a normal and healthy thing to believe. let's have kids together and force them to grow up being raised by two people who hate each other. yeah this might fuck them up mentally during the most formative years of their life but it's the morally righteous thing to do. if there's one thing god loves it's traumatized children. i'm getting into heaven for sure

[willgrahamscock]

how are you gonna be 31 and posting fandom content bro leave it to the teenagers

People 10 and 20 years older than me are writing your favorite fanfics, and drawing your favorite characters. You'd have no fandom without the people you think are 'too old' to have hobbies.

[docmerlin]

love when i'm writing and i'm like ooooh i get to disable a character 🥰🥰🥰

[docmerlin]

"nuclear family month" is so fucking funny. what are we doing. I miss the straight pride comments

[docmerlin]

horrible stomach pain for over a year i saw a doctor who suggested something that only made it worse and then i figured out all on my own that it's the fucking GLUTEN

[saveyourhelplessspite]

its like [puts down mug] its like aromanticism is the lens for everything else i experience, theres no sexual attraction without the presence of my aromanticism, even if the absence of romance shifts that to the left just a little bit, it warps and bends the way i interact with concepts of aestheticism and platoncism too, shifts the way i walk through this world, the greens and golds and blues and browns are a part of me as much as my very bones are, ya know, its an absence that wreaks havoc upon every other aspect of myself in the best, and sometimes worst, ways possible— but hey just call me aro, we dont gotta worry about all the intricacies of the way that the weight of it all is heavier some days more than others

[docmerlin]

"maybe it's for the best battleship isn't running this summer, i want to focus on wips" i say as i have 3 different events scheduled & like 4 others i want to participate in

[docmerlin]

ugly crying at the end of project hail mary because i was so disappointed by how it was ending and then the very last scene hit and i'm like okkkkk. yeah that's fine it's fine now

[relemenopy]

I originally made these for my bbno$ itabag but I've also just added them to my etsy!

[bbgdigest]

2023

[cosmos-dot-semicolon]

I swear to god, the number of cool conceptual songs that always go back to this...

[notschlatt]

@docmerlin do you have those songs skdjslkd

[mishmash-webster]

Hello alloromantic person. in front of you are two characters who are close friends in canon and are often shipped together by fans, including yourself. you must talk about the characters in question without saying "FRIENDS don't look at each other like that!!!!" or "FRIENDS can't be this close/devoted to one another so they HAVE to be romantic!!!!!" or any shit equivalent. if you fail the bomb goes o- and they're dead yuuuup

[docmerlin]

bbnobirthday marathon: night 1

tonight we'll be watching bbno$ music videos from 2017-2020! we'll start at 9 PM EST (15 mins from the time of this post) and end around 10:30. (what time is that for me?)

some general guidelines:

feel free to drop in and out as you please. we'll have a 5 min intermission around the halfway point

be kind to and considerate of your fellow fans; it's all good if you don't like a song/video but no need to bash it

this is for ages 16+. i know alex's music is not the most sfw but please refrain from sexually explicit comments in chat unless you're quoting a lyric or something

if you show up to talk shit about the birthday boy i will kick you out

join here stay tuned for the next event!