My friend and I were planning to go to another city for the weekend. The trip was planned for 2-3 months. Everything was okay, everything was clear. We discussed everything, booked it. A couple of days before. "I won't go." And that's it. Without any explanations.
And it's always at the last minute. It won't be at the time of planning or a few weeks before, no. It will be the day before, or a few hours after.And this is not force majeure, it's something else. Banal reluctance, a loved one, another group of friends. They will lie that they were very bad, until you accidentally find out that they were not bad at all at the time, and they were just busy with their own business. And then they will continue to pretend that everything was okay. If you start expressing all this, then you are the problem, because you are uncomfortable with it.