Cindertrolls Leave Me Alone Challenge
Sorry, I will not be putting this under a readmore because I will probably be password protecting my account soon. Feel free to reblog. I have tagged as long post.
Hi everyone! I know recently that cindertrolls has come back to the community, and that he has been going around messaging people talking about how cool their trolls are. My advice? Unless you plan on becoming rp partners with cindertrolls and never telling no, block him with NO RESPONSE for your safety and privacy, because if you actually tell him no, he will use every tool in his power to watch your blog, keep track of what you post, and who interacts with what you post.
Anyone who knows me personally knows that I do not ask others to avoid interacting with a user for my sake, PERIOD. Even in extremely turbulent personal cases, I have explicitly expressed to friends that I do not have a problem with their decision to maintain a relationship. I only advocate others be aware of the risks they’re taking when they interact with someone else. (Unless they’re like. A cp artist.)
And Cinder? Is a man with a sexually oriented RP blog, who upon me politely turning down an offer to RP, has stalked my blog to see my response to blatantly incorrect and inflammatory posts about me — going through two new internet browsers to get around blocks, ONE WITH A VPN SO HE COULD GET AROUND AN IP BLOCK. Again: Cinder downloaded a browser with a built-in VPN so he wouldn't be redirected to [this link], and then started using multiple devices to continue watch my blog. He has unfollowed people who liked this post AFTER I instituted the IP block.
We literally exchanged around 14 messages total (5 from him, 6+3 from me. Sue me if I’m off by 2.) Cinder brought up ERP within the first 6. This was over the course of two days. I committed to nothing. THERE IS NO REASON FOR HIM TO BE OBSESSED OVER ME TELLING HIM NO. There is NO reason for him to sit on my blog for a straight hour, continually refreshing to see a post for me. YOU KNOW I BLOCKED YOU. YOU KNOW I IP BLOCKED YOU. [Edit made in the middle of making this post when I was webarchiving his og accusations] YOU IP BLOCKED ME BACK but you’re STILL LOOKING AT MY BLOG!!
[CW: NSFW txt - Here is an album of just about everything I have, excluding his second rant because I literally refuse to look at it. Explanations are included in each caption.]
Again!! I NEVER wanted to Cancel you, I never had it Out For You. I just didn’t want to rp with you Cinder!! I unblocked you because I had had a couple of conversations about how ghosting men can be hurtful, and you literally confirmed above and beyond why I don’t trust (horny) men with rejection.
And given recent events, sure, I would have understood your response post if it was made out of fear.
But I do not understand you sitting on my blog, constantly refreshing, for two and a half hours, and again, I do not understand you getting MORE upset when I CONFIRMED that I didn’t think you were problematic, just someone who has a different blog philosophy.
Each step of the way, you have escalated this. There is no reason for you to keep on checking up on me. There is no reason to wait for each post of mine so you can make some typo-riddled lie-filled blatantly-missing-the-point rant!! Every time you swap browsers, download a VPN, switch devices, REFUSE to GET THE POINT that I am NOT INTERESTED IN TALKING TO YOU. You complain about misunderstandings and witch hunts, but in the end, I have given you MORE THAN ENOUGH HINTS, but YOU are the one hunting ME.
Everyone and anyone, PLEASE reblog this. I want my experience with cindertrolls to be known by everyone for THEIR own safety.