"Sand Through Your Fingers” Curse
So one of my oldest and closest friends had her children taken away by her ex-husband’s mother, and placed into her care because she was upset that my said friend divorced her controlling and bordering abusive son. I do not appreciate people hurting the people I love, so I put this curse together to not only return said kids to their rightful and loving mom, but to make sure she can never do this to anyone else.
This curse will cause the cursee to loose something of the caster’s choice, and for it to stay out of their grasp– like trying to wrap one’s fist around sand. This curse is semi-permanent– it will reverse on its own if the person involved commits to being a better person and stops this kind of destructive behavior. I used this curse to make sure this woman can never, ever have a child stay in her care again. This curse is very potent. Please only use it if the person you are cursing has done something extreme, like the example above.
-Sand, or anything with the consistency of sand (it can be artificial sand, beach sand, pond sand, coloured sand–it doesn’t matter, only the dryness and consistency does)
-A taglock for the cursee (a paper with their first and last name works–make sure it’s flammable)
-A small item related to what you want them to loose (I used a Yu-Gi-Oh! card, to represent children, as I associate it with my childhood, but use what is relevant to you)
-A dish big enough to fit your small item
-A red candle, or a candle of a colour relevant to your goal (I use red because red can symbolize anger)
-A stick, or something to mix your sand with (I used a pen)
-Cayenne Pepper, or your favourite cursing herb. Make sure it is ground-up.
+A sigil on paper to bring further misery (optional)
Steps;
Get angry. Think about what the cursee did to warrant such a curse. Get all that negativity and anger up. Light your candle and place it in front of you.
Put your dish between you and the candle and put your item in it. Think about what that item is and what it is you want them to loose–and why. Think about that importance as you pour your sand over it, until you can’t see it.
Light your taglock and sigil if you have one on fire with the candle (Be careful!) and think about the cursee. Focus on them, and all your anger and hate towards them. Let the ashes fall into the sand.
Use your mixing tool and mix the ash into the sand. When it is cool enough, use your dominant hand and start mixing it that way.
Sprinkle your cayenne pepper into it as you mix. Pinch and grab at the sand as you do, and feel it slide out of your fingers. Touch, but do not grab the item you used to represent what you want them to loose. Speak out loud what it is you want. In my case, I said “You will not hurt my friend or her children ever again. You will never take away anyone’s children again, and no child will ever stay in your care ever again. Like this sand in my fingers, they will fall from your grasp” Repeat as much as necessary, until your emotions feel like they’ve dissipated.
Take your dish outside, remove your item, and throw the sand out into the dirt to return it to the earth. Say out loud, or think with firm intent, “You can have this back after you have learned your lesson.” (I prefer my curses to have a failsafe. Change as you see fit) Optional; stomp on the sand to further hammer your intent.
Cleanse your space, your dish, and everything else you used except the sand outside. Leave it there, it will do its job.
Disclaimer; I am not responsible for your cursing or how you use this curse, but I only ask that you please only use this curse to deal with extreme situations like what I mentioned above, or excessively cruel or abusive people. Do NOT talk to me about purity, three-fold-laws, sunshine or karma, because as far as I am concerned, karma is a broken bitch.
Oh, and by the way, my friend got her children back. :)
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