Inner workings of a free mind

This blog is NSFW!!! The images in this blog are not mine. Unless otherwise noted. Under 18 get out!!!!! Just a quick blurb about me. I am in my late 30s living in Texas. I am a Dominant and have found my Princess (http://dasprincess.tumblr.com/) to use, train and rule with a firm hand. I have spent most of my life fighting personal demons and have defeated most of them. lol I have plenty of tattoos that remind me of where I have been and want to go.

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Ditto!!!

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sad posts and gifs here

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Always

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Forever! DA

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Instant chemistry….. Sarah

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Always knew, just took longer than expected to get you!

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So glad we never gave up on each other! DA

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I'm sorry Princess! DA

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Assignment

DA

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Hang in there Princess! I love you!!!

DA

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Incredible outfit! DA

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Sumptuous

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My Princess! DA

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Assignment DA

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My girlfriend is awesome.

Rope and photo = ropegeek, model = carminesays

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Assignment DA

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Pretty panties! DA

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Cute outfit! DA

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Sublime!

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3 types of self soothing thoughts

Validation - it’s ok that I hurt and want to feel better

Reassurance - I can handle this pain, even though it hurts and I don’t like it

Perspective taking: I’ve had bad days like this before, and my record of making it through them is 100%. I can also remember my better days, and know I’m not always hurting this much 

Concept from Depressed and Anxious, which is hands down the best and most useful book on DBT skills I’ve ever seen. I highly recommend it! 

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Powerful way of thinking! DA