asleep at the wheel

Evyn | 24 | they/them | white | lesbian [TERFs fuck off]

[dork-bot-blog]

I saw that you had to get rid of Ollie. I may have a few friends that can help rehome him. Which shelter is he at?

I gave him to SF animal care & control; thanks anon

[dork-bot-blog]

tumblr has become a p major source of stress/anxiety/bad brain days for me, so I'm prolly gonna just delete... I'm kinda transitioning over to twitter & I also have fb, if any of my mutuals are interested, send me an ask/message? I'm not gonna delete right away, so don't worry, cuz I'm still kinda hoping someone is gonna message me for Ollie.. :/

[bramblescrossing]

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[dork-bot-blog]

Wait, what happened to Ollie? D:

thankfully nothing, i just submitted a post to unflatteringcatselfies hoping to find him a new home, like I've been trying unsuccessfully to do for the last few months. he's still healthy and a regular pain in my ass and is also currently laying in a bullshit position on my legs, what an asshole

PSA for my fellow white people

Latino/Latina: originating from the Carribean, South or Central America. Gender neutral term (in English) is usually written as latinx.

Sentence: María was born in Ecuador, so she is Latina.

Hispanic: Spanish-speaking.

Sentence: José was born in Brazil, so he is NOT Hispanic, since his country’s official language is Portugese, but he IS considered Latino.

Mexican: from the Central American country named Mexico, NOT a language. NOTICE! not all Latinos in the US are from Mexico

Sentence: Enrique was born in Mexico, so he is Mexican. Enrique speaks Spanish, since “Mexican” is not a language. 

Chicano/Chicana/Chicanx: a person of Mexican descent (usually born in the US)

Sentence: Anna’s parents were born in Mexico, so she identifies as Chicana. Her friend Miguel’s parents are from Colombia, so he identifies as Latino.

Spanish: a language spoken by many countries all over the world/ originating from the country Spain. NOTICE! not the only language spoken in Spain or South/Central America.

Sentence: Juan was born in Madrid, so he is Spanish. He only speaks Spanish, but has friends who speak other languages.

Quechua, Catalan, Nahuatl, Gallego, Euskera: other languages spoken in countries where Spanish is the ‘official’ language. Many Hispanics are bilingual and Spanish may not be their native language.

Sentence: Alba was born in a region of Spain called Catalonia. Even though she is Spanish, she speaks Catalan with her family and friends. 

Sentence #2: Sofia was born in Mexico and does not speak “Mexican,” but her family does speak Nahuatl, a native language originating in Mexico.

That is all.

[cursethecosmos-deactivated20170]

Mandatory reading for my followers. 

[dork-bot-blog]

Fuck you for moving somewhere you couldnt kept your cat. You're throwing away an innocent friend of five years because you cant get your shit together. Gross little tomboy bitch

WOW lmfao ok u know my life so much better than me thanks! go eat shit anon! 😁👍🏻 #b slur #lesbophobia

[mockiato-deactivated20200315]

I need straight women to realize that they are 100% just as straight as straight men are, and that their opinions on homosexuality–including what it means to be a lesbian–are just as meaningless and inappropriate as straight men’s opinions are.

[the--bitch--blog]

Are you saying every straight opinion on homosexuality is meaningless?

[meangirlnurse]

yep

[chodeboy]

yep

[abomasnow]

yes ma'am

[thatdiva]

[thelonnybreauxcollection]

just so yall know the source of that bronx forced sex kidnapping ring post has been updated with information that 11 of the 14 girls have been returned home http://nymag.com/thecut/2016/06/14-teen-girls-missing-in-possible-bronx-sex-ring.html http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/bronx/pol-claim-missing-bronx-girls-prostitutes-wrong-article-1.2695098

[dork-bot-blog]

[text: 1300s: im dying from the Black Plague 1800s: I'm 9 and work in a factory 1900s: I'm off to fight in a war 2000s: I'm offended (in all caps)] posted by a 40-something white woman on fb... the best part is that I can't argue abt it at all w/o feeding into the "joke" itself!!! making fun of ppl for wanting to be treated w respect is so edgy!!!!!

[mockiato-deactivated20200315]

I need straight women to realize that they are 100% just as straight as straight men are, and that their opinions on homosexuality–including what it means to be a lesbian–are just as meaningless and inappropriate as straight men’s opinions are.

[dork-bot-blog]

I've literally never seen a cishet white guy who didn't look ugly with an undercut, but I've also never seen anyone else who didn't look cute w one so I think that means cishet white guys are now banned from having undercuts for the good of the world

[jonostarsmcre-deactivated202002]

y’all wanna praise leto for working towards the portrayal of his joker by sending disgusting gifts to his co-stars, including bullets to viola davis (despite knowing full well the current hazardous situation for many black people with the recent police shootings) but y’all sleep on all the work of the rest of the mostly POC and female cast who worked x10 harder than leto did to get into character, and were a x100 times less gross about it. jay hernandez and adewale akinnouye agbaje spent 3-5 hours each in makeup on top of a 16 hour work day. karen fukuhara had to learn how to swordfight. the cast had to basically bare their souls and tell each other their weaknesses which would be exploited by the director and other cast members in rehearsals. but sure because leto harassed his cast mates apparently he deserve all the praise…….right. 

[batmanrogues-deactivated2020021]

also it’s worth mentioning that in interviews viola davis said she was really shaken and intimidated because of the stuff he sent her and joel kinnaman also said that the “gifts” really creeped him out so before people start defending his actions, you should know it really did have an impact on the cast.

[silverstarshining]

As an actor I’d like to add that while “method acting” can be a legitimate way of maintaining character consistency, this is not method acting. It doesn’t matter if some defend his actions or say he wasn’t that bad to them or that he was just “staying in character where necessary”. This is childish and disgusting and not how a professional behaves.

[black-to-the-bones-deactivated2]

These are important things white people need to understand.

[mermaidyke]

moodboards: fat, sapphic, & proud

[lovegoodlesbian-deactivated2017]

Straight women using the term “girlfriend” to describe their platonic female friendships is not feminist; it’s not about “showing that women can be friends with each other.” It’s inherently lesbophobic. Built into the assumed platonic use of the word is the idea that women cannot have romantic/sexual relationships with each other. Straight women never use the term “boyfriend” to describe their male friends, because if they mentioned a “boyfriend” everyone would understand that word as referring to a significant other. 

If you’re a straight woman and use the term “girlfriend” to refer to a platonic friend of yours, you are by definition contributing to heteronormativity. You are actively making it difficult for people to accept relationships between women as serious and valid. 

[lezromantic-deactivated20230103]

Not straight but “girlfriend” used in a platonic sense is black specifically african american slang/AAVE. Straight black women can use it without meaning any harm. okay girlfriend. 

[reverseracism]

I was thinking exactly this when I was reading OP’s post.

Put this in the same with room with “fuck boy is a gay slur” “swag means secretly I am gay” “I hate when people use another language to address their grandparents” “AAVE is just slang and not a dialect” etc etc.

[homojabi]

Anyway, Gold Star Lesbians™ who actually buy into the gold star lesbian rhetoric that Real Lesbians would never date a man and are always 100% sure in their attraction and wouldn’t even look at a man or think they’re attracted to them don’t give a shit about other lesbians. They frequently throw young + questioning lesbians, lesbians struggling with compulsory heterosexuality, and lesbians in situations that are outside of their control under the bus without a second thought. They’re violent and implement lesbophobia on the very people they pretend to care about yet somehow manage to justify their actions by pretending like the aforementioned lesbians are somehow diluting the lesbian label and it’s pathetic tbh.