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evilkaito

i dont think whites understand how being white makes literally everything easier.

it effects everything.

being trans is easier when youre white.

being gay is easier when youre white.

being disabled is easier when youre white.

being a woman is easier when youre white.

being autistic is easier when youre white.

oppression is eased when you are white, as you get extra privileges, and your whiteness is seen as a positive characteristic that in some ways counter-balances your other forms of being a minority. whiteness controls everything.

you are automatically way more innocent in your own oppression as a gay, trans, disabled person because of your whiteness.

never forget this.

raccoon-piss

three things:

1. it’s true

2. white people get pissed when i bring this up/wear this shirt

3. the comments to this thread melted my fucking eyeballs seriously why the fuck are y’all like this

#white privilege #pinned post

meangirlpolitics

Being a successful Cool Girl is a surefire gateway to absolutely hating men. Wannabe Cool Girls, the women and girls who keep trying to be the Cool Girl but don’t quite get there, don’t realize that the Cool Girl endgame is men genuinely assuming that you’ll be down with misogyny and letting you see things that will traumatize you forever. I was a good Cool Girl for a very brief period, and it’s absolutely what radicalized me. I wish every woman knew the shit that men said to me and in front of me about them. I tried to find all the girls I had names for online to tell them the truth, and I still feel guilty, 6 years later, about the ones I couldn’t locate.

A guy proudly sent me dozens of different nudes that he was secretly screenshotting from Snapchat with some sketchy app. “How is a fat girl like a bicycle? It’s fun to ride until your friends see.” Did you know that nearly every man uses some degree of incel terminology to talk about women? “Bros before hoes” isn’t a joke - men have the strongest class solidarity I’ve ever seen in my fucking life; a man will defend another man that he hates, another man that he’s never even met, over pretty much any woman. Most men genuinely believe that women think totally differently than they do, that women are confusing liars and that’s why relationships don’t work out. Your “feminist ally” male friends and coworkers are calling you a feminazi cunt while they drink beer, and it means nothing to them. Men discuss porn like they’re phD art historians analyzing the design of a Renuar.

Most importantly, the very, very few men who aren’t like this, who didn’t actually say sexist things or talk shit about women - they never stood up to the other men. Ever. When men are alone with their bros and the Cool Girls, the “good men” still don’t say a fucking word in defense of women. If you’re the Cool Girl and you say something, you’re immediately excommunicated forever, and the “good man” texts you later to say he agreed and he’s sorry, but he doesn’t stand up for you. He knew the whole time that the moment you opened your mouth all the other men would add you to the hatable female category, and he’s not gonna risk it happening to him. And guess what? Even before you say anything, even when you’re still the Cool Girl, the guys are talking about you the same way they talk about other women when you’re not around. I heard them do it to the other Cool Girls.

penelopelima

From my experience, being the Cool Girl "rewards" you with finding out your childhood friend and all of his bros watch videos of taxi drivers raping their clients, at the age of seventeen. The men who you think are safe and normal reveal themselves as depraved monsters so casually.

darksouls2fan-deactivated202512

“incels think we only want rich tall guys but look at this fat ugly disgusting man we all want to have sex with” ok to be honest i wish the incels were just a little bit correct in this situation. you know

drachenstochter

can y'all stop saying shit like this implying fatness is inherently lesser, ugly, a character flaw, and repulsive and then pretending like you don't understand why bigger women don't trust or believe you when you claim solidarity with women, or like bigger women are overreacting? That man you're trying to insult by calling fat is never going to see it/hear it or care, but you're telling every woman in the vicinity bigger than a size 2 loud and clear how you feel about her. Y'all need to seriously stop pushing your self-hatred and hatred of normal women's bodies onto the rest of us. Find something actually objectionable to use as an insult, and go to therapy or some shit instead of perpetuating misogyny.

jaehyurb

Feederism has no place in fat liberation and yall have got to understand how offensive that is for yall to think sexualizing our bodies to the point of having EATING FOOD be a sexually arousing activity…. Disgusts me beyond words. It has nothing to do with the oppression of fat people — in fact — if fat liberation were to try and push feederism as a corner stone of fat liberation it would fucking decimate the rest of the movement, because what a fucking way to set yourselves up for failure and even more ridicule.

Yall need better coping mechanisms about how you feel about fatness and being fat. Making your existence a sexual fetish sounds like you need therapy and not a feeder.

jaehyurb

“Feeder community does SO MUCH for the movement” bc they literally make themselves fat for sexual gratification…. OFC theyre gonna leech off the fat liberation movement when these people purposefully make themselves 600 fucking pounds. Its a fucking game to them and not real life with real consequences and real life OPPRESSION!!! these people genuinely think theyre gonna look like their fat fetish furry porn after eating 72 hot dogs lets be fucking real about who we center within fat liberation right now bc the last mfs who need to be centered are a bunch of fetishists. It’s to the point that fat activists give credit to men with fat fetishes for starting fat liberation. Its so….. can you understand how that does not encourage pride? Or motivation to keep advocating if fat liberation is just gonna look like a fuckfest to normal people? How it is DEMORALIZING? Fat fetishists are not on the same wavelength as fat activists and fat liberationists.

Like its not always about saving face and image but im not going to center a bunch of people who willingly turn themselves into a fat stereotype— for sexual gratification nonetheless, in my movememt centered on the rights of fat people, especially women.

fatliberation

anti-fatness is not just body shaming.

anti-fatness is discrimination. anti-fatness is having next to no legal protections for being discriminated against. anti-fatness is being denied housing, jobs, receiving less pay and promotions (legally) because of your size. anti-fatness is being denied access to clothing, seating, transportation, and other human rights because infrastructure has been designed to exclude you. anti-fatness is less likelihood of receiving a fair trial. anti-fatness is dehumanization. anti-fatness is being denied necessary surgeries, but not surgery that amputates the digestive tract with the intent to starve and shrink you (it doesn’t work either). anti-fatness is mutilation. anti-fatness is being subject to torture devices that bolt your mouth shut. anti-fatness is being told by close friends, family, and professionals that you are better off living with an eating disorder or other life-threatening illness. anti-fatness sells you starvation as a guaranteed opt-out of oppression, but doesn’t tell you that bodies will always regain weight to survive. anti-fatness blames and punishes you for failing at an achievement that is quite literally impossible. anti-fatness is a $90 billion dollar industry. anti-fatness is being denied gender-affirming care. anti-fatness is being barred from in vitro fertilization and reproductive healthcare. anti-fatness is being barred from adopting children. anti-fatness is being removed from your loving parents because they couldn’t make you thin. anti-fatness is intentionally starving your own baby so they won’t get fat. anti-fatness is disproportionately high suicide rates. anti-fatness is being killed at the hands of medical neglect and mistreatment. anti-fatness is the world preferring a dead body over a fat one.

#~jUsT mAkE yOuR oWn ClOtHeS~ crow the smug idiots as if any of them have ever been told to do that #fast fashion is a huge problem yes but it's also a problem when even purportedly ~size inclusive~ and ~sustainable~ brands make only #tiny clothes that would never in a million years fit you. you get treated like you're frivolous or vain bc none of y'all have the first #fucking clue how bigger women have our appearance shoved in our faces over and over and over again. we're hyperconscious of the way #we look not bc we're inherently more vain or shallower than other women but bc y'all refuse to talk about anything but how we look #except when you're pretending you give a flying fuck about our ''health'' when actually it offends your delicate stick-person sensibilities #to be forced to look at a normal-sized human being existing in public bc you swallowed the lie that skinny is the default + the only #mode of health. bc you're fucking stupid and/or desperate for any kind of social clout so you're throwing other women under the bus #to assuage your fragile fucking ego...and then turning around and trying to call US vain. lol. lmfao even. y'all don't get to shove your #stupid sizeist prejudice down our throats day in and day out and then point the finger at US about being ~vain.~ even self-styled #''feminists'' LOVE to go on and on and on about how harmful the diet industry is...for skinny girls/women. regular girls/women get MAYBE #a single throwaway line as a half-assed CYA policy to shield against accusations of sizeism. or possibly simply bc normal girls/women #never even fucking occur to y'all when you're waxing poetic about how harmful the diet/beauty industries are [for skinny girls/women]#bc y'all can clearly articulate how those industries are harmful and cruel to tiny women but then turn around and admonish normal women #and act like those same predatory industries (and the ''medical'' industry getting involved on behalf of the same harmful diet/beauty #industries) are suddenly onto something when it comes to normal-sized women and we're all just hysterical and whiny and lazy and we really #ought to be grateful to you for condescending to us about our ~health.~ y'all don't give a damn about our health it just offends you when #normal non-skinny people exist in public without either constant visible/audible self-flagellation and shame or being shamed/made the butt #of the joke by everyone around us. you pretend to give a fuck as if we don't see you using fat as a shorthand for ugly undesirable stupid #and slovenly. as if you aren't using fat as an insult. as if you aren't acting like getting ''fat'' (which to half of y'all means like.#a size 3.) is the worst possible fate that could befall a person. at every turn you throw normal-sized and bigger and fat women under the #bus and then want to call US vain and too sensitive. y'all need to take a long hard look at y'all's own attitudes before you start pointing #fingers at women who have had to put up with this shit on all sides INCLUDING from women who claim to be ''feminist''#newsflash dipshit even in a perfect utopia there would be a wide range of sizes and shapes among human beings. Even 😱😱 FAT people 😱😱#fat women aren't a problem to be eradicated. size and weight aren't fucking polio or chicken pox to be eradicated with a vaccine #or by starving yourself and using exercise as a punishment. we're not going anywhere. stop pretending you gaf about health when it's #glaringly obvious the only thing you gaf about is not having to look at people bigger than you. you're part of the fucking problem #the dragon murmurs #sizeism

strawberrylovely

i actually do think it’s anti-feminist to be fatphobic and yes i do mean that

#some of y'all like to act like fat women aren't women with the way you talk and treat fatness #some of you still use fat as an insult with zero sense of self awareness #the dragon murmurs

prp1epr1ncezz

If you hate fat women kill yourself

teddykaczynski

some of yall are getting real mouthy about fat women lately and i have no tolerance for it

ode-on-a-grecian-butt

art by @enerjax.bsky.social

divorcedwife

studying history is like. here's to another beautiful day of not being pregnant and of having no obligation to ever be. thank you women who fight for abortion and contraception and independance from men for another beautiful day of not being pregnant and of having no obligation to ever be

#stop dating men stop marrying men stop having children with men

helenekuragina

you cannot make a post about how men put women in certain boxes without someone going "but what if i love the box? what if i've decided that it's comfortable in the box? are you gonna tell me i'm not ALLOWED to like the box? not very feminist of you to police a woman's decisions... maybe you'd be less ugly and miserable if you stopped talking about the box LMFAO #Girlboss #MyBox<3"

eurasianmagpies

some messy stickers clearly inspired by @bookofknives :-) dropped my paint brush 👍

thebelfry

I just learned that the Russian word for “ladybug” translates to “God’s Little Cow”

vampireapologist-archive-deacti

It’s the same in Irish! bóín Dé!

peniswizard69

in hebrew it’s “our rabbi moses’s cow”

vampireapologist-archive-deacti

Oh I love this news!!!!

pulmonary-poultry

Multiple cultures upon seeing a ladybug for the first time: “Who’s cow is this????”

thejonymyster

postilionstruckbylightning

It feels like some early humans were naming things and one of them ran out of ideas.

Human 1: (points at animal) What’s that?

Human 2: Cow.

Human 1: (points at bug) What’s that?

Human 2: … little cow.

Human 1: But it’s so much smaller. Who would have use for such a small cow?

Human 2: (panicking but in too deep to stop now) God.

derinthescarletpescatarian

The “Lady” in the name “ladybug” is the virgin Mary. People just cannot stop giving religious names to this bug.

The reason for this was that if you lived in an agrarian society then your survival was a throw of the dice every year, depending on the success of the crops. A failed crop year is a very hard year where deaths are expected. And if you grew a cereal like wheat, there were several things that could cause your crops to fail, but one of the big ones was if you happened to get a fuckton of aphids. You know what eats aphids? Ladybugs! If there are lots and lots of ladybugs around, there was a good chance that it’d be a good crop year! They were little crop protectors! When your family lives or dies on the success of that crop, of course they’d be seen as a blessing and given an appropriate name!

magical-bear-dubin

That is such an interesting etymology!!!!

And entomology too i guess

asparklethatisblue

in German they’re Marienkäfer which also pretty much means “Mary’s Beetle”

istadris

In French it’s “Good Lord’s Beast”

Not even a cow, it’s just a little Creature but we know for sure God loves it.

dent-de-l1on

In Dutch it’s “Lieveheersbeestje”, the Good Lord’s Little Beast

A liddol creeture

#in german folklore it's heavily associated with frau hölle who is a very important goddess #they're considered to be good luck as well #classic xtian L: stealing everything from everybody and claiming it's their own #the dragon murmurs

vitterdotter

I truly believe being able to name the world around you is integral to animism. learn the names of plants and flowers. learn how the rocks and soil you walk over daily form. sit with the streams and rivers, learn where they flow to and from. learn the names others have given, and give them your own as well. animism is interconnectedness, and one simple step is learning the names of your neighbors

ellam4r1a

What kind of relationship do the species in your local forest have with each other? What type of forest is it and what kind of plants like to grow there? Do the plants whose names you're learning like to grow in moist or dry spots? When do they bloom? Is your local forest in its natural state or has it been handled by humans? How can you tell?

My journey in forest mapping has brought up a lot of these questions. It's not just learning the names of plants, it's also learning about their growth environments and what makes them different. Some plants are indicators of a specific forest type. It's learning about the relationships between different species; some of them like to grow together. I have to look at the history of the forest and the structural features of it... etc.

It has been very cool to notice how my appreciation for different types of forests has changed. It's nice that I can tell the difference between a really really beautiful and "valuable" forest and less nicer ones. Species mapping has truly been amazing for my practice. It has opened up whole new layers of love for nature beyond just "oh wow what a pretty flower."

ulfheoinn-screaming-well

"that is a plant and it matters to me, i want to learn about it because plant business is my business" - genuinely a life changing quote from Simon Barnes. His books aren't spiritual or talk about animism really directly but they talk about making it so nature matters to you. And are fillrd with practical tips on how to start with botany or bird watching or really any hobby in which you're observing nature. which can seem overwhelming there's so much to see and experence in nature. His books make it seem manageable and give great jumping off points. I recommend rewild yourself and how to be a bad botanist!

femsolid

The John Wick vs Ballerina shitshow is such a perfect case study of how men make movies depending on the sex of the main protagonist. The two movies are set in the same universe with many crossovers and yet...

John Wick is male. Therefore, he gets to be an assassin in his 50s, well known by everybody, respected and considered the best of the best.

Eve is female, (yeah that's her name lol). Therefore, she's barely 18. What's her last name? Doesn't matter. She's a nobody, a literal noob who needs to learn everything.

The actress was clearly chosen for her looks and not her acting; her face barely moves.

The reason for this is that the actress is 37. It's obvious throughout the movie that our "18 years old" has done cosmetic surgery and most of her face can't move. You'd be lucky to get even a frown. Her eyebrows are stuck. The lip fillers are also distracting. It's hard to believe in a character that looks so out of place.

John Wick spends most of the movies injured in some ways and with lots of scratches on his face. He's always in pain. That's almost the point of the movies. Grunting, grimacing, bleeding, sweating, but still fighting.

Meanwhile, Eve looks like an instagram model with the stereotypical neoteny (baby face) and with filters on. She has no credibility.

She's always wearing lots of mascara and lip gloss and her face looks "perfect" (uncanny) no matter how many people she fights! Not a scratch until the very end of the movie! Lip gloss still on! Hair perfect! Magic! Again, no credibility.

For her first fight, she's wearing a sexy dress and heels. We even see her underwear. Imagine John Wick fighting dressed like that. Suddenly it'd be comedic. She wears heels for the entire movie.

The main character is not named Ballerina as we've seen, that's just the name of the movie because it's girly tee-hee.

John Wick and the actor portraying him are considered impactful enough to carry the movie, and therefore, the movie posters only show John Wick/Keanu Reeves. Even the names of the movies are simply "John Wick."

For Ballerina the movie poster is pink (girl girl girl get it? tee-hee) and she's either wearing the sexy dress or figures in the middle of a multitude of characters with the word "John Wick" because the directors didn't feel like her character could carry the movie. Indeed it can't. Because they can't make a female character.

Misogyny really impairs men's creativity. What's a female character, if not a "barely legal" doll?

anjomecanico

Mental hospitals being mixed-sex is a human rights violation

blueinthefaceangel

Books with Butch Leads

This list is for thirsty butches and femmes who need to read a good book. You’re Welcome.

All the Pretty Things Rae D Magdon

Departure from Script by Jae

Second Nature by Jae

Backwards to Oregon by Jae

The Cain Casey Series by Ali Vali

Homecoming By Nell Stark

The Princess and the Prix by Nell Stark

Micky Knight Series by J.M Redmann

Emma Victor Book Series by Mary Wings

Winds of Fortune by Radclyffe

The Color of Love by Radclyffe

Above All, Honor by Radclyffe

Blind Eye Mystery series by Diane and Jacob Anderson-Minshall

A Royal Romance by Jenny Frame

Unexpected by Jenny Frame

Royal Rebel by Jenny Frame

Heart of the Pack by Jenny Frame

Courting the Countess by Jenny Frame

Sword of the Guardian by Merry Shannon

Crybaby Butch by Judith Frank

The Harder She Comes: Butch Femme Erotica by D.L King

Sometimes She Lets Me: Best Butch Femme Erotica by Tristan Taormino

Back to Basics: A Butch-femme Anthology by Therese Szymanski

A Touch of Temptation by Julie Blair

Playing Passion’s Game by Lesley Davis

Built to Last by Aurora Rey

Butch Girls Can Fix Anything by Paula Offutt

Goldenseal by Gill McKnight

Heart of the Game by Rachel Spangler

Choices Book Series by Skyy

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