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@dragonscannotfly
This is a manipulation tactic that men use to make it such a pain in the ass to set a boundary with them that you don’t attempt it again
^What they said. Don’t give them an inch. They have absolutely no idea what to do once this tactic doesn’t work.
“Ok fine I’ll just never speak again.”
“Good deal. You should never speak ever.”
It’s so important to be a role model and give young girls GOOD advice. I still regret the fact that I went to a “sex positive liberal” for advice when I was 17. She told me sex was going to be extremely painful “but you have to do it someday so might as well get it over with”. Other women told me theirs was painful and they bled, but that’s normal for your first time. No one asked me why I felt like I should be having sex. If you tell young girls not to have sex, people scream at you like you’re a religious nut, and not someone who’s trying to give that young girl more time. I wish I had more time to understand my body, I wish I had more time to be more firm. I wish I had more time to actually think about my upbringing and how that affects my view. I wish someone mentioned socialization and desiring male approval at your own expense. My body is so personal, and worth a lot more. It’s worth more than any Guy’s desire to cum. I spent a lot of time having sex JUST so that time it’ll be better. Just cuz he wore me out. Having sex that meant nothing to me, as he’s masturbating with my body, I would be saying to myself “sex isn’t sacred, sex doesn’t define me, I should be able to do this and not feel bad”. None of my bullshit erased the fact that I didn’t wanna do it. That I just let it happen to me and hated myself afterwards every time. If young girls come to you for advice. I know you might be tempted to be all “ have sex don’t be ashamed” but please be careful with your words. You might be the convincing she needed to do something she didn’t want or wasn’t ready for.
Woman doing the cleaning and cooking in an advert on TV ? Woah that’s so sexist and degrading and will influence people and reinforce gender roles and woah imagery in adverts can have a powerfull impact we must protest this ! First page on pornhub : «Daddy fucks daughter while mom is out», «Sluts destroyed and drink piss», «Teaching a whore a lesson», «Black cunt dominated by white dick», «Petite teen used and abused», woah, this is totally cool, sexy and liberating, nothing wrong with this, this has no effect whatsoever on viewers, the brain becomes suddenly immune, no negative influence on how men treat women, anyway why are you such a prude you need to get fucked heyyy
Media is sexist except for the biggest media conglomerate of them all: porn! For some reason!
Not to mention people don’t masturbate to those commercials, while porn is made to masturbate to misogyny
Thoughts when your girl looking too good #HaHaDavis
@nevertrustamanwho ^^
Yikes
Is this supposed to be funny or?
These kind of behaviors pass for humor because abusing and possessing women are so normalized. This is why it’s important for women to read up on abuse and educate themselves so they stand a chance against it, because society sees many abusive behaviors as normal, and how can we recognize it as abuse or something that’s wrong if it’s just normal? If everybody’s laughing?
You know what I’m just gonna hijack this post and every one of them I happen to see:
Read Why Does He Do That by Lundy Bancroft so you’ll understand why the behavior of man in the video is potentially abusive
what the FUCK, he pulls out a gun?
Holy shit I was too focused listening and looking at his face I didn’t even see that.
Scratch my “potentially” above!
woman: I feel personally victimised by men because they keep abusing women, including myself
man: well I feel personally victimised because men are getting CALLED OUT for abusing women 😥
10th rule of misogyny: The worst thing about male violence is that it makes men look bad.
“When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags”
— Wanda Pierce (Bojack Horseman)
My GF was dragged into a storage room and violently raped a few years ago by a coworker while working at a supermarket. When she first told me about it about a week ago,I obviously felt bad for her and held a lot of anger toward her rapist. After a while though, I began to imagine myself as her rapist whenever we would have sex. It turned me on a lot and still does. Anybody else had similar feelings? - from r/sex... men are really monsters
i don’t know what to say except there is really no hope for men
this is why I legit don’t feel bad when I say certain people should die it’s just facts
I can’t with this dude not even showing the slightest of remorse like “is there something wrong with me” nah he goes and ask “anyone had similar experience?” so he can be reassured that he’s not the only one and feel justified because “other men feel like this too”
^^^
Any man you know could be one of the men posting this kind of stuff online
Not to be Rude™️ but sometimes it feels like men don’t actually care about each other, much less their own issues. Almost every time I see a male issue brought up (ie: being a victim of molestation or sexual assault), it’s almost always brought up as a reaction to women. So like there will be a story about something that happened to a man and the conversation shifts to “I bet you feminists won’t talk about this” or “but if a woman did this” or “but this happens to men too” or something along those lines. A lot of males’ “compassion” for one another seems reactionary; the goal seems to be to shift the attention from women and back onto them but they never seem to actually do anything to help each other. In fact they joke about their pain (literally a running gag in media is males getting raped in prison or just laughing in general when a man/boy is assaulted by a male or female). It has me wondering if men genuinely want to help each other/themselves or do they just want women to stop talking.
hard post OP… until reading this now, it never really clicked for me that prison rape jokes in media (and IRL) are, yeah, mostly made by men and male writers. I’ve seen so many men point to that phenomenon as proof that society doesn’t care about male victims and thinks that rape against men is a joke… but like… ‘society’ is other men. MEN don’t care about EACH OTHER, and they joke about male rape victims, and then turn around and use what they do to argue that women aren’t specifically targeted by sexism and rape culture.
This is really interesting, I think it’s reasonable to argue that they don’t care about other men as class but only about themselves individually.
I think they only care about each other when a rapist or otherwise violent man is threatened with consequences
Because if a man suffer the consequences of his actions that means other men will too and this is a threat to them
If someone tells you that they don’t like to be touched, that’s not an open invitation for you to keep touching them because you think it’s funny.
Never trust a man who does that
Revenge porn site owner wants his photos removed from Google
So incase you havent heard, Craig Brittain, the owner of a now banned website which encouraged and provided a platform for men to post private and nude photographs of their ex girlfriends online has now asked Google to remove links to stories about him as they feature ‘unauthorised photographs’ of him. How about we make his sad ugly mug a little bit more well known. As I think thats fair.
A man reaps what he sows. Here we have such a man.
The internet doesn’t forget
Source: https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2015/02/revenge-porn-boss-wants-google-to-remove-his-identity-related-info/
Anyway, this is him:
Keep reblogging to make sure his legacy lives on! :)
I reblogged this so fast lmao
freud: EVERY dude wants to fuck his mom and and EVERY girl wants to fuck her dad and also wants to be a man secretly
men: WOW!!!!!!!!!
“In the 1890s, when Freud was in the dawn of his career, he was struck by how many of his female patients were revealing childhood incest victimization to him. Freud concluded that child sexual abuse was one of the major causes of emotional disturbances in adult women and wrote a brilliant and humane paper called “The Aetiology of Hysteria.” However, rather than receiving acclaim from his colleagues for his ground-breaking insights, Freud met with scorn. He was ridiculed for believing that men of excellent reputation (most of his patients came from upstanding homes) could be perpetrators of incest. Within a few years, Freud buckled under this heavy pressure and recanted his conclusions. In their place he proposed the “Oedipus complex,” which became the foundation of modern psychology. According to this theory any young girl actually desires sexual contact with her father, because she wants to compete with her mother to be the most special person in his life. Freud used this construct to conclude that the episodes of incestuous abuse his clients had revealed to him had never taken place; they were simply fantasies of events the women had wished for when they were children and that the women had come to believe were real. This construct started a hundred-year history in the mental health field of blaming victims for the abuse perpetrated on them and outright discrediting of women’s and children’s reports of mistreatment by men.”
— Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
Why Does He Do That? [EPUB] and [PDF]
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK ARE YOU KIDDING ME
its 2017 men still don’t understand the concept of “tell a girl if all you want from her is sex and don’t pretend you want more” and their dumbass response is “ok but they say no” LIKE SURPRISE!!! Women are allowed to say no to you if they don’t want just sex! SHOCKERRER THEY CHOOSE WHO THEY ALLOW ACCESS TO THEIR BODY WOW. WILD CONCEPT!!
It’s ppl out here who want casual sex find them! Don’t trick someone who told you I want more into thinking it’s more. You piece of shit.
I feel like literally all conversations where women give basic advice to men on common decency follows this pattern
Women: hey, you should actually communicate your intentions so women can decide for themselves if they want to do what you want. don’t try to trick, manipulate, or coerce women into doing what you want.
Men: Okay but if I don’t try to control women and instead let them decide for themselves, then they might decide to NOT do what I want. So obviously that strategy isn’t logical. God, women’s advice makes no sense at all.
sure he’s well versed in leftist theory but does he do the dishes
this is such a succinct critique of male leftists who think of it as theory only & won’t even get off their ass to clear the table
@spock-and-uhuras-jam-band literally lmao
She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink
I remember my wife often saying how exhausting it was for her to have to tell me what to do all the time. It’s why the sexiest thing a man can say to his partner is “I got this,” and then take care of whatever needs taken care of.
I always reasoned: “If you just tell me what you want me to do, I’ll gladly do it.”
But she didn’t want to be my mother. She wanted to be my partner, and she wanted me to apply all of my intelligence and learning capabilities to the logistics of managing our lives and household.
She wanted me to figure out all of the things that need done, and devise my own method of task management.
I wish I could remember what seemed so unreasonable to me about that at the time.
It’s not just about equal division of labor. It’s also about, “this thing is important to her. If he ignores it, he’s saying that what she wants is irrelevant to him.”
And that’s a guy saying, “I’m only spending time with you because it’s pleasant for me.” He’s already decided what’s “really” important, and her input is not welcome.
If he won’t do the dishes and laundry, he’s looking for fun, not a partnership. And his “leftist” ideals will be the same–something he studies because it’s interesting to him; a form of activism that he thinks will bring him a better life. If he can’t do household tasks that matter to a person he loves, he sure as hell can’t support policies that help people whose struggles he doesn’t even acknowledge are real.
Never trust a man who treats you like his servant
Abusive parents act like it’s soo horrible to accuse them of abuse, it’s so painful for them to handle even the slightest implication that they might have done something abusive or cruel, they always talk like any guilt put on them is a sin and an act of selfishness and cruelty, but at the same time, they push all that guilt, blame, shame, and feeling of being an irredeemable monster, on a child. It’s wrong when done to them, who deserved it, but completely normal to do it to a child, who will be stuck with feelings of self hatred, shame and guilt for the rest of their life. Because of something done to them.
And they will literally use the child’s awareness of how horrible it is to feel guilty of these sins, to make the child feel too sorry for them to place responsibility on them! The parents are somehow not strong enough to carry the weight of their own crimes, but the child has to do it, the child has to gather the strength to feel like a monster in their stead. I’m sick of this hypocrisy. If they aren’t strong enough to carry the weight of their crimes they shouldn’t have done any. Placing such burden on child’s life, on top of all the abuse, is act of cowardice and dishonors them from being a human being. Children aren’t responsible for your cruelty. They’re not responsible for anyone’s.
