Dreaming of Our Forever

25 & still in love with my high school sweet heart. Wife + Puppy Momma + Adventurer 

[pushphil413-blog]

“There are three questions every woman should be able to answer yes to before they commit to a man. If you answer no to any of the three questions, run like hell.” #Slammed

[kari-shma]

Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish it’s source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.

Anais Nin (via kari-shma)

[dreamingofourforever]

Dear Justin,

In any relationship I’ve ever been in, I’ve always felt that the other person cares more about me than I was ever able to care about them. I just sat back like I was wearing a fake smile until I get bored with not having my feelings grow into anything more meaningful, and then we end up breaking it off in one way or another. It scares me sometimes, because with you, it’s different. You’re the only one where it’s the other way around, and I always end up thinking that maybe I love you more than you love me, because I can’t see how someone else can possibly love another person as much as I love you without their heart bursting into a million little pieces. It scares me because now I’m on the other end, like I’m just waiting for that moment where you get bored with me and run into someone better at the same moment. It scares me that you are actually holding my entire heart, I’m not one to let my gaurd down; I know how much it would absolutely kill me if you ever changed your mind about us. I’ve never felt so vulnerable before, and  I think that’s what love really is; giving 110% of yourself to someone else, and trusting they’ll love you back just as much, even if it feels like your sitting out on a limb trusting the other person with your very life. Okay, so maybe I’ll fall, and I know I’ll get hurt if I do. But I love you too much not to take that risk. Trust me when I say, I love you a million times more than you think I do, and every day it only gets better, I promise.

xoxo

[dreamingofourforever]

Voiceover: turns out her gut was right all those years ago, and she DID love him more than he loved her.

[longdistancekindoflove]

“I hope you fall in love with someone who never lets you fall asleep thinking you’re unwanted.”

— Unknown (via h0lycake)

[ocean-mindedyouth]

“Don’t be selfish. If you do not love the way her hair curls at the ends or her nose wrinkles when she laughs then let her go. If you don’t see her as a fucking masterpiece then let her go, because someone else will. Don’t be selfish. If you don’t love the way she sneezes or the way she dribbles the toothpaste down her chin when she brushes her teeth then let her go. If your heart doesn’t almost beat out of your chest when you wake up and the first thing you see is her soundly sleeping on your shoulder. Someone else would kill for that. Being with someone when you know you don’t love them is cruel. It’s not only cruel it’s holding them back from someone that could give them everything. Someone that feels waves breaking in their ribcage when they see her walk around the corner. Someone that has had the worst of days, but rainbows suddenly appear at the thought of her. Someone who hears the sound of her voice and it soothes the darkest of nightmares. If that is not you, let her go. She is wonder, she is magic, she deserves someone who believes that every single day, not just on certain days.”

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(via

arrowspointnorth)

[linds65]

“he told me I deserved the world but he never once tried to give it to me”

— something I should have realised a long time ago (via nhude)

[raphaelalaurean]

During the phase of your life where you are learning to move forward, it is a real blessing when you have an epiphany that helps you to let go. 😍 #fit #fitness #fitmom #goals #mytime #divorce #gymlife #positive #motivation #singlemom #survival #inspiration #neverquit #children #singlemom #life #likeagirl #iifym #bikini #bodybuilding #weight #loss #transformation #sweat #quote #moveon #letsgo

[hotephoetips-deactivated2017080]

what if i told you that it isn’t a woman’s responsibility to keep a man from cheating on her?

[psych-facts]

You are not clingy, or needy, or silly for having needs for affection and affirmation and attention within a romantic relationship. Those needs aren’t an embarrassing outgrowth of your low-self esteem or depression or whatever messy emotional issues you may have going on, that’s just basic shit that people need from each other. We of course should not make our partners responsible for meeting all of our emotional needs – it’s not someone’s else’s job to make you happy. But inside a healthy relationship, being able to show affection, pay attention, and demonstrate “you are amazing and important to me” is a pleasure, not some task or burden.

Jennifer Peepas (via psych-facts)

[jane-eyyyre]

I hope you fall in love With someone who always texts back and never lets You fall asleep thinking you’re Unwanted. I hope you fall in love with someone Who holds your hand during the scary parts of Horror movies and burns Cookies with you when you’re Too busy dancing around the Kitchen. I hope you fall in love with Someone who sees galaxies in your eyes And hears music in your Heartbeats. I hope you fall in love with someone who Tickles you and makes you smile On hard days and on easy Ones. But beyond all that I hope You fall in love with someone Who will never leave you behind And who will never take you For granted, someone who Will stand by you when you’re Right and stand by you When you’re wrong, Someone who has seen you at your worst And has loved you Still. I hope you fall in love With someone who Kisses you in the rain And hugs you in the cold and Wouldn’t have you any other Way.

minuty (via perfect)

[slugly]

I hope you fall in love with someone who never lets you fall asleep thinking you’re unwanted.

Unknown (via h0lycake)

[be-fearless-brave-and-kind]

Don’t be selfish. If you do not love the way her hair curls at the ends or her nose wrinkles when she laughs then let her go. If you don’t see her as a fucking masterpiece then let her go, because someone else will. Don’t be selfish. If you don’t love the way she sneezes or the way she dribbles the toothpaste down her chin when she brushes her teeth then let her go. If your heart doesn’t almost beat out of your chest when you wake up and the first thing you see is her soundly sleeping on your shoulder. Someone else would kill for that. Being with someone when you know you don’t love them is cruel. It’s not only cruel it’s holding them back from someone that could give them everything. Someone that feels waves breaking in their ribcage when they see her walk around the corner. Someone that has had the worst of days, but rainbows suddenly appear at the thought of her. Someone who hears the sound of her voice and it soothes the darkest of nightmares. If that is not you, let her go. She is wonder, she is magic, she deserves someone who believes that every single day, not just on certain days.

(via

arrowspointnorth)

[universus-pantheism]

This is your birth.

[nhude]

he told me I deserved the world but he never once tried to give it to me

something I should have realised a long time ago (via nhude)

[quoted-books]

You made me happy and you made me laugh, and if I could do it all over again, I would not hesitate. Look at our life, at the trips we took, the adventures we had. As your father used to say, we shared the longest ride together, this thing called life, and mine has been filled with joy because of you.

Nicholas Sparks, The Longest Ride (via quoted-books)

[whiteweddingbliss-blog]

This elopement is beyond stunning. Photographed by Ryan Flynn in beautiful La Push, Washington. 

[read-and-liked]

And yet, in truth it is in the quiet details of our life together where I have found the most meaning. Your smile at breakfast always made my heart leap, and the moment in which you reached for my hand never failed to reassure me of the rightness of the world. So you see, choosing a handful of singular events feels wrong to me—instead, I prefer to recall you in a hundred different galleries and hotel rooms; to relive a thousand small kisses and nights spent in the familiar comfort of each other’s arms.

Nicholas Sparks, The Longest Ride (via read-and-liked)