Degenerate Diner

Early 30s She/Her Stud born a sub.

[duchessdirectme]

Hello, and welcome to the Diner.

Call me Duchess, I'll be your waitress for the duration.

🔒You must be 21+ to ride this ride. men, minors, racists, and bigots of all flavors DNI.🔒

Among other things I'm into video games, literature, tv/movies, and whiskey. I love music from classical to the billboard top 100's. I like to write and once upon a time I used to write poetry. I'd like to own a whiskey label someday. Here is a list of specifics.

♌ I'm 32y.o. 5'10 and my pronouns are She/Her.

🏳️‍🌈 Bisexual with a heavy, heavy preference for women.

The universe saw fit to uncage kinks I wasn't aware I had; imagine my surprise as some very subby puzzle pieces slid into place! I made this blog to explore that. I'm mainly going to be reblogging anything that tickles my kinky side. I'll also be posting my own musings as I process this part of myself.

📨DMs are open.

I like meeting new people and learning new things. Be sure to dust off those communication skills cuz ya girl is chatty.

😏A little casual flirting never hurt anybody, least of all me, so don't be shy but do be over the age of 21 because talking to anyone younger than that makes me uncomfortable.

Single and looking to make connections or find community. I'm working on myself and not seeking a serious relationship

Be sure you engage respectfully or I'm liable to hurt your feelings.

NSFW below the cut

📋The Kink Menu:

✨Yes/Into: Submission, praise & degradation, service topping, leash play, and marking.

🤔Curious/Exploring: Impact play, CNC, pet play/puppy play, bondage, orgasm control, edging.

🛑Hard Limits: Fluids (piss, scat, vomit, blood), bugs, inc*st and whips.

If your order isn't listed on the menu please ask your waiter about substitutions. The kitchen is open to learning new recipes and always expanding it's offerings.

[made0fsugar]

making me feel wanted gets me wet

[444asa]

i don't know if i want to ride a girls thigh or if i want a girl to ride my thigh 🤔🤔 hmm... maybe both?

[pawtheticpuppyboy]

I think when a sub says "you can do whatever you want to me" what they're actually wanting is to not make decisions anymore, and they think by saying this they can foist the decision making off on the dom without having to do any of the work beforehand. But unfortunately to get to the Not Making Choices part of kink you do in fact have to make a Lot Of Choices beforehand and communicate those choices to your partner. This is an essential part of the process and skipping it is both unsafe and unfair for whoever you're playing with.

Not Making Choices is the reward for communicating clearly, not the default

[duchessdirectme]

Learning that you gotta give communication to get your fill of domination has really pushed me to consider the ways in which I failed to communicate in past relationships, the ways my partners didn't communicate, and how I can avoid those failures in the future.

Communication really is key.

[prettydesireee]

i strongly believe aftercare is more intimate than sex itself - especially when they give it genuinely, when they want to do it, not just because they should do it.

the fact both people have just seen each other in - probably - the most vulnerable positions both mentally and physically, and yet still show nothing but gentle affection towards each other afterwards makes it even more important than sex.

[bwaowzers]

Yeah, this.

Having had partners who just do not understand aftercare at all I fully agree. Without aftercare you just get this deep ingrained feeling of… Almost regret? Maybe more a kind of betrayal? It’s extremely unsettling especially after baring your full self to a person you thought would comfort you after being so vulnerable with them.

Aftercare is so unbelievably important, even if you don’t know what you’re doing. It’s really easy to fall into trying to be good at sex but not knowing what to do afterwards. Get a towel, clean your partner off, help them get comfortable. Cuddle them as much as you can without suffocating them. Whisper sweet nothings. Make them feel seen and loved, while they try to do the same for you.

[yourhandsomemountainbutch]

Love the thought of my femme wearing my shirt, panties pulled to the side, and my strap buried in her pretty cunt

[etherealviolets77]

I need her to finger fuck me while she talks dirty to me in a soft sweet tone, not breaking eye contact and occasionally planting kisses on my cheeks and lips…

“Yeah? Does it feel good, baby? You take my fingers so fucking well. I’m not gonna stop.. I’m not gonna stop, don’t worry. Fuck you’re so beautiful.. your body is beautiful.. your tits, your tummy, your pussy, your eyes.. these lips.. I love kissing these lips. Keep moaning.. keep moaning for me.. my fingers feel good? Yeah..?”

[cannibalcaprine]

TIP: in the event of REALLY HIGH, you can HUMP ANOTHER GIRL like a PLUSHIE for like half an hour have the BEST ORGASM OF YOUR LIFE about it

[prettybutchvenus]

I just feel like if you really wanted me as bad as you claim to you would put me in a collar with your name on it. and yet I remain uncollared…

[femininomenonasf]

please take me upstairs at a party. please push me against the door of a random bedroom. please start touching me. please force me to be quiet because everyone’s just downstairs. please make me cum with one hand over my mouth and the other moving in and out of my pussy. please force me to act like nothing happened even though im still dripping.

[starrfemme]

you should prob spank me until i can’t think anymore. i’m sure that would solve whatever problem either of us is having.

[duchessdirectme]

This scene was instrumental in my queer awakening. How the actual hell did it take me until my 30s to realize I'm a sub with what this did to me back then?

[halfdeaddyke]

you can totally show me your tits as friends! we can totallyyy rub our clits together and get off to the sound of each other’s whines (as friends, of course!)

[hypno-angel]

What?! No, I didn't get wet at the sound of your voice! I'm totally normal and it happened for... other... reasons-

[hugmeonce]

just imagine a femme so fucking needy and horny that shes riding my strap and fucking herself so hard and deep right on top of me. to the point where im trying to take back control but she holds me down and keeps fucking herself faster and deeper. she’s basically fucking herself on me, rolling her hips and all you can hear are the messy slaps with every thrust. she’s taken full advantage of me for her own fix and getting exactly what she came for

[duchessdirectme]

This, but I never had control and I'm not trying to take it.

[countrybunny]

Making out with someone and hearing them whine and whimper into your mouth is so so hot but so is whining/whimpering into someone’s mouth and feeling their lips curl into a smile as they chuckle at you between kisses, only encouraged to do more at your sounds.

[unicornthots]

being bratty but only because im waiting to be slapped into submission