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Basics:
Alex. 31. She/Her. Butch Lesbian.
18+ only NO MINORS. NO MEN, SAPPHICS ONLY.
Do NOT call me queer or use they/them.
I prefer masculine terms (sir, handsome, etc)
Blog Rules:
If I don’t like your vibe, or you’re annoying, I’ll block you.
I am open to DMs with mutuals as long as you aren’t weird.
Content:
I post my OPINIONS on things, some of which is divisive.
Notably, I’m kink critical of things like:
> ageplay/regression/DDLG - it’s pedophilia-lite, full stop. > Consenting-Non-Consent - to me, consent needs to be actively given (which is why somnophilia makes me uncomfortable, also). > Scat/Watersports - does this need an explanation? lmao. > Hardcore “rough sex” - it’s borderline abuse, often rooted in misogyny, especially with heterosexuals and being categorized under “BDSM” does not make it free from criticism.
To be LGBTQ is to experience some kind of same-gender attraction and/or be trans/non-binary. Anything else, is not LGBTQ. Asexuality is not inherently LGBTQ (e.g. if you are cis/het but asexual, you are not in the community.) The split-attraction model is meant for asexuals to express their romantic interests; it is harmful to be applied to non-asexuals (ergo, bi/pan lesbians are bi/lesbo/transphobic all in one!) Anyone arguing about this can argue with the wall because you’ll be ignored!
My blog, my rules. Don’t like it, don’t follow.
