my name is so smart amirite

it/she | trans girl | techum (computers mainly) | I don't accept dms so if u DM me ure getting blocked

[e-strogen]

My main account: @pawnist

just an Arab Black trans girl ♡(˃͈ દ ˂͈ ༶ ) (additionally intersex and disabled)

Completely open to being friends c: I'm serious please be friends with me I need more transfem friends (╥‸╥)

[e-strogen]

before anything I would like to say fuck transmedicalists and 4channers if you're one of them or GOD FORBID both you are NOT welcome in the trans community

[e-strogen]

I won't ever have any sympathy for transmeds + 4channers cus if you keep being miserable I'm not letting u ruin my day. keep making dysphoria your whole personality and keep making your whole life miserable #sorry

[e-strogen]

before anything I would like to say fuck transmedicalists and 4channers if you're one of them or GOD FORBID both you are NOT welcome in the trans community

[e-strogen]

Talking about transfem abusers and putting their gender front and center is obviously okay but if you DARE talk about transmasc or enby abusers you will be harassed off this site. how hilarious (saddening)

[brave-enchanter-1203]

Yes, the “rape organ” is real.

Recently I have seen an uptick in transfeminists saying things like “a penis does not inherently make someone more able to commit sexual assault”. I’d like to push back on this because it’s so plainly wrong in my opinion.

Plain and simple, the penis is a weapon. Amab people are biologically equipped with a part that, when inserted somewhere, brings them pleasure, even if it hurts the receiving end. (This too goes for trans men who have received a phalloplasty, of course)

Those with vaginas often don't cum from penetration, meaning often penetrative sex is more about the pleasure of those with the phallus, effectively rendering the penetrated as a passive object for the penetrator’s pleasure. On top of that, people with a vagina don't have the possibility of effectivelly reversing roles and making people with penises into passive objects for their orgasm while not giving them one.

This is why the penis is more of a weapon, or as some would put it “the rape organ”.

[e-strogen]

Fuck you terf

[lefayfolkwitch]

As a tme trans person I really wish I could help other tme trans people grasp when trans women and other tma trans people talk about tme people in a general way they're generally talking about the majority of the population, not just tme trans people, let alone just transmasc people. Like, tme includes cis men, cis woman, trans men, transmasc nonbinary people, and all other nonbinary people who aren't transitioning into femininity. I see a lot of outraged tme trans people, especially transmasc people acting as if tma people are specifically talking about them, but tme literally refers to the majority of the population. That being said, if the criticism applies to you, you should work on that... not get pissed off someone is calling you out

[kayla-denker]

Hey, I am genuinely asking this:

Do any of y'all know of examples of stories where the villain is transmasc? I literally do not know of a single one.

But I can name four examples of stories where the villain is transfem off the top of my head without even googling it.

[malignedmare]

“tme/tma are TERF dogwhistles” <- guy who could not identify a dogwhistle if he was a cocker spaniel

[e-strogen]

terf dog whistle is when. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Trans terms . . . . . . . . . ❓❓❓

[e-strogen]

With the way people talk about trans women with fetishes will make you think they're talking about adolf hitler supporters, sure do wonder why they don't talk about them..

[tankie-transfeminist]

the way people talk about trans women with fetishes will make you think they're adolf hitler wannabes talking about the holocaust

[e-strogen]

Just some words of positivity:

Don't base your value off beauty or what you give to the table, you, yourself, and thou are already extremely valuable to the world.

You are super important to everybody you meet, I MEAN IT!! you give light to everybody's world!

You aren't a political statement, you are a human being who is worthy of being liberated and loved for who they are.

Give yourself a break off the politics and fighting for what's right, treat politics like a side job, and help when you absolutely can!

[e-strogen]

spread truth these people hate transfems

[precociouspuppet]

hi everyone, puppet again. twice terminated today.

as always, it and its partner are homeless and disabled trans women living purely off donations from tumblr as they keep terminating us both every single day, and we still badly need support as we're going to be fully on the streets again in less than a month. please keep reblogging this aid post, and its paypal is here. anything would be greatly appreciated

remember: puppet loves you! please don't forget it.

[e-strogen]

With the way people talk about trans women with fetishes will make you think they're talking about adolf hitler supporters, sure do wonder why they don't talk about them..

[i-got-a-penis-yall]

TRANS PEOPLE CONSIDERING SURGERY- READ THIS PLEASE GENUINELY I AM BEGGING YOU IT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE

If you are getting gender affirming surgery, especially if it’s your first major surgery, PLEASE be aware that you can become SEVERELY depressed afterwards ESPECIALLY if you have a history of depression or suicidal ideation.

Post op depression is a natural reaction to the crazy mix of hormones your body goes through after major surgery as well as the stress and anxiety of recovery. Think of it like an adrenaline crash, but dragged out longer.

For me it kicked in about 6 weeks after top surgery and the worst of it lasted until about 10 weeks post op. EVERYTHING felt IMPOSSIBLE. None of the skills I’d been practicing worked. I thought everything was going to be bad forever. I didn’t attempt, but I was in the hospital. If it wasn’t for my support system I probably would have attempted.

This is not regret, but it can feel like it. I remain happy about my results to this day (going on six years later).

This is not you failing to maintain your mental health, but it can make you feel like a failure.

Things are not hopeless, but through the haze of this depression they can feel hopeless.

It can be terrifyingly sudden or it can sneak up on you. I didn’t even realize what was going on until after the depression finally passed and my mental health went back to normal.

I am writing this post because nobody told me about this before my top surgery. I was caught completely off guard. For my subsequent surgeries being aware has made all the difference. Being able to treat those symptoms as an expected and normal part of the healing journey has made them far easier to deal with. Because even when my emotions go to dark places I *know* they will pass. I have been able to tell the bad thoughts to take a bad seat and focus on healing.

PLEASE have a plan in place for if this happens. I know that this topic is taboo because of how often our mental health is weaponized against us, but I desperately want every single person getting gender affirming surgery to be aware of, and have a plan for post operative depression.

[e-strogen]

regardless of what you think of trans women who use TMA/TME, it's extremely insensitive to use "oppression olympics" when trans women are banned from the.. OLYMPICS.

[e-strogen]

White trans women, and generally white trans people in general, PLEASE listen to SWANAn trans voices, it is especially important at this time, very especially at a time where the Palestinian genocide is happening, while trans people are getting murdered and are getting "corrective" rape. It is extremely important. PLEASE use the privilege that you have, and speak out louder than ever, we desperately need it.

[e-strogen]

Why are trans men, and generally non-transfems allowed to be kinky and have full-on fetish blogs? Why are trans men allowed to have puppyplay kinks, but if a trans woman has an ageplay kink, suddenly she's a pedophile, a child predator, an abuser, literally hitler, and all of the transphobic slurs in the book?

Why are non-transfems allowed to be kinky in "weird" ways but once a trans woman has a kink that she plays in private, shes constantly sexually harassed and possibly even doxxed?

Why aren't trans women allowed to be adults that have fetishes and literally just normal sexual behaviour that they act consensually with another adult? Why not?

[tankie-transfeminist]

this is transfeminism!

[e-strogen]

It's like winning an award