heaven can wait

noah, 31, they/them angel, dyke

[shes-unforgettable]

This is my new favourite image ever

[ppups]

[7bitter]

nobody even knows how normal i am on account of my being obviously crazy

[squid----s]

Might be my best yet

[iamanewvagina101]

what r ur kinks

I'm consumed by grief

[gatheringbones]

an under-reported benefit of retracting energy from painful relationships that no longer serve you is no longer having to go through the draining and distressing experience of failing to perform the role expected of you. you get to spend more and more hours of your day as something other than a failed daughter, or a failed friend, or a failed servant.

[gatheringbones]

or rather, you enter a state of stable failure? the status of your acquired failed state is flat; it has no peaks and valleys, there are no sudden spikes of increased failure, the relationship is just done. on pause. a save file you will in all likelihood never return to.

[gatheringbones]

best tactic you can steal from therapists to help your loved ones is to give them loving respectful advice based on what they actually need to grow and thrive not on what you need to say to protect the status quo in the relationships you all share together

[gatheringbones]

it will also require taking sides and exerting active agency during conflicts and identifying and maintaining your values no matter what you stand to gain from abandoning them…..

[gatheringbones]

“When you live with very old, still-too-hot-to-touch anger, it fucks with you by making you feel rotten inside. By rotten, I mean decayed. I mean foul. I mean ruined. So much anger over so long a period makes you believe that somewhere along the way, you got broken and now you don’t work anymore. It’s a powerful emotion that endures, it can seem like a part of you. But it’s not. It’s a feeling, just like surprise. It’s neurons in your brain and neurotransmitters in your blood. A kickboxing class is good for you, mechanically. Psychologically, what helped me was to not allow rage to be blind and anonymous, but to know its source. And then get on with it. Because tracing an emotion to its root cause doesn’t mean you then go and mentally move back into the past and live with it. Also, you have to try to be nice enough for somebody to like you enough to be willing to rub your back. Pissed-off people need back rubs and they also need gym memberships.”

— augusten burroughs

[secretgarden]

cuz girls is players too

[transsexualhamlet]

I have a creeping suspicion some of you guys are not taking "idk man sometimes it depends" to heart

[vintage-tigre]

Next time you’re watching any news show or political coverage see how many of these you can spot:

Quick rundown of each propaganda technique:

• Glittering Generalities: Using vague, emotionally appealing words (like “freedom” or “justice”) that sound good but lack specific meaning.

• Transfer: Associating a person, idea, or product with something already respected or disliked (like using a flag, religion, or celebrity image) to carry over those feelings.

• Name-Calling: Attaching negative labels to an opponent or idea to create fear or distrust without real evidence.

• Card-Stacking: Presenting only positive information for one side and leaving out or distorting the negatives.

• Testimonial: Having a famous or respected person endorse an idea, product, or cause.

• Plain Folks: Presenting the speaker as an “ordinary” person to seem relatable and trustworthy.

• Band Wagon: Urging people to follow the crowd with the idea that “everyone else is doing it.”

[cheese24k]

[ceramicpuppyclown]

reblog for easter

[vedurnan-archive]

[fantasydumpster]

‘Tea Time is Back I’ by Silvia Levenson, 2019

[unbelievablekats]

Getting high on open window air

[gettingintoknives]

does being misogynistic help you pass as a man better... probably yes in some situations... however and this should be obvious, you still shouldn't do that. hope this helps.

[balaclava-trismegistus]

the universal transgender experience of in-group signifier ❤️

[balaclava-trismegistus]

being transgender is about [CONSUMER IDENTITY]