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embrace being silly in order to be free (she/her; transfem; 21)

[dukemz]

[raeraeraeraeraeraeraerae]

[thottistani-deactivated20220220]

No gay has all 5:

- A job

- Good relationship with father

- Neurotypical brain

- Ability to top

- Driver’s license

[garbage-empress]

this is a fun post because people will say how many they have in the tags then you get to figure out which ones.

[eatingnutmeg]

i have

- a job

[sunset-aria]

Kris Lays Down The Line With Ralsei

(Chapter 5 Spoilers...ish??)

Kris has one fear...

[queer-as-city-folk]

I thought you were trans the other way really is not a compliment

[queer-as-city-folk]

Especially and specifically if you are talking to someone you have never met irl

[absoluteconceptofbeauty]

if anything happens in your life you should start having strange thoughts and beliefs

[mousidy]

you know I hear a lot about trans men being mistaken for trans women, but not a lot about trans women being mistaken for trans men

am I just not hearing about it, or is it maybe something to do with the fact that transfemininity is more scrutinized and presumed? like, I wonder if people are more inclined to try to spot it because we are so fearmongered about

[revelware]

I have been on multiple dates where they assumed I was transmasc, and was ghosted when they realized I was transfem. I know it happens when I am inexplicably treated with dignity and respect on accident

[stone-d-butch]

I've talked to a lot of lesbians, and most assume (because I am butch) that I'm transmasc. Also because I have a deeper voice, a lot of people assume that I'm on testosterone. When they find out I am not, that's where pleasant conversation ends. Queer people are fine with a masculine woman, except when she's transfem.

[bite-my-grimy-fleshy-ass]

Happened to me a few times earlier in my transition when I presented more non-binary. Stubble also grew out disgustingly swiftly and contributed to these kinds of misunderstandings. And yeah the amount of people who ghosted me after finding out I was a transfem was all but one of the people with the misconception (and that one still stopped seeing me as a viable romantic partner after realizing)

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

at some point after I started E, I started getting he/himmed in the same conspicuously-supportive way that I had been getting she/hered. took me a while to figure out that that people were thinking I was transmasc. I didn't understand why they were conspicuously supportive but, when I corrected them to she/her, they'd give me this politely strained smile.

[littoralreverie]

ps/2 ports turned out perfect for turning into ear studs

dunno why I have a reaction to saying 'ow, my port' when I accidentally lean on it tho

[littoralreverie]

there's been some interest in how these were made, so!

i bought a pack of 10mm stud earring bezels, a bunch of pcb mount ps/2 ports, and 10mm OD stainless pipe (not pictured), all from aliexpress

the original plan was to use inline ps/2 ports but the metal sleeve on them was really soft and deformed easily when trying to cut with a rotary tool, so i settled on stainless pipe instead

step 1: remove the metal housing and pins from the port and deconstruct it down to just the centre plastic bit with some side cutters (extract the pins before cutting it down to the centre bit, metal is crunchy)

step 2: cut a ~10mm length of the stainless pipe (don't be like me, secure the pipe properly and use eye protection when using a rotary tool)

step 3: mix up some two-part epoxy, gently align in the stud bezel and let dry

alas they're far from functional ports, but it's a cute lil project and will look good on you :D

[spaceavenue]

minecraft let's play from 2014 where a tired looking guy is talking about his generic, dull base, and then stops uploading

10 years later a new episode is posted where she's transitioning and the base is now a giant, complex castle, and she opens with "so i did some mining off camera"

[turing-tested]

IVE BEEN HANGING OUT WITH MY FRIEND FOR LIKE A YEAR NOW AND IT TURNS OUT WE KNEW EACH OTHER AND WERE FRIENDS WITH EACH OTHER PRETRANSITION

[turing-tested]

we we’re talking about how we had a mutual friend and how that was so wild and then they mentioned another friend i knew and i was like “yeah i played soccer with them both in the park” and my friend was like “wait does your deadname start with a C” and it turns out she was also there and we just had no idea who each other was this entire time till now

[asymbina]

This is fucking wild

[lesbianredpanda]

[professorsparklepants]

This is half a plot for a modern Shakespearean comedy of errors.

[mananabuffins]

Romcom where two people meet cute and bond over how awful their exes were and plan elaborate revenge schemes but it turns out they both transitioned and are helping to plan revenge plots against themselves

[littoralreverie]

ps/2 ports turned out perfect for turning into ear studs

dunno why I have a reaction to saying 'ow, my port' when I accidentally lean on it tho

[lelemlima]

Just wanted to join in on this trend lol

[sleepybeastx]

[kirikomamura]

its funny to take a step back and realize you are a tgirl communist who uses desktop linux exclusively

[kirikomamura]

make enough correct choices in life and you too can become some annoying guys strawman

[fishing-princess]

For thousands of years humanity has selectively bred chickens to have larger breasts and to have to lay eggs constantly. We did it to get more meat and per chicken, but from the perspective of the domesticated chickens they’re sorta living in a very specific fetish scenario

[eatingnutmeg]

[b33tlejules]

Good news. we can finally Be Bees. this isn't your world, but we can Be Bees. this is Good news. you can Be a Bee. you'll live like a Bee. A Pet. A pet? A Pet. Mark, this is Good news. You'll live. for 30 years. THIS IS INSANE

[strawbebe-dk]

The shit post are a ladder to the real post soon trust