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I am a 29 year old recently widowed, disabled, gay man. I circle the drain drowning in despair, but I haven't given up completely yet. If you're a fan of Revolutionary Girl Utena I'm kind of like the Rose Bride. My husband was like Utena. Otherwise I'm like a bad girl that's like complicated as hell and extremely sad. I don't think I'm more bad than good, but I do have several negative personality traits. I'm a shut in, I'm lazy, I'm extremely sad and I've done a lot of things I regret. I get high and post my thoughts and whatever I like. This blog is like an art journal to me, but digital and without all the damn collages. 😸

[makingqueerhistory]

I love your Tumblr, but I've always been curious about your thoughts on this new trend of asexuals that are neither trans or attracted to the same sex romantically demanding inclusion in LGBT spaces.

Asexual people are not a “new trend”. And it is sort of ironic that you use that language to describe them since it has been used to describe every letter in the acronym constantly, and that stigma is one this project was created to fight. 

The idea that somehow asexual people don’t belong or deserve to be respected because the identity is seen as a “trend” alone gives them enough in common with the rest of the community for me to believe that they deserve to be a part of the queer movement. 

But to pretend that asexual people have not been a part of our community ever before is ahistorical (see article above) and honestly, a tired and boring argument that has been debunked so many times I am almost bored of it. 

So if after all that you still are unsure of our stance on inclusion within the queer community try reading our articles and it may help clear that up for you.

[electricterror]

I have been read for the ages. 😒 I never said asexuals were a new trend. I only asked about clarification on your thoughts on cis gendered asexuals that aren’t romantically attracted to the same sex demanding inclusion in the LGBT community now in the modern age. I don’t recall these asexuals I am speaking of wanting to be consisted LGBT in the 60’s through the 2010’s until the last few years.

You’re an inclusionist, kool. I don’t know what an article about sapphic asexuals in 17th century China has to do with my question. I never asked about gay asexuals historically.

Don’t twist my words then come for my wig when you’re literally begging for Patrons every other day for what amounts to small, but admittedly interesting well written, articles that lots of LGBT/Queer studies majors could do on 4 hours of sleep.

[chekhovs-claymore]

Just say you hate ace ppl and leave.

[electricterror]

I hate you personally 🙂

[electricterror]

If I lived a thousand years, I would still mourn you.

[electricterror]

Let's have a sockhop on Rush Limbaugh's grave!

[electricterror]

Death might finally take me this time.

[electricterror]

[electricterror]

I just realized Marceline sings Haven't You Noticed I'm a Star?

[scavengedluxury]

Teen neo-Nazi satanist spared jail after admitting terror offences

The A-star student was said to have 'fallen down the rabbit hole' of the internet.

Today, in “white privilege isn’t real”. 

[scavengedluxury]

[ovur]

1 am..... time to use some whitening strips 😋

[ovur]

Wait I'm gonna eat something actually

[romansroys]

i am

[electricterror]

[andwhatexcellentboiledpotatoes]

One moment you’re 17 and daydreaming about how glamorous your life will be when you’re finally an adult, then all of sudden it’s a decade later and “treating yourself” means buying full price pistacchios and taking a bath on a week night.

[electricterror]

I know that all future happiness will turn to ash in my mouth. No matter what good happens, I'll always think of how much better it would be with Gary.

The only things I really want anymore are to see the end of the Madoka Magica and Rebuild of Evangelion series. I find new stories I like all the time though. I guess my only desires left are knowledge and entertainment.

I've become incomprehensible. I think the only person that could really understand me as I am now is Gary. Maybe Izzy before he degraded could. I imagine Jack and Matt probably could, if they were willing to get to know me again though.

When I talk no one really understands the things I'm talking about. Most people are just so stupid. I can't fix anyone else as I am now. I'm not that person anymore.

I'm lonely beyond belief, but I'll never have that again. My curse exists without a doubt. I'll never love another man. Calamities always befall the men I love. On a long enough timeline every marriage ends in death or divorce, but I didn't get many years with any of my dead husbands.

I can't believe it's a coincidence anymore. I never really did after Matt's death, but Gary never believed in that.

[electricterror]

[nonbinary-hawke-deactivated2021]

Idk how to explain to people that the US isn't declining into fascism, it's been a fascist state since the moment it started with genocide and slavery.

[nonbinary-hawke-deactivated2021]

People on this post keep insisting that it's not fascism because of lack of authoritarianism and not realizing that that's the fucking point.

There was a lack of authoritarianism for most people, most notably white people.

But what about the Native people who were forced into reservations that they weren't allowed to leave without permission? Who weren't allowed to speak their languages or sing their songs or dance their dances?

What about the black people who were forced into slavery and then into segregation? Who were separated from their families and weren't allowed to read or write?

What about the brown immigrants who were paid next to nothing for backbreaking work building a country that they weren't considered a part of? Who were forced to live in controlled housing where their every movement was monitored in case they tried to leave?

The US is and has always been a fascist state. Some people just have the privilege to ignore it.

[prasejeebus]

[electricterror]

As much as this shit irritated me, I prefer the days when basic caucasians posted shit like this rather that nazi propaganda.

[electricterror]

I don't think I really hate you mother, but I have no more forgiveness left.

[electricterror]

My husband showed me what it was to have someone not only love you, but respect you.

I realize now that I never had that ever before. I was loved, but it was always a possessive love. I was loved as a beloved family pet, not as a person.

I have no use for relationships without respect.