Elizabeth Abrams

33.Nurse.Single

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

mad--max​:

Hmm, you do make a good point. Baby Max really needed to lay off the dark eyeshadow. Like, who is she trying to be? Rob Pattinson as Batman? And don’t get me started on the foundation not matching her neck. 

But do you remember how cool you felt back then? My favorite was trying to be the best at winged eyeliner. It may not look cute now but that confidence was one of a kind. Obviously we thought we were on our way up in the world. It almost makes me wonder though if no one said anything we must have all not matched our foundation. Almost makes me feel better. 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

heyjudewilde​:

Hm, you’re my right company so I guess I can’t complain. Of course, with my little halo and everything. Exactly. And what better way to start right now. I’m trusting you with this power. As they say, with great power comes great responsibility. Don’t worry about me, I got all the time in the world. 

Really, I am? What a coincidence you just so happen to be mine. It suits you well. Sounds like a perfect future Halloween costume. I’ll try to use this power wisely and not go too crazy. You know its in my bones to worry, but I’ll try not too. Maybe we can go up to Lake Eerie? 

[mad--max]

Is it possible to get secondhand embarrassment from watching old videos of yourself? Or does that just count as regular, firsthand embarrassment? I rediscovered my old MySpace page from when I was fifteen that I apparently never deleted. It included lots of singing videos and some.. things I dare not talk about. After a mortifying hour of looking through everything, I erased the profile from existence.

Anyone else interested in pretending that their important, formative years officially never happened?

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

I feel like that must be a passageway into growing up. My parents were quite strict on social media but even my posts from high school and college make me shake my head. But in a way it is almost comforting to see, you have proof right in front of you of how much you’ve grown and matured. 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

heyjudewilde​:

Maybe. If their idea of fun is going to Breadstix, by all means. Go wild. Wouldn’t hurt to give into that temptation. Wherever you want, ladies’ choice. 

Those places are nice, but even better with the right company. You are always such a good influence aren’t you? I haven’t given in to a lot of them in my life but I suppose better late than never right? That is quite a lot of power to give me. How much time do you have? I don’t want to mess up any plans you have. 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

heyjudewilde​:

This place is dead and boring as per usual. Besides, you work too hard Lizzie - you deserve to take a break. Let’s go somewhere, take a drive or something. 

But somehow some people still find ways to have fun. I suppose you are right though about the break...it is just easier said than done. A drive though, that is very tempting. Where would we go? 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

userchandlerhere​:

My go-to suggestion will forever be hitting the rink, but if that’s not something that piques your interest, then I’m sure we can come up with something better. What’s something you’ve always wanted to do? And what things do you like to do for fun?

Well I think that could be a great idea, give myself a staycation of sorts. I believe that’s what its called. Find things to do around town. But I suppose it wouldn’t be a bad idea to explore outside of the area too. I feel like I don’t see enough nature so maybe going hiking. I love going to bookstores too.

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

elenacrawford​:

You actually want to work? What the fuck. Do what I do, get out of this godforsaken town and go somewhere nice. You know what they say, all work and no play and all that.

Of course I do, I think I’m very lucky that I love what I do. But that is a very fair point, I suppose. It is good for anyone to take a break from time to time but deciding what to do will always be tough. Any suggestions on places to go? 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

Its that time again where I’m encouraged to take a break from work. Yet every time I’m just stumped on exactly what to do. I’d much rather work, give the vacations to other people...but that’s besides the point. Does anyone happen to have any suggestions? 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

alexanderhq​:

It’s the same thing year after year, new year rolls around, and the same boring people making resolutions to turn their uneventful life into something, before they slip into obscurity, that and who doesn’t love a little danger, Bess 

I can see how the new year makes you want to start something new but there are so many other safe options. I suppose a lot more people than I thought. It happens every year and it never fails to surprise me. 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

lawofsmythe​:

I think that’s really something that helps draw children into the love of reading… the escape to new worlds and favorite characters.  That’s why so many kids books are actually series.  Well, I mean, I hope I do at any rate.  No one is guaranteed tomorrow but it won’t be the end of the world if I don’t get married or start a family until later.  I might not have as much time with them, or maybe I won’t have any biological children of my own, but there is fostering, and adopting, that I could look into as well.  I think those are both possible.  You really never do know.  I definitely couldn’t have predicted some of the things that happened to me this year.  I think that’s definitely something  you have to consider, is how well can you do your job if you’re not well yourself.  When it’s someone you care about, in any sort of way, nothing feels like much though.  

The universe was always so fascinating to me, I use to even imagine what it’d be like to mix the worlds and characters. I’d write little stories too, I’m sure my mom still has those sitting around somewhere. You really are very wise, I hope you know that. Being able to not only acknowledge your situation and open your mind to any kind of possibility is very admirable. Sometimes it’s difficult to see beyond the present when it feels like you’re not meeting expectations. I think that is part of the beauty of life though, being able to take on whatever life throws at you. That...is a very good point. I’d hope that I do a very good job of taking care of myself but I suppose there are multiple aspects of that which could end up being neglected. That is true, I know I feel that same way for friends and family. 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

wildekittykittykitty​:

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Then find someone else. I have things to do. Emergencies are understandable and being late is understandable- making it my problem isn’t. 

That is fair, especially when you have your own job to do. Your focus should really be on that to make sure you do it well. 

[justclaraoswald]

Hello. I’m Clara. We haven’t really met yet.

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

lawofsmythe​:

And it would be quiet and organized, and even if no one ever came in, you’d have all the characters in all the books as imaginary friends… wow.  I can understand wanting something like that.  That is true, things happen for a reason.  But sometimes, when days are hard, I wonder if I made a mistake.  Maybe it was right person, wrong time, and we’ll find each other again.  Or maybe it was right time, wrong person, and it’s still the right time, but I’m still looking for the right person.  Who knows?  I’ve still got lots of time.  I’ve heard it, yes, but I’ve known very few doctors or nurses that well.  I can understand that, but those little things can really add up, and mean so much.  It’s hardly fair for you to spend so much time caring for others and neglect yourself.  Someone needs to be filling your bucket too.  Oh wow.  Long shifts.  I guess it’s more than just a job, more like…a calling.

That’s exactly it! Imagine the kind of world you could create with all the characters you’d get to learn about. The people you’d get to meet too would be great. Something about discussing books with another person is amazing. That realization though, that you still have a lot of time is such an admirable thing. Despite facing hard times you still have hope. That’s something that a lot of people lose so easily. I’ve heard a lot of people say that the right person could be right around the corner or someone right in front of you so the possibilities are endless. Its a job that takes a lot of time but it is very much worth it, but I know it is a lot for people to understand. But I am sure that is the case with many other jobs too. Well I suppose...you aren’t quite wrong there. Part of the job is taking care of yourself so you can be the best for the patients. But that feels like so much to expect another person to do too. A calling, wow that is a really beautiful way to look at it. 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

leopoldclarington​:

I love little tips like that honestly.  Or you could just come to the show when it opens.  With almost fresh eyes.  Oh, I just have a little chorus kind of part.  I just wanted to be part of it you know?  

I don’t know if it would help at all but I could even send you a copy of the schedule I made myself too. Of course you can make it your own but maybe it would help. You know, that is a wonderful idea. I’ll have to make sure that I have a day off for it. Well I believe I’ve heard somewhere that no part of a show is small. If you didn’t have the part the show wouldn’t be complete. 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

lawofsmythe​:

Oh, but see that would be so much fun.  Unlimited reading potential.  And I believe you’d meet so many interesting people who come in.  I am definitely in that category.  As much as I love my job, when I was finishing up law school I definitely figured I’d be married and be getting read to start a family, if I hadn’t already.  But then again, I was in a stable, long term relationship then as well, and maybe that’s to be expected.  Turns out life took us in different directions.  Uh oh, it sounds like what they say might be true… doctors and nurses can make the worst patients and are horrible at taking their own lifestyle suggestions.  That is very nice of them.  You probably work really long and early or late shifts.

Wouldn’t it be? Imagine all of the things you could learn. Endless amusement and such a wonderful thing to share with others. I am glad to find anther who agrees though. I suppose things happen when they are meant to right? Its hard to expect what works out for some people to work out for everyone. I am so sorry to hear that, Ste...that couldn’t have been easy. But you are a wonderful and kind person, there is bound to be another person out there. And that person will be extremely lucky. Who knows maybe that person is who you were suppose to meet. They really say that? Well it is our whole lives, we take an oath to take care of people. Sometimes its just difficult in the busy days to remember the little things. Oh yes, very sweet to think of me, but its very nice of you as well to see what I’m doing for me. I certainly do, I do a mixture between eight and twelve hour shifts. 

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

lawofsmythe​:

So what kind of dreams did you have then?  If you don’t mind me asking?  Well, I haven’t done much about it yet, except I guess to recognize it and think about what I could do differently maybe.  I bet the holidays can unfortunately be kind of busy.  But please say you’ve been doing some things just for you too?  Or someone has?

I had endless ones when I was younger,  one of my favorites was to live in a library. I must have gotten that idea from Beauty and the Beast. But the older I got I realized my dream of helping people which lead to wanting to be a nurse. I know a lot of people have that dream of having families and getting married, but work has always been the first thing on my mind. What about you? That’s great though, being able to step back and recognize that. It is, but I’m glad to cover for the people who have kids they want to spend that time with. Oh I mean when I can, I have done some reading when I have time! Sometimes there are kind people at work who bring me coffee in the mornnngs.

[elizabethlouiseabrams]

lawofsmythe​:

I think you’re right about that.  It can be hard though, to give up those hopes and dreams you have for yourself to live more in the moment.  I’m sure there is some sort of happy middle; I just haven’t found it yet myself personally.  It really is.  And I’m beginning to see different parts of my life where I’m maybe not as happy as I could be if even just the smallest of change was made.  How is your new year going Elizabeth?  

Oh of course, that is one of those realizations that are never truly easy to face. It is still difficult for me to deal with those dreams and reality. But there are so many things in life to be happy about too. I feel like that must be such a great thing to look forward to though. I really hope those small things can change to better things though. It is going very well, thank you! Its been quite busy with work during the holidays from picking up extra shifts but it was just so nice to be able to help others.