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Do you enjoy knowing that someone is stroking himself and cumming to your beautiful body?

That’s actually an interesting question.

Do I enjoy knowing? Honestly, not in the way you might mean.

The way I answer it is probably influenced by the fact that I’m predominantly demisexual, sapiosexual, and noetisexual. For me, I have always needed a foundation built around and established by: deep emotional connection, intelligence, integrity, emotional maturity, and genuine chemistry with someone before ever becoming intimate with anyone. Those qualities have always mattered far more than physical attraction alone.

So am I offended by the thought? No. Not at all. What someone does privately is their own business, and I’m certainly not here to police anyone’s private thoughts or fantasies.

At the same time, simply knowing that someone finds me attractive—or even knowing they pleasure themselves to my photos—doesn’t really do anything for me on its own. Without a genuine connection, trust, and a solid foundation between us, it doesn’t carry much meaning for me personally.

That isn’t meant as a criticism of anyone who feels differently. It’s simply how I’m wired. For me, connection has always come before attraction, not the other way around.

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