Self-Talk

[elqdr]

It's my 11 year anniversary on Tumblr 🥳

[elqdr]

Sorry and busy. I am not a big fan of this combo.

[elqdr]

People only come into my life either for a reason or a season.

Because no lifetime in my dictionary.

[wetheurban]

How meaningful it is to be chosen and not have to guess.

Until then, keep choosing yourself, fully.

[elqdr]

It hit me so hard, bc it’s really true.

[elqdr]

It’s okay darling, everything is not supposed to be going as expected. Just enjoy every moment, even though it’s quite bitter 🥴 Feel it and accept it

Everything shall pass soon 😊

[elqdr]

Why did you offer me your hands if you had no intention to hold mines?

[elqdr]

Never wait for someone doing something good for you, do whatsoever your heart desires. Do it for yourself right now!

[elqdr]

I am currently on acceptance phase. All I need right now for the time being is only acceptance. Accept my past that didn’t go as I expected. Accept the love and care that didn’t return as I deserved. Accept the truth that you never had genuine feelings for me.

No flashbacks needed. Past is the past. But what if I still get haunted by it? Again, accept it.

[elqdr]

It’s uncontrollable, I don’t even know how to stop it. It drives me crazy.

[elqdr]

Hormone o hormone, why you make it worse 😢

[thehopefulquotes]

“Why should I be sad? I have lost someone who didn’t love me. But they lost someone who loved them.”

— Unknown

[elqdr]

But it happened. I am sad. Why?

[elqdr]

People’s behaviors tell you how they feel about you. It’s more than enough for you to walk away if the table doesn’t serve you anything. I know it’s hard but please choose yourself over others. Always do.

[elqdr]

I said “I won’t leave”. It means if you wanna run, do it. I won’t chase you. I’ll go nowhere.

Because I would choose to stay.

[elqdr]

Be kind always or at least do not hurt other's feelings.

[thoughtkick]

“Chasing after a guy who’s not interested in you will rip the hell out of your self-respect. Better to face facts now because the longer you put it off, the harder it’ll be”

— Susan Elizabeth Phillips, Call Me Irresistible

[elqdr]

I should've done sooner

[elqdr]

Yes, it hurts. But life must go on. Failed once, but you always have chances to try another. It's okay if you take a pause but never quit. Oneday, you will definitely find anything that you belong to. Cheers up!

[elqdr]

Thank you @thatstormkid003 and everyone who got me to 5 reblogs!

[slfcare]

deep down, you know how you want to be treated. how you want to be loved, respected, listened to and considered. but since that’s all inside of you, you cannot expect others to advocate for you in that area or to read your mind. if you feel like your needs aren’t being recognized, practice communicating them. if you feel like your needs aren’t being met, practice advocating for them. and if you feel like your needs aren’t being respected, it’s not the environment or relationship for you.

[elqdr]

So gratefully, I bump into this post today. This is what I need now :)