oncelertism

Heyo!! I'm MJ! I'm a 20yo Artist/Animator/Musician and professional silly little guy. Fandoms/Interests include The Lorax, Peter Pan, Deltarune, Chikn Nuggit, Willy Wonka, Gravity Falls, and Smoke and Mirrors (My OCs)!

[emj4yart]

MJler Timeline Masterlist!

I realize half of the reason I don't talk about my Onceler selfship more on here is because there's SO many alternate timelines and it would probably be incredibly confusing for any newcomers, so I've decided to make a list summarizing each of them! So letsa go! (🌳🌈) Good Ending AU "How Good Can I Be"

The timeline where MJK goes "I can fix him" and actually succeeds! MJ is Onceler's first customer and they hit it off because of their shared love of art and music. They live together in a cottage in the forest and MJK encourages Onceler to run his small business sustainably! It's not all sunshines and rainbows of course, as the both of them still have a lifetime of familial trauma to work through... but at least they can do it together. Slice of life-y, low-stakes, the most palatable of the AU's. + Honorable mention to the bonus AU that branches from the good ending AU, where everything is essentially the same but my other two sonas, MJ and Midge, are also a part of the story and by extension become MJK and Onceler's adopted kids lol. (🏡💭) "The Harder They Fall"

This time MJK goes "I can fix him" and the results are a lot more complicated. The two grew up in the same hometown and moved to Greenville together to try to make his dreams come true. The story follows the canon timeline very closely, with MJ by his side through the entire rise and fall of his business, which leads to... a lot of angst! This is the one I wanna attempt to make a full fic of one day... wish me luck. (🪓♻️) Enemies to Lovers

Exactly what it says on the tin. Onceler is a greedy businessman, MJK is a staunch environmentalist. The two meet because of a protest MJ and their group organizes outside of Thneeds Inc., and he thinks their efforts are Cute. And them too, but he won't admit that til later. Somehow they end up kissing. Idk man I'm just the writer. (👔💰) Rich Power Couple

MJK and Onceler were friends in their late teens/early adulthoods, but promptly lost touch once their careers took off in different directions (Onceler becoming a CEO, of course, and MJ being a famous musician). Years into their careers, the two meet again on the set of a collaborative commercial, and, after a picture of the two embracing goes viral, they start dating, y'know, "for the press". They're both a similar degree of out of touch, being rich and all, and the dating is somewhat an act until they realize there's more to the other than meets the eye, especially upon realization that no matter where they go, their respective PR teams, and most notably, their mom-agers are always looming over their shoulders... (🎨🧶) Swap AU

Self explanatory! MJK is the CEO of their own still-yet-to-be-named art supplies company that uses the tufts of the truffula trees to make their unique bright pigments. Onceler works in Greenville as a tailor and also runs a small Etsy shop with his own sustainably-made knitwear. (📊💢) Business Rivals to Lovers

AU where BOTH Thneeds Inc. and MJK's art supplies company exist at once. Shenanigans ensue. The two constantly squabble over resources, and because neither of them are mature enough to be in charge of a major corporation in the first place, they plot to sabotage each other in increasingly cartoonish ways, leading up to an eventual dramatic televised court case. It's just a Big Time Rush episode and I love it. Aaand that's all there is so far! I'll update this list if I ever come up with new ones but for now these are what's been floating around my mind the past Forever. Expect more posts about these idiots and their various misadventures soon!

[kuwau]

what character(s) do you associate with the person you reblogged this from?

[5qu1dink]

codfish and grandpa

first one is like. hand freshly chopped he’s sensitive

[redfrockcoat]

[5qu1dink]

doodles and such of pirates

[emj4yart]

Happy Easter 🐇

[emj4yart]

THIS BLOG IS NOW PROPETY OF MIDGE>.! HELLOU EVERYONE

[peachdoxie]

There's a bunch of adhd advice out there that's like "people with adhd tend to work better under deadlines due to the anxiety so here are ways to artificially induce a stress response in order to get you to get work done" and it's like well what if I don't want to be stressed out all the time in order to function

[electrictopaper]

this gold shouldn't stay in the comments

[pannndora]

hey loves, I’ve been reading through the comments and loads of people are asking how to not fall into this pattern because that’s all they know. so, here’s some advice from Auntie Pan who’s been in the trenches (stress-caused disabilities and chronic illnesses).

context: grew up in an abusive, controlling home, escaped to uni, had a prolonged mental breakdown, became a teacher and worked in a dysfunctional school with amazing kids and nightmare management for years. I did not realise I have adhd and autism for a long time. (You might even be able to scroll back through this blog to find the time around which I did realise lol.)

ANYWAY, things that have helped me because my body can no longer handle any kind of stress without flaring up:

If you’re doing anything that requires you to do a lot of prep before you begin the actual thing (e.g. cooking, deep cleaning a room, moving house), mise en place. That’s a fancy french way of saying get everything ready before you begin. So if I’m cooking idk spaghetti carbonara, that means fry and chop the bacon, separate the egg yolks from the whites, put water in the kettle, put dry spaghetti into a pan. Once everything’s ready, it reduces the mental load and means I can focus on the actual cooking and any clean up that I can do along the way. H/t to @ms-demeanor for this, you changed my life!

the Might As Well rule. This one works really well for me but you gotta be careful otherwise you’ll get sucked into the Vortex. Basically, let’s imagine you’re in the bathroom, brushing your teeth. You notice that the extra roll of toilet paper has been used. instead of thinking, “I’ll get to that later”, and then forgetting about it until you sit down on the bog (no judgement, we’ve all been there), you think “Might As Well put an extra roll while I’m here!” This tends to help with the little tasks that build up over time. This Does Not Work for big tasks.

Leading on from no.2, Do It Immediately/ASAP really helps me too. My current boss will email me on a Friday and say, ‘don’t reply to this now! Leave it til monday!’ But she and i both know that if i leave it til monday, I will forget and get stressed and this will make me Very Ill. So, instead, the moment i receive the email, I’ll either schedule in replying to it as soon as I’m done with my current thing, OR I’ll reply to it immediately.

Anything that can’t be actioned immediately, i mark as Unread. Anything Unread in my inbox is a future action, and i check those Unread emails/texts/whatevers Every. Day. To make sure whether today is the day i have the info to action it. (This also means i have to stay on top of my inbox. I read all my emails and then mark them accordingly. I’m also brutal with unsubscribing)

The House Always Wins. Both in a literal sense, because i am in a constant battle with keeping my house clean, and i know now that I’ll never get it as clean as i want it. It’s impossible, i no longer have the energy or stamina to vacuum and scrub everything. But also just in a life sense. I’m never going to achieve things to perfection, and perfect is the opposite of done. And getting things done is that much more important when you have limited energy and strength. Accept that you often have to half-arse life in order to Full-Arse the few things that really matter to you.

Have multiples of everything, everywhere. I wear support gloves, so i need to have handcream at every sink and everywhere i sit down in the house. I try to keep it unobtrusive, but it means i don’t have to trek upstairs just to moisturise my hands. Gum, phone chargers, pens and pencils, water bottles, hand sanitizer, whatever you need.

Work with people, even if it’s online. Body doubling actually works. Also I’ve found that if I’m working on assignments, taking myself to a library or study area that isn’t my bedroom helps so much.

Show off! Tell people on here or elsewhere in your life about the fact that you’ve just written 100 words! Or that you’ve cleaned the fridge and that’s a really big deal for you. Celebrate your wins, no matter how small.

Basically, you’re aiming to reduce the mental load as much as possible. Wear the same types of clothes all the time to minimise the amount of laundry. Eat the same three lunches so decision fatigue doesn’t take over.

All of this takes time to implement and it is cumulative, but i hope it helps. Reading the comments on this post, i finally understand why adhd is comorbid with so many other conditions. let’s take care of each other <3

[ms-demeanor]

I'm so glad to hear that helped you!

For anybody looking for resources from someone dealing with actual ADHD, I have an incomplete but ever growing list of ADHD tips, tools, and suggestions on my website.

A lot of the pages on that site are adapted from my tumblr posts, for instance I'm adapting this post about car repair projects with ADHD into a guide on project management and completion with ADHD.

(Red links are stuff that I've got planned but haven't published for reasons that are probably clear to anyone looking for ADHD advice online)

[stuffed-bilby]

We all need floor time sometimes

[64mpg]

guy who has a mental health condition that comes and goes: i’m cured this time actually i can feel it

[64mpg]

same guy when they start having symptoms again: what the fuck is happening and why

[videogamesincolor]

‘Worst of the worst’? ICE snatches beloved video gaming champion living in US legally for decades

“This is the nightmare that I've had—literally had nightmares woken up in a cold sweat about. The government has kidnapped one of my friends

"38-year-old regional video gaming champion Ludovic Mbock, who came to the US legally from Cameroon, was snatched by ICE while applying for his yearly work permit—as he’s done for 20 years. He has since been detained for three weeks and moved to facilities in Louisiana and Georgia, and his freedom depends on a critical bond hearing this week. In this urgent episode of Working People, we speak with Diane Sohna, Ludovic’s sister, and Nikhil Delahaye, a close friend of Ludovic’s and a fellow gamer."

[sumptiousfeast]

hey, this is a friend of a friend -- i made a post that didn't get much traction, if you'd like to help out with legal funds, here's the campaign.

Donate to Support Ludovic’s Legal Defense, organized by David Hazlewood

Ludovic Mbock is a dear friend who has always brought kindness and positivity to those… David Hazlewood needs your support for Support Ludov

[gingehh]

reverse solipsism: everyone else has a vibrant interior life but I'm just a passive observer

[onlyhereforthefandoms-deactivat]

So what if the Onceler’s first name is ‘Theodore’ and they just call him ‘the’ for short? Like, “Hi, I’m Theodore Onceler. Call me The Onceler; everyone does.“

I think I just blew my own mind.

[with-my-green-gloves]

tHIS IS ALSO A REALLY GOOD IDEA

[goodnightsocialites]

thought i'd take a swing at redrawing this one eric guillon onceler because i think it's really cute

[goodnightsocialites]

oncelers are literally an endangered species so please take good care of yours. remember to feed them and take them on walks

[mitskissecondborndaughter]

hello!! as many of you might know, following the murder of the leader of one of the most powerful cartels in mexico, a lot of people are stuck at home due to threats from the cartel (as not only have they established a curfew and warned that even innocent civillians would be targets if seen outside past the established time, but also because there have been multiple shootouts and cases of burning up places and businesses), which means that right now there are so many people unable to work to sustain themselves.

so, I saw on twitter a thread with many mexican artists with open commissions, if you maybe were thinking of commissioning art and wanted to support mexicans in this situation; here’s the link to it!! (the post isn’t mine, but i thought maybe it’d be a good idea to share it here)

UPDATE: here’s another thread with the same purpose, by a different person! this one’s open, so if you’re a mexican artist who is in need of support, consider posting there!! ^_^

please share if you can!! thank u!!

[officialspec]

little animation based on @triptrippy's fancomic !!