· storytime! : There are a lot of different ways to hear the place in between I believe. The one thing I do know is that anything that changes your senses. Go a couple days without sleeping or eating. And you'll be farther on the other side that you are this side. But there's something else too.
If you partake in God's great green !good for you but if you don't that's cool too.
It can definitely help you hear them. The only problem is your mind is still fuzzy, you feel like your heads in FIBA fishbowl. Different than usual.
{In case you didn't know the place in between is a dimensional plane that we can reach with their consciousness connecting through our 3rd eye. }
At this point, we were smoking in my friend's addict. It was still cold outside. I don't have a job and I don't like to ask for food in life I'm really hungry. Honestly, I have no problem asking to eat but I wasn't hungry.
The first some reason I kept hearing from the other side pretty clear mind you, “I'm hungry I'm hungry !” That's not me? Who is that I feel? Maybe their cats?
But when it finally stopped and told me what was happening I heard them say
“that's the sound of neglect
· neglect: when someone is unable to connect with an important source of common protection.
· common protection: Common protection is what we do every day to take care of ourselves. Common protection is more than just feeding and watering it ourselves. It's important that we connect to our own personalities enough that we can give our own abilities ways to “Reignite ignite their fading light.”
“The easiest way to describe it is, neglect is abuse by negligence.”
Again not just not giving food and water to sunlight to something that needs it to grow. Something or someone that depends on us. But People can be neglected emotionally as well as physically.
I'm sure you seen that one episode of Doctor Phil with a terrible mother. So excited about having a baby but once they grow up in their teenagers and their hard to handle, all they do is blame the teenager. She's a bad mother, right? Maybe even a bad person?
Well……. This has been one of the most recent topics. But where does neglect come from? It comes from neglect ….
you see we neglect our senses every day. we think that having the ability to for overcompensating something will make it so we don't have to make up for the things that are missing in my life.
HOW IT WORKS: Neglectus definitely a pattern style abusive trait. That mother example i gave you. Now imagine if that mother was once a teenager, who got pregnant by her boyfriend. that she gave way too much attention to. Trying to make up for her father leaving her in her family, when she was younger. (Relevant to mother creation theory ) :https://empathicinterest.tumblr.com/post/187211995820/motherly-creation-theory
See when people are raised to think they're not good enough to be loved. They give up. They give up on loving themselves and they hope they can give all of this love that's missing in their life to someone else. The only problem is that's not how it works. So after she had the child, she was really happy. Something dependent on her, she would never be alone. She even had a piece of her boyfriend who left soon after the baby was born because of how much stress he was feeling.
They barely made it by. But when she started to feel overwhelmed, that she couldn’t stop the baby from crying. She was so tired and overworked. Anyone can tell you that babies are going to cry. But not taking care of yourself physically are mental, not feeding yourself or getting enough rest. will make it so you don't look at life for what it is.
She gets afraid of not doing what it takes. Maybe even say give up?
When you feel like you're not good enough to even attempt to do something or help someone. You ignore it in a sense thinking that's the same as it goes away. Not saying that she would neglect their physical needs just, maybe just emotional support. ….
Because of she neglected herself she ended up neglecting her child ….
it's not cause they're lazy ….
it's not because they are bad people …….
and it's not because they don't deserve love ………
they just haven't realized the first rule about taking care of the People you love :
1. take care of yourself.
If you neglect yourself just to be able to say you're doing something, most likely that thing that you're doing isn't what you need. Even if that's what the entire world is telling you to need...... It's not going to help... And it's not going to get better until you realize that.
