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you can only reblog this if you're not racist
Idek why I have to say this but we don't fuck with factkins??
I thought this was. A common belief. That factkins are not. A healthy thing and shouldn't be supported???
But the more time we spend in anti endo alterhuman spaces the more we're seeing this ISNT a common take?????
I need more online spaces to put emphasis on the fact that dissociative symptoms exist outside of the context of DID and OSDD-1.
If you hear someone describing textbook dissociation, telling them “you could be a system” is possibly one of the worst things you could say.
SCREAMING INTO THE VOID
Dissociation is extremely common!! Most ppl who dissociate do not have DID/OSDD!! Stop telling other neurodivergent ppl that their experiences are invalid just bc YOU are uneducated. Ppl with PTSD and other disorders dissociate too, that doesn’t mean they’re a system.
White systems please stop saying “black alter” “POC alter” “asian alter” “native alter” etc. I’m literally begging you to talk to systems of colour and realize how odd (and racist) it is to say those phrases.
no, white baby, racism isn’t a valid trauma response.
I hate what's happened to the word "triggered" because a lot of people are Not very good at realizing when they're having a PTSD response and end up lashing out at strangers on the internet about it and even when you recognize that this is happening to someone else there is not a lot of language that can allow you to compassionately make them aware of what's happening without sounding like you're accusing them of being irrational and flipping out over nothing
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I do not subscribe to the “no you/your” trend.
I believe it encourages dissociation, dehumanises people, and is generally unhealthy.
I refuse to actively dehumanise people, as a victim of dehumanisation trauma. Talking around people is a form of dehumanisation.
This can also be very uncomfortable to anyone who doesn’t speak english natively, or anyone who has language issues.
I truly believe these people are finding comfort in dissociation and dehumanisation, and I think this trend is going to seriously harm many peoples recovery.
Please unfollow me if you subscribe to these ideas.
im not gonna tag anyone or name any specific group but. sometimes you need to be comfy with being uncomfy.
not everything that makes you uncomfy is oppressive.
(begging you to get me started) UGH don't get me started.......
I should quit my job to pursue a life of meaningless violence
god the horrible urge to vague post is eating me alive but i must
someone wronged me once
So not only did the starry city asshole go out of their way to find a months old comment, but then meticulously went through both blogs to prove they're connected. That's so fucking creepy actually what the fuck.
- @brits-bitchin
it is a little paranoia inducing, if im being honest, :,) but im working through it
Me when I post something publicly and the public sees it💔💔
Fr tho, you brought this on yourself. Don’t post stuff connecting your accounts if you don’t want ppl to know they’re connected?? You literally have a post @ing this blog on your main, it’s no secret by any means lol
Oh trust me I saw and idek where to begin
System accountability is dead in this community apparently
Feels like everyone in the system community is trying to outquirky each other w alters sometimes I'm ngl.
let me say specifically.
claiming that one alter is part of a marginalized group that you bodily are not part of is fucking weird. stop it.
Ik its bad when people claim that alters are a different race (like a white system claiming a alter is black)
But would it also be bad to 'just' state that said alter is this or that skin color in headspace?
Asking since in headspace alters be looking like.. anything.. (i mean theres fictives of a cookie whos blue so like yk)
i'd use skintone descriptors, not racial terms, if that makes sense. Blackness is an identity that comes with more than appearance (not Black myself, but that's what i've learned from Black studies courses at my uni).
so i'd say "dark-skinned" or something similar. or specify "internally" before a descriptor.
never be worried about asking a question! that's how people learn
Chiming in as a black person, it’s best to make it clear that it’s just their internal appearance when talking about it bc often ppl end up sounding like they’re trying to be another race when it’s described any other way. Like when a black person is talking about something specific to us and a you come in like “yea my black alter—“ pump the brakes. You are not black, now is not your time to speak. A better way to do it would be if you had a black appearing alter with curly hair in headspace, but your natural hair is straight, you can talk about how you feel weird seeing yourself without curls without saying “I miss my black hair” or some shit like that /nm. And definitely DO NOT try to change your appearance, no trying to change your eye shape or skin color, obvious reminder ik but some ppl still think ts is ok just bc it’s an alter doing it.
It’s also important to be careful of how you interact with other cultures that alters may be introjected/inspired by, but you aren’t actually a part of. Be mindful of what names you allow your alters to use, bc while not all cultures are technically closed, it can be really weird as a person of color to see white ppl running around calling themself “Dequan” or “Sakura” knowing damn well that ya’ll picked that name off of google and don’t actually know anything about the culture you’re taking from. I’m not saying it’s wrong to use names from other open cultures, just don’t be weird about it, make sure the name actually has some meaning to you outside of the “aesthetic”.
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