Hello, hello. Okay, so pile one, your next relationship is a little bit off. The vibes are a little bit off. To be honest, it has a hidden vibe. Something about it is very hidden, unknown, and a little bit mysterious, and I don’t understand if that’s about the person or the relationship itself. It might be both.
I think this person may hide a lot of things from you, and you won’t notice it in the beginning or you’ll brush it off because it’ll be small things, like where they are or little white lies. You’ll be like, “Oh, it’s okay, everyone has white lies in the beginning.” But then it starts to get really weird because they start hiding bigger things from you as the relationship progresses.
Usually I’m quite talkative when it comes to readings, but this is one of those situations where I don’t even know how to describe it. I think this relationship will make you realize a lot of things about yourself as well.
I don’t see any dramatic fights at all. There’s just this feeling of underlying intensity and uncomfortableness, and it’s a little bit weird to sit in. You know Cassie and Nate's dance scene at their wedding? BUT its not like that person is literally like Nate at all. I just mean the relationship vibes. It seems pretty happy, but it’s not. Something about their entire life is a little bit hidden from you, and they’re very questionable and not very trustable.
Please don’t think this is an abusive relationship or that kind of thing at all. But there is definitely some sort of lying going on here. I don’t see any cheating or any third-party situation. Their life is just very hidden from you, and I don’t know if they’re lying out of compulsity or out of enjoyment.
I just don’t think it’s a long-term relationship.
Oh wow, pile 2, your next relationship is something of a rebirth for sure. Either you or this person might have been struggling with some kind of heartache, or maybe even both. It doesn’t have to be romantic heartache. It can be familial, friendship-related, or just struggling and not being very happy in general. But something affected your life to a very harsh extent.
It doesn’t even have to be dramatic pain. It can be an ongoing ache, and it can be different for both of you too. For one of you, it could be dramatic, while for the other it could be a quieter but deeper kind of pain. It’s all subjective, but there’s definitely some sort of pain that you guys had been in before meeting each other.
Meeting each other doesn’t take the pain away. You guys aren’t here to fix each other or anything. It’s just that with them, everything feels so much lighter, and both of you feel understood by each other because your pain might have been similar, either in the way you expressed it or in what exactly happened. You guys will bond over a lot of your past experiences.
The relationship will honestly feel like the world to you. It kind of encompasses your entire world for a little while. Not necessarily in a codependent way, but you guys do become very emotionally attached to each other. For a while, maybe weeks or a few months, you guys prioritize each other over a lot of the other things in your life. That might not necessarily be a bad thing depending on where you are in your life right now, but it is something to be a little bit concerned about if that’s something you worry about.
Also, this person might have a beard. They might like to wear flannel. Your first impression of them might not be very good, if I’m being honest. You’ll notice something in them that makes you feel connected intuitively, but your first impression of the way they’re dressed is very off. You might get very ew, icky vibes from their outfit. But the moment they start talking, you’ll be like, “Oh my God, I love this person actually.”
There are obviously a few things you guys might need to sort out because every relationship has problems, but I think you both will know how to sort it out pretty well. You guys are going to be pretty emotionally well-adjusted, or at least there will be a learning curve where you finally learn how to adjust.
This might be a forever person, it might not be. But I do think there’s a higher chance of this being the person you end up marrying. So congratulations!
Okay, so pile 3, your next relationship is a bit mixed, if I’m going to be honest. It has elements of both good and bad. I think it starts off primarily extremely well. You guys have undeniable chemistry, undeniable connection, and it’s very visible and very fast moving. Maybe in like a week you guys are already kissing or, for a very extreme level, maybe moving in together. I don’t know what the chances of that are, but that’s how fast it is.
People can notice your immediate connection and you guys have this very magnetizing banter together. It’s the way you guys bounce off each other, whether that be through your jokes, your quips at each other, or even just by your eyes, by the way you’re looking at each other. People notice it, and either it’s funny eye contact so people end up laughing, or it’s very intense so people are like, “Oh my God, get a room,” right?
There’s an element of letting go. It might be letting go of something, like someone you once were, or someone else, or just letting go of an old type of life, and even letting go of expectations you had for your future partner. You might have expected someone tall, blonde, and blue eyes, but this person might be a little stocky with brown hair and green eyes or black eyes, brown eyes, whatever.
To be honest, your relationship kind of feels like magic, but not in a very ethereal or eerie kind of way. It’s like when two people find each other and they just click instantly. They get you in a way that no one has before. You might have really, really close friends and they try to understand you and it’s very healthy friendships and connections, but there’s just some one person that just gets you. So this might be that person, right? And you will feel less lonely with them. If you’ve been feeling lonely recently, then you will definitely feel less lonely with them.
You guys also have a lot of physical attraction towards each other from the very beginning. So one thing you might want to look out for is that you guys may have some differences. You get each other, but there are some differences you guys have which are quite prominent in the sense that you guys might end up arguing a lot about them, or just having some low-level tension.
One major part of that physical attraction thing is that because of that attraction, you might end up ignoring these things or solving fights with making out, etcetera, etcetera. You might want to avoid that for future problems down the road. Solve it out, figure it out. You can do whatever you want afterwards, but you do need to solve out some things with them, like some big things. Obviously small fights don’t need to be tended to all the time, but if it is something that you conflict on in general, like if one of you wants to have kids and the other doesn’t, that’s a very non-compromisable thing, right?
So if you guys are dating to marry, then you might want to talk about that before. If you guys are casually dating, then that’s a different thing. Kids are very non-compromisable. The place where you want to live is non-compromisable. How you want to live, do you want to live with each other right now, do you want a live-in relationship, do you want to get legally married? If you want a serious relationship, you need to talk it out with this person because you guys might conflict on a few of these goals.
They don’t have to be this serious, though. They can just be something about taking trips, how often, finances, where you want to spend things. Those are serious too, but they’re not extremely non-compromisable, right? So you guys may need to talk it out.
But I think this relationship has a very good chance of working out in the end. I do think that in some cases you guys might have extremely conflicting views and it’s not really negotiable, but for others, there are very high chances of you guys getting married or whatever, if you want to.
