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@error707-thatdude
Guess I really should make a pinned post LOL
Hey there!! I go by lot's of names and nicknames so you can really call me whatever. Most recently I'm using SYLV, BEE, or DIRK!
I'm 22 and w college student!
Matching with the sillies @hawheckin and @yourdweamie 🫶 (i made our pfp's hehe)
Currently fixated on: HOMESTUCK and TMA
I've got a straw page teehee
Asks are OPEN for just about anything! Ask me questions or send in an edit/drawing request!
It's so cool to make friends in the computer (forgets to respond to everyone forgets to talk to anyone)
It's so cool to make friends in the computer (forgets to respond to everyone forgets to talk to anyone)
[wishing so bad to vaguepost but not wanting to send harassment after anyone] i saw a post. and it was bad.
how it feels when one of your hyperfixations comes back and stronger than ever
how it feels when one of your hyperfixations comes back and stronger than ever
how it feels when one of your hyperfixations comes back and stronger than ever
Be ace, be aware 4th year redraw! 2025 2024 2023
Guy with a hyperfixation: getting real “hyperfixation” vibes from this
all i need is a sweet treat. and six thousand dollars
all i need is a sweet treat. and six thousand dollars
all i need is a sweet treat. and six thousand dollars
This world is so beautiful. People are shipping Ryan gosling and markiplier. Because they were both in space movies you see
Tumblr users love to do things like this. I DO NOT mean this in a mocking way to be completely clear. I think it's cute. It reminds me of back in the day when people shipped jack frost and elsa cause they both have ice powers.
Or like the superwholock thing. Tumblr users like to go "I like this thing AND that thing.. What if my FAVORITE CHARACTERS met each other? Would that be cool or WHAT!" And the thing is it's absolutely adorable
You can say it's cringe or bad or missing the point of the movie all you want but I don't care. Yeah man, I bet it would be really cute if there was a happy ending and the blood murder man (in space) got saved by the dorky science teacher (in space) and they had yaoi moments. I'm so glad you're having fun
"Even cis men?" is the obvious response to my stance that practically anyone can be lesbians, and to answer with another question: are any cis men actually doing that to begin with? I mean, unironically, not as a joke? Because I don't think they are. Generally cis men aren't not going to sincerely identify with the term the way cis women and trans people will. Cis men essentially self-regulate themselves out of the definition without anyone needing to make that definition have concrete limits.
Whether it's WLW, transmascs who drove through Dykeville to get where they are now, or anyone else, you should assume someone calling themselves a lesbian has a good reason for doing so.
The only “cis men” i knew to use the label are the ones who lamented “i wish i could be a lesbian but unfortunately im a cis man” approximately a month before Realizing something about themselves and I will always ALWAYS maintain that being gentle about what that could mean for them is the right answer and not “omg you’re trying to prey on lesbians”
The two types of people to “jokingly” identify as a label:
1. Asshole trying to be edgy. If youre mad they double down, if you go ok ill call you that, they freak out and distance themselves from the label
2. Someone trying to figure themselves out
In both scenarios, using what they insist they are brings out the best outcome, and assuming someone is a 1 when they are a 2 and being hostile will only (shockingly) make it harder for them to come to terms with their identity
and of course, i've said this before, but: if a cis man genuinely identifies with the label "lesbian" and is NOT joking about it, who cares? if someone feels like their attraction to women is queer even if they are ostensibly cisgender, that's none of my business and it's weird that people think it's theirs. what happened to the era of not asking people invasive questions about their gender, genitals, and sexuality?
Additionally- cis is a spectrum just as much as the rest of it. A cis guy could be like (imagine a pinched fingers emoji here) this close to being nonbinary such that the distinction is meaningless. A cis guy could be bigender about it, or agender about it, and still consider themselves cis enough to count. A cis guy could be a system, with girls in it. A cis guy could have an unusual romantic attraction, or particular sexual preferences or something, that fall more in line with lesbians than anything else. A cis guy can be drag queen for drag queen or something, and tbh that's not *not* lesbian imo.
Signs someone is about to ignore the compassion, queer nuance, complexity and 'language doesn't describe the world it creates the world' linguistic relativity of every part of this post to double down on "Well, I think lesbian SHOULD mean woman and I'm going to pretend that that is a neutral, objective opinion to have."
#'words have meaning' is reactionary thinking#like obviously words have meaning. we're communicating meaning w words rn #but thats not what u mean #what u mean is 'i should be the one who decides what meanings words have and how they can be used'#'and everyone else should have to follow my definitions' #ppl used that phrase to argue against singular they or trans ppl in general #everybody get more descriptivist NOW
This. & 'in this age of illiteracy' is also a good sign that someone is about to come in with a massive superiority complex (and just a dash of false glorification of the past).
Some wonderful, compassionate, kick-ass lesbians are illiterate or low-literate because being queer can make it hard to stay in one place and do shit like complete high school. What of it? Do they know less about what it means to be a lesbian?
Another really annoying trick people do is shit like "So you think all lesbian spaces should include cis men?" or even more ridiculous "So you think lesbian women should be sexually available to men?"
Like, chill the fuck out. Nobody fucking said that. Some lesbian women date lesbian non-women, some don't. Do whatever the fuck you want.
"sexually available to men" is such an obvious bad faith way to reframe 'people using words flexibly' in the most threatening sounding way possible. What the fuck are we doing here?
Btw I think its evil how people turn everything romantic. Youre not allowed to hold hands with your friends. Youre not allowed to cuddle them. Youre not allowed to kiss them goodnight or just smooch them in general, god forbid you say you love them. You can't hold your friends. You can't fucking hug your friends. You can't even be in the vicinity of someone, actually. Good luck if you use affectionate nicknames, or are just generally nice to people. What is up with any of this. I don't want to romance everyone I just want a cuddle pile with my gang. Please. Pplease..
Ok this sounds very aro of me but I dont care. I'm too busy writing Kira to figure out my sexuality again but this isn't about that. I want friends to be allowed to be touchy and cute with eachother and remain friends. Couples shouldn't gatekeep motherfucking hand-holding. Especially cuddles normalize cuddling with your friends stay warm in a pile of loved ones. It's the ideal method to be cozy
QUICK EVERYONE GET MORE PLATONIC WITH IT NOW.
Btw I think its evil how people turn everything romantic. Youre not allowed to hold hands with your friends. Youre not allowed to cuddle them. Youre not allowed to kiss them goodnight or just smooch them in general, god forbid you say you love them. You can't hold your friends. You can't fucking hug your friends. You can't even be in the vicinity of someone, actually. Good luck if you use affectionate nicknames, or are just generally nice to people. What is up with any of this. I don't want to romance everyone I just want a cuddle pile with my gang. Please. Pplease..
Ok this sounds very aro of me but I dont care. I'm too busy writing Kira to figure out my sexuality again but this isn't about that. I want friends to be allowed to be touchy and cute with eachother and remain friends. Couples shouldn't gatekeep motherfucking hand-holding. Especially cuddles normalize cuddling with your friends stay warm in a pile of loved ones. It's the ideal method to be cozy
QUICK EVERYONE GET MORE PLATONIC WITH IT NOW.
i wont worry about it i say to myself with the always worried disorder
you've met me at a very "yeah i'm trying to work on that" time in my life
Sometimes you hear a song and a fic pops into your head full formed. This is a trap. The fic may be fully formed in your brain, but you still Have to write it down. This is an important step that most people forget about.
