~ Celestial Fangirl ~

Send me your headcanons!! Eta II She/her II Multi-fandom, Multi-shipping trash

[artmadval]

angel paint in red 💔

[poolboydivision]

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[stephanisoejono]

happy new year -------------_--------------------

[calamity-aims]

[justzutara]

being in this fandom for the last 20 years

[papanowo]

happy pride to these FREAKS

[oneverysmallfeather]

Here's the sillies from the last episode.

I'm glad that more people have to deal with their shenanigans.

[annemarieyeretzian]

julien looking to bolaire and asking “do you think [wick’s] that important?” and bolaire answering “I think his first instinct when he found out what his family was really about was to tell the truth to anybody who he thought could help.” 🩵

[dorothylarouge]

[fantasmadelaciudad]

i'll be honest thinking about las vegas makes me nauseous.

[fantasmadelaciudad]

like this shouldnt be possible.

[sillyspekter]

Every part of Vegas feels like it's pulled out of fiction and is Incredibly off-putting. It's a major city in the middle of one of the world's most inhospitable deserts

Its famous for recreating other world landmarks on a small scale. It uses this as a trap to bait people into making life ruining decisions. It's motto is essentially "never speak of what happened here". Fucked up

[penrenutet]

Yeah, yeah 😔 gentleman 🤡 though it, uh 😳 though, if you're picking up on 🏳️‍🌈 any 💖💜💙 it does-- whwswhudfj 💖💛💙 it HAPPENS to be a gentleman 🤢🤮 ha ha 😅🤪 i wish it i WISH it had been a woman 😤💪🏼 dang it! DANGIT!! 🤦🏽‍♀️😭 i mean, STATISTICALLY, right‼️i mean, there's dicks FLYIN 🍆💨 ZOOM! FWOW!! 💥🤯 its hard honestly butthatsthethingishonestly 🙈 i feel like when i see a woman that i'm into 😍🙀 i'm like GOD like the STAKES couldn't be higher 😬😖 what if i disappoint this woman 😫💔 see a man and you're like I DON'T EVEN GIVE A SHIT 🙅🏽‍♀️✋🏽 and they're like MaRrY mE 🙄💍😮‍💨

[heedra]

if you really want to fuck a vampire then i’d say you’re down for the count

[heedra]

damn thats a lot of notes and a lot of vampire fuckers, i guess its time to raise the stakes

[grungekitty-77]

Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.

It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.

Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.

Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.

Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)

Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!

You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!

If you want it in a simple phrase:

You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.

[grungekitty-77]

Fun fact, that was literally what inspired me to make this post!

[melancholygirls]

I passed a flower shop next to a tattoo shop and at first I laughed because I thought it was ironic and then i freaked because IMAGINE YOUR OTP IN A FLORIST/TATTOO ARTIST AU

[stillalittlekid]

OMG I COULD TOTALLY IMAGINE THEM LIKE THAT IT WOULD BE SO PERFECT

[christ-with-a-why]

[jamesroach]

4:35 Blaze it sorry traffic was crazy

[jamesroach]

oh we missed the ten year anniversary of the worst post i’ve ever made

[professionalchaoticdumbass]

traffic again?

[moringmark]

[runcibility]

I liked this post, scrolled for like another minute before I went “SHIT FUCK SHIT” and scrolled back to reblog it

[quadriviummuse]

I always reblog this one when I see it on my dash. When someone posts their own art, writing, or music here they are really hoping you will share it.

[akiragatr]

Tumblr is super big on the "I didn't say it was good, I said I liked it" but really need to discover the value in its opposite of "I didn't say it was bad, I said I hated it".

You can acknowledge that something is good, great, a masterpiece even, and just straight-up not enjoy it.

[parakeet]

20 years of neil banging out the tunes this coming monday. save the date

[it-me-butts]

Yassss the tunesss!!!