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Alright, time for a pin post ig.

Edit: everything under this point is outdated, potentially inaccurate as of today, may 9 2026, however this has been true for longer than I care to figure out

Welcome to my bog! I post my silly little doodles and drawings under the tag #my art and drawing inspiration/challenges occasionally under #draw me!

I also reblog stuff so uh, enjoy your stay

Wait I should probably say a little bit about myself. I am of questionable gender (any/all) and enjoy caffeine. I also like computer stuff sometimes.

Games I play:

Splatoon 3

Phantom forces (Roblox)

There's more but like for the past two(three?) years I've played almost exclusively those two and I'm too lazy to list stuff.

Update: my poor choices can be found under "exi's and idiot"

Me talking can be found under "Exi speaks"

And my totally normal obsession over seraphims can be found under "Exi likes angels"

Cool image I found on Tumblr

Source under cut

Also, this, yes

HOLY CRAP I NEVER KNEW I NEEDED BUTCHERS VANITY COTL @thegodofkhaosinkarnate LOOOOOOOK

#exi speaks

storm-of-feathers

yeah yeah rainbow capitalism is bad and whatever but like. when I was a child, being pro gay was not the popular or lucrative choice. I'm happy that times have changed.

storm-of-feathers

I miss rainbow capitalism. I do. I miss when it felt like public opinion was still pro gay. I understand it was always an empty gesture, but it mattered in a sense of knowing how socially acceptable being queer is. If that makes sense.

analog-delight

question for the "trans men can be lesbians" crowd:

what word is there to communicate to others "I'm a woman who loves women"?

ensignrobin

hi sorry for using this short post as a jumping off point for a long one, but this sparked a lot of thoughts for me!

this is something that I wish people would take more seriously. I am a woman who loves women and no one else. that's my sexual orientation. I didn't pick it, it's just who I am.

there's currently no single word I can use to communicate that. when I say I'm lesbian, queer people consistently assume that I mean it in the most expansive way possible.

and no one wants to say it, but the reality of what's happening when people make those assumptions is that they hear the word "lesbian" and replace it with the word "bisexual." they think I'm attracted to all genders, even men, as long as they're the good kind (AFAB).

the problem with this, which should be obvious, is the misogyny. people don't want to accept that a woman could ever be satisfied by only loving other women. they have to squeeze other genders in there to make it make sense to them. and they have to push the limits of lesbianism to include people who are more and more in proximity to manhood until it's assumed as a matter of cour that lesbians are all attracted to men.

we're already very far down that road. I can't call myself a lesbian without having people make all kinds of wild and wrong assumptions about who I am and who I'm open to dating (which leads to sexual harassment and feeds into all other kinds of misogyny that women face from the rest of the queer community).

I don't know whether the right way to reduce the harm here is to push back on the idea that men can be lesbians, or to come up with a new word that specifically means women who love women, or both. If there's a new word then it'll be corrupted sooner or later. That's already happened with sapphic, and, incredibly, "WLW".

either way the situation leaves me with no sympathy for trans men who call themselves lesbians.

ensignrobin

oh and you (the reader) might think, why are trans women the ones who seem to have the strongest opinions about this? it's because everyone else sabotaged their misogyny radar (misogydar, if you will) when they decided to twist their feminism into knots in order to exclude us from it.

wakingfromthewater

The NYC woodcock keeps reminding me of when someone posted on our local sub reddit warning everybody that he nearly got mugged trying to see an American woodcock. He had heard we had one in a park, but he went at night and a guy was looking at him weirdly and possibly following him a bit, so he got out of there and wanted to make sure everybody knew to stay safe.

Unbeknownst to him the location he'd gone to is one of the city's most infamous cruising spots, so the comments were split between people gently breaking this to him, birders giving woodcock sighting tips, and people going YEAH THAT SURE IS THE BEST PLACE TO SEE AN AMERICAN WOOD COCK.

theoneofwhomisblue

saltiecattoz

you guys need to be kinder to people you don’t find attractive. it’s getting ridiculous.

i’m fat, intersex, and disabled. so many times if i hung out with someone, their outfit gets complimented but not mine (even if i that person literally picked out my outfit so its not a matter of me just not having a good fashion taste). so many times have people treated other people around me kind but their attitude changes immediately if they have the misfortune to interact with me. i don’t do anything to warant this besides looking different. i get treated like i’m not there or not human. it sucks.

i know this affects more than just fat intersex disabled people. trans people, people of color, women in general, but especially those who have any of these traits or even just don’t wear makeup. dehumanization can be subtle. but we notice❤️

the-one-and-only-overlass

"akshually, [fictional character] isn't a trans woman, he's a [transmisogynistic slur]"

the-one-and-only-overlass

and part 2: "akshually, calling [fictional character] a trans woman is [transmisogynistic slur] erasure"

moth-grrrl-mavis

One time someone on facebook said trans is a slur used to discriminate against femboys.

darkspaceboytoy

Two things this website hates and that’s women and gay people who are gay in the “I have sex with other gay people” way and not some sort of thinly defined yearning and homophobic joke based system largely applied to brothers and male coworkers in early 2000s television shows. Three things this website hates actually sorry silly me but this website does hate black people.

godlessondheimite

In 2026, the chicest thing a gay actor can do is never explicitly come out as gay but also make it abundantly clear that he is. Coming out is too modern. Staying closeted is too old fashioned. But this method merges contemporary freedom with Old Hollywood glamour and allure, and it weeds out the dumbest people who truly don’t get it. I call it the Pascal Method.

nobodys-odyssey

Taylor Swift does this

godlessondheimite

no she doesn’t

nobodys-odyssey

You clearly don't go here or to queer history and signaling, or both, enough to have this conversation and I'm not going to explain it to you. You could have asked questions, you could have done even a modicum of research. You didn't and you made yourself look ignorant. Goodbye.

dancinbutterfly

#I'm fucking crying#this is an instant classic#this is the next meme#i can't believe I'm here to see a baby copypasta nary two hours old#I can't#lol#i laughed way too hard#iconic

asteroidtroglodyte

Me, passing a car covered in horny thirst-trap anime girl stickers: while I personally find this to be cringe, given the national push for censorship, I must concede that this is technically Praxis.