als wie im traum

«Du bist nicht mehr du Selber. Das Gewürm hängt immerfort um dich. Was sie ins Ohr dir zischen, trennt dein Denk fort und fort entzwei, so gehst du hin im Taumel, immer bist du, als wie im Traum.» Elektra, Hugo von Hofmannsthal, 1904.

[art-calavera]

Peace and Purpose

[reylofic-deactivated20220910]

Force Bond Part 4

More to come! Will edit as more are found/written; suggestions welcome! 

Masterpost

+ - fic is mature/explicit

* - fic is incomplete

Multichapter:

*+ Forbidden by LadySpecter

*+ Bloodmoon by villainous_surrender

*+ This Will Destroy You by yesmydarling

+ The Way to Tomorrow by the-reylo-void (Anysia)

+ Two Stars Aligned by OccasionallyCreative

*+ The Precipice by 221brothermine

* We Are One by Hissterically

Luminous Beings by Elywyngirlie

* Paper Minds by kuresoto

*+ You and I by AnonymousJedi

+ I will possess your heart by ReyloRobyn2011

*+ Violent Delights by blackcoffeeforme

+ Stronger Than A Force Bond by terapid

+ Redemption and Ruin by BregoBeauty

+ and find your way back home by second_chances

* Go Back to Sleep by PerfectPurgatory

*+ The Space in Between by Avdal

* Against All Odds by venxna

*+ Together, to be by writing2savelives

+ Playing With Fire by ChloeFandomQueen

*+ Steigerung by redsunsaint and reyleaux (witchoil)

+ Sunless Shadows by cypris

*+ (D)alliance by i_am_the_thunder

*+ Mistakes were made by Lubylu1989

* Awakening by EllieCarina

* A Fine Line by Aramenialys

Series:

+ The damnatio memoriae series by bam_cassiopeia

+ The Every Dirty Trick in the Book series by Avdal

+ The Bound series by CaraRose

Oneshots:

+ Coda Memoriam by Auraki

+ Counterfeits by ReyloTrashCompactor (NextToSomething)

Ghosts by Star_on_a_Staff

Desert Flower by GrotesqueEnchantment

I Sense It by AnonymousJedi

Halloween Blues by PeridotStorm

By Her Command by Elywyngirlie

+ The Proper Instruction by TheUniverse_Smiles

+ That Fateful Day by HouseGameOfPotter

Lucid Awakening by Noriselly

Rain by trashforreylo

+ Solace by ladyazura

Reflection by xxRedRainxx 

+ reveries. by kuresoto

+ Delicate by Weatherbug02

You Got it All Wrong by sinisterkid92

+ ave, imperator by reddy

+ the bonds that bind us by freedomatsea

connected in the deep by Juulna

Across the Stars by TheBridgeIntoYourMind

Asteroid, Sabers, Shield by Copper_Nails (Her_Madjesty)

[thelabyrinthsqueen-deactivated2]

[cartoonjessie]

“Dreamers” - amazing art by the wonderful @panda-capuccino - [Read on AO3]

During young Ben Solo’s darkest nightmares, there’s a girl that helps him cope. At first he just feels her presence, but her image becomes clearer as dreams go by. When he learns that she needs his help too, he is willing to disobey his uncle’s wishes and do whatever it takes to reach her. Only together, they can figure out what this powerful bond between them is about.

[starwarsnonsense]

Kylo Ren on the warpath (my scan from the official collector’s magazine for the movie).

[hope-lives-in-the-galaxy]

💕🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[lyanna-stark]

I’m losing it jhfhwkfe

[reyloeverafter]

BASICALLY…

THE FORCE IS SO OVER THEIR SHIT.

Overall, in the end, they missed the point. With their Force Vision, they pictured “my side,” “your side.” There aren’t sides. No one needs to turn. There needed to be balance, both light AND dark. Not more than the either. That creates an imbalance.

The broken saber represents the fragments of this imbalance.

Only these two can put it back together again.

[kantobite]

ANYWAY “You’re not alone.” “Neither are you.” is the new “I love you.” “I know.”

[meerius]

Kylo bought the whole stock of that card, it’s the only way he can express himself without a tantrum.

[sheisrecovering]

Helpful Links:

types of anxiety disorders

what causes anxiety?

calm breathing technique 

coping with a panic attack

counseling: does it work?

four As of stress management

grounding techniques

home tips to reduce anxiety

learning to say no without feeling guilty

ocd help

overcoming chest tightness

medication info

muscle relaxation

trick for social anxiety

rules for coping with anxiety & panic

self help strategies for PTSD

sleep aid kitten

social skills tips

more ptsd help

vitamin deficiency & anxiety

yoga poses for stress relief

12 foods for stress relief

9 steps to reduce anxiousness

Activities and DIY:

alpaca sock plushie

anxiety workbook for teens

anxiety relief - jar spell

calming glitter jar

comfort box

cute stress relief kit

panic workbook

stress relief bath and shower recipes

worksheet: learn to attack unhelpful thoughts

zen and anti stress colouring sheets

Interactives: 

100,000 stars

6 games for anxiety & depression

blahtherapy

boosterbuddy

disgruntle me

do nothing for 2 minutes

emotions wheel

make everything ok

mindshift phone app

neonflames

planetarium

rainymood

stress analyst

the thoughts room

the quiet place project

worry rockets

[victoriaponds-deactivated201805]

“You’re not alone.”

[atbensolo]

#SaveBenSolo

[failenn]

THISSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!

[ceallaigheirinn]

Rey was going about it all wrong to bring Ben home.

Hear me out.

She left Ahch-To misguided. She left thinking that Ben Solo would be an adequate substitute when Luke refused to join the war. She saw him as the Great Jedi Hope that would be this magical bit that would turn the tide. It was no different than her childlike magical thinking that would bring her parents back.

Luke knew that wouldn’t be a good enough reason for Ben to return home or to win a war. He was right that it wasn’t going to end the way she thought.

Ben Solo is a terrified boy hard wired by trauma and rejection. He was a boy who woke to the greatest Jedi ever a hair’s breadth from killing him. In that moment he felt that his family had thrown him away. Deep down inside he’s no different than Rey, except he’s at a place in life where he can verbalize that feeling.

Ben is looking desperately for someone not to throw him away. And when it happens (and he feels like Rey did when he woke alone) he channels that hurt into rage. He replaces that longing for belonging with a longing for power. Because you can’t be hurt if you’re the one doing the hurting.

So Rey will never be able to guide Ben home if she’s looking for him as a weapon. A weapon is something he becomes when he is in his fight or flight mode. It’s how he becomes a ball of jagged glass that no one wants to touch. He’ll hurt you first just so that you can’t hurt him.

Rather Ben will follow her anywhere and fully once he no longer needs to hide as a sharp and cutting weapon. He needs to know that he is safe, where he can be vulnerable and not be mocked like Snoke did to him for years. He needs to know that taking his glove off and reaching back won’t hurt. And he needs to know that when he wakes, someone will still be there.

Rey can find him. She can serve as his footlights home. But it can never be in the construct of being a weapon. Kylo is a weapon. She needs to lead the scared boy that still dreams that someone will love him without strings attached home. You can’t drag a scared creature out of the shadows. He will bite and snarl like a wounded animal he is.

Rather she needs to be patient and let him emerge from the shadows and encourage him on his journey.

[failenn]

THIIIIIIISSSSSS.

[knights-of-ben-solo]

[stardust-devi]

x

[arbutus-blossoms]

[elvhendis]

Drawn from a blurry gif screenshot lol. 

Messy fighting Kylo is the best Kylo

[hello-im-a-reylo]

NOW THIS IS THE SHIT THAT I SIGNED UP FOR

G O D D A M N

[sleemo]

Adam Driver and Stephen Colbert playing with Rey and Kylo action figures on the show - 12/15/2017.

[ceallaigheirinn]

Adam making his action figure kissy kissy with action figure Rey.