worst relationship status to have w someone is âobjectively theyâre a fine person who is nice but i donât enjoy their company as much as they enjoy mineâ
second worst relationship status to have with someone is âobjectively theyâre a fine person but they Bother Youâ
secret third technically more harmless but in practicality more frustrating relationship status is âobjectively theyâre a fine person and they like so many of the same things i do but they like them in a fundamentally different way that is harmless but reads wrong to my brain and it has made attempts at forming an actual bond with them aggravating more than anythingâ
tbh i think stuff like this is why so many people, especially younger people, fall into this trap of âwell if i donât like a person or thing, they must be badâ. it would be so much easier if you could dismiss them as bad and move on. but itâs like, no, Objectively Fine people or things can just not mesh well with you for totally subjective reasons. and sometimes when theyâre people you mesh much better with their brain than they do with yours. and sometimes you have to live with that.
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