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Vedic astrology

[fancyperfectionsweets]

Astrology Observations 11

🌖 If your moon falls into someone’s 7th house, best believe that they’ll be out there hella comparing you to their mother😭. “My mom does this exactly” “You’re so similar to her”. Men I’ve encountered this synastry with have always expected me to baby them.

🦘 I do not recommend mars-moon synastry if the woman is the moon and the man is mars. He’ll 100% terrorise you if you do not reciprocate his feelings and everyone will KNOW that he’s into you. Hel’ll use the public visibility to try to ruin your public image. -1000/10 do not recommend.

🥩 Mars in 5th house synastry and doing it raw…seems to be a common theme

🃏 Lilith 10th house synastry is not for the weak. The Lilith person is deemed stupid yet attractive by the house person while Lilith is literally studying and trying to manipulate the 10th houser like a sport. Very weird power play dynamics.

⌛️ I don’t think Neptune falling into someone’s 5th house is nice for long term relationship but I love this in friendships cause me has fun with you and I just remember my time so fondly with them.

🫀 First house synastry and them pedatalizing you is real, especially if benefics are involved.

🧯 If you have Ketu-Venus synastry, Venus at some point, is going to despise ketu if things don’t work out.

🦂 Scorpio moons and their ability to lie to your face is INSANE.

🗑️ Moon in the first house and people spilling their guts for no reason to you can get exhausting. You’re constantly feeling as if you gave the label “feelings dumpster” plastered on your head.

🛌 Venus in the 4th house and getting opportunities to earn in your hometown is real. These people are also very connected to their roots.

📚People with natal moon conjunct mars are the kind that will make you feel comfortable when you speak to them. They love to read people and try to come to their level to connect. Amazing ability.

🎡 Exalted, comfortable planets are literally luckymaxxing in your chart. Let me explain. If you think of luck, you think of jupiter, right? Now think of a typical jupiter dominant person-they are out there, travelling, meeting people and making connections. If you do that and are loud, people will remember you. Won’t they? When an opportunity comes in, they’ll reach out. Let’s talk about exalted planets. Exalted sun? They literally have a way of exerting themselves while being humble. Exalted moon? They can comfort and connect with anyone. Reason why one says that exalted planets are good is because the planet is the most comfortable to exhibit those qualities. However, I also believe that now that we know this, you can identify and learn with logic.

💎 Mars in gemini or 3rd house man and getting those nasty thoughts when you’re fighting with them. They LOVE a verbally aggressive woman. Bonus points if it’s somewhere in Aries then they’ll also be turned on if you physically fight them. They love a spicy one. 🌶️

[rosefigs]

ɢᴏᴛʜɪᴄɪꜱᴍ & ᴀꜱᴛʀᴏʟᴏɢʏ

I'm doing research on Gothicism & Astrology. So far I've been able to go through over 50 charts of authors, actors, directors, designers, musicians, etc. and I am noticing that it's Saturn, not Pluto, that keeps coming up as the dominant influence.

Mary Shelley, Baudelaire, Lovecraft, Lugosi, Lynch, Argento, McQueen, Manson, Bjork, Anne Rice, Sylvia Plath, Tim Burton, etc.

The dominant signature many of them carry is not Pluto, it's Saturn.

Many Saturn-ruled ASC, Saturn on the ASC or aspecting the chart ruler, Saturn in the 1H, Sun in Capricorn/Aquarius, Saturn-Pluto aspects, or tight Sun-Saturn - describes 76% of the sample. Three out of every four gothic figures in the dataset thus far are, structurally, Saturnian before they are anything else.

It makes sense once you ask yourself: "Which planet is gothic culture about?"

Gothic is fundamentally about the non-departure of the past. The haunted house has stopped time. The vampire cannot die. Frankenstein's monster is mortality reversed rather than transcended. Gothic media returns obsessively to ruined castles, ancestral curses, hereditary secrets, family crypts, inherited madness, the past that refuses to be over. It is not the texture of transformation; it is the texture of preservation, of what time will not let go of. It is Saturn's territory at it's core.

Interestingly enough, in older English usage, "Saturnine" originally came from the astrological influence of Saturn: coldness, darkness, melancholy, severity, isolation, contemplation, age, decay, fatalism, and intellectual depth. A "saturnine person" was often imagined as possessing many of the traits that would later become central to gothic aesthetics.

I'm hoping I can get at least 100-150+ charts done and post my findings in an in-depth post. 🖤

[fancyperfectionsweets]

Just saw your post about Cancer stellium men and that is so real. I have a writing degree and in college there was this guy in a lot of my classes who I eventually became casual friends with. He was a “poet” (he was not good) and his big three were ALL Cancer plus other placements I can’t remember. He wrote very melodramatic, woe is me, I’m a victim type of poems. He used to tell me all about his mom’s mental health issues and the shit she put him through; it was some pretty heinous stuff. This guy became so obsessed with me he would write poems about having sex with me, being in love with me, etc. for class assignments. I had a bf and after we broke up he told me he fantasied about me cheating with him during my entire relationship. We also were hanging out alone once and he said to me in this strange voice, “You know what I want.” I told him to F off after that and he sent me a huge paragraph about how it wasn’t fair I dated my ex but wouldn’t give him a chance. As if that even makes sense. I ghosted, and months later he started sending me messages about how he wanted me to come see him for Christmas because he bought me vitamins????? Something about concern for my health???? Blocked. He was a total lunatic, and he thought he was so clever and charming. Other (female) classmates/friends used to critique his poetry about me to discourage it, but he was immune to feedback. I even had professors come to me and tell me they thought he was weird and they were keeping an eye on him on my behalf.

He sounds like a fucking awful person

[cyberclouddream]

Observations

Mars—Sixth House Synastry

Their Mars in your 6th house

- you feel sick after fights with them, and not metaphorically either. Or just being in contact with them in general can lead to more sleep deprivation, poor digestion, developing stress acne. Their presence jacks up your cortisol and blood sugar, your body treats them like a physical threat.

- they try to help you organize/structure things you maintain daily and it typically annoys you. They can turn small matters into emergency situations, like a clogged drain becomes four hours of hardware store shopping and YouTube tutorials.

- they get aroused by you doing regular mundane things or when you’re vulnerable, like when you’re sick from an illness, bleeding cuz of your cycle, stressing over work tasks, and it tends to feel more predatory than nurturing. They pick fights or try to seduce you when you’re feeling weak, and can mistake your exhaustion for submission.

- they tend to weaponize their helpfulness towards you, expecting unsaid debts like your availability, emotional access, or sexual reciprocity after they help you with something.

- they tend to get into arguments with people who are helping, even your dentist, trainer, waiter, or any service related people you see regularly. They tend to try to assert dominance over people who serve you, like correcting, challenging, or seducing these people in order to prove that they’re the alpha when it comes to your support system.

- they become something like your unpaid physical therapist or life coach. The tend to engineer your life without your consent, like rearranging your kitchen or throwing away things they feel you don’t need anymore.

- trying to work together on tasks is very difficult (often to the point of tears), it feels like their style, pace, drive in work ethic feels too incompatible with your own

Your Mars in their 6th house

- you feel obsessed with fixing their routines and they hate for that. You feel like you can’t stop yourself from suggesting better ways to do things, and you genuinely feel like you’re being helpful, but it feels like micromanaging to them. You like to dictate how they maintain themselves.

- you get aroused when you see them doing mundane tasks like washing dishes, running errands, focusing on work. You get turned on by them in normal domestic moments, especially when they struggle with things

- you may exhaust them with your activities yet it feels like bonding to you. When they complain you blame their character. Activities that are supposed to help them be more efficient and productive, like pushing them through a workout or improving their resume/portfolio .

- you start drama with their roommate or coworker quickly, having opinions about how their boss is incompetent or their roommate is useless. Defending them but maybe in ways that makes their life harder.

- you like to experiment like a lab tech with how to optimize their health and efficiency. You like to monitor how they’re body’s doing.

- you create crises to feel necessary in their life, like accidentally deleting their work, provoking their boss, throwing out necessities. It’s like you want to feel like the emergency solution.

[achillesinhighheels]

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[fancyperfectionsweets]

THE JUPITER DOMINENT THING!!! having a sag stellium and pisces moon and jupiter on the asc is NOT for the tough omg !!

100% ageee thankyou for talking about this 🤙💗

Thank you. And I agree, especially as a woman because a jupiter dominant man is seen giving. A woman?? They'll refuse to believe you have abundance and call you every name in the book because how dare you exist out loud?

[fancyperfectionsweets]

Heyy what are your thoughts on venus square venus aspect in synastry.

Honestly I never see people talking about venus square venus it's always venus square mars and how that is such a 'intense sexual attraction' placement but what about venus square venus. Is it not a good aspect

I think it's a bit of friction in love language? Like I think you square the planets that feel misunderstood to you. For example, I have my venus square pisces and as a Sagittarius venus, I can never understand why Pisces need to be... THAT! Idk. They hella emotional and elusive and they'll act like you're the love of your life and then when you tell them you don't want what they want, they'll ignore tf out of you because you refused to give what they wanted. Like..sir?? What is that switch up??

I think that's the basic manifestation. Their love language annoys you and in general, makes you feel misunderstood

[fancyperfectionsweets]

Hey 🤍

Please, I loved this observation:

“12th house shows how you act when you're drunk. Yes! But also check your planets here. I have my venus + mars there and I literally get so lovey dovey when I'm drunk.”

Would you be able to go into detail for someone that has there 12H in Scorpio? (I specifically have it in Venus and Mars).

Thank you gorgeous.

Well, congratulations. How does it feel knowing people's motives and secrets before they even know?? It's an intense placement and definitely not for the weak.

Your heart burns with passion and desire and you may obsess from lover to lover till you don't gaf about them. You may have spiritual intense dreams and you're the drunk friend who may get drunk and go around revealing people's secret crushes (not to gossip. It's always between your group). If you don't get drunk in familiar environment though, you may feel the need to shut up completely and text the people you're thinking about.

[fancyperfectionsweets]

🧌 Astrology Observation 🪾

⚡ Chiron conjunct ascendant and their quality to read people's frustration and sorrows on their faces is actually scary. They are natural healers.

⚡ There are downsides to having benefics in the first house. I've noticed that oftentimes if you have venus, moon or jupiter in the 1st house, you'll constantly feel the pressure to look good and it can make you feel ugly. You are more prone to focusing on the negatives instead of the positives of your physical self. Malefics can actually help you detach. The only exception maybe here is Rahu because it is literally the planet of obsession but Rahu in the 1st house natives also feel the same pressure of being presentable and put together always.

⚡ People have pointed out that Purva Ashada's often dress gothic or alt and those are usually their style roots lean more alt. As a Venus in Purva Ashada, I can confirm this.

⚡ one of the many disadvantages of having a weak sun or moon in the chart is that your parents may constantly have health issues. A weak sun represents father having a weak health while having a weak moon can mean that your mother may be constantly sick.

⚡ So, @njkastrology (twitter: njkailani) has a theory of each sign having a significant bend towards a flavour. I want to built up on it and say that your Sun, moon, stelliums and strong planets zodiacs kind of make for the tastes you like. Check yours below and tell me..

Aries: cinnamon, nut based flavour 🥜

Taurus: Vanilla, Toffee, Caramel, honey, fruity flavours, apple 🍎

Gemini: fruity flavours, strawberry, apple 🍓

Cancer: mocha, coffee, cream ☕

Leo: Chocolate 🍫

Virgo: Honey, apple 🍯

Libra: Vanilla, Toffee, Caramel, honey, butterscotch 🍬

Scorpio: cinnamon, nut based flavour 🥜

Sagittarius: fruity flavours, strawberry, grapes, citrusy fruits 🍇

Capricorn: mocha, coffee, cream, butterscotch ☕

Aquarius: mocha, coffee, cream, butterscotch ☕

Pieces: fruity flavours, grapes 🍇

⚡ mercury-moon conjunction synastry is constantly talking to each other and understanding each other deeply. This is a yapper x listener synastry

⚡ North Node (Rahu) and moon synastry is protecting each other, even in platonic relationships. I have this with a friend and we are constantly trying to protect each other (even from their own stupidity sometimes, lol). It's the typa person that will hand you a ciggeratte but also cook you a bowl of soup when sick.

⚡ another synastry that goes understated in relationships is Saturn. If Saturn doesn't touch personal planets, then the relationship isn't long lasting. However, I'd like to add that when Saturn touches Ascendant, descendant, IC or MC, that's also as good as touching personal planets. With ascendant and IC synastry I've noticed that Saturn feels very protective of the ascendant ('s identity and reputation) or IC ('s comfort) person. I love this. They're ready to fight for you.

⚡ Mercury harmonious aspects are also so important when it comes to friendships. Mercury is how we express ourselves and if that doesn't sit correct with your partners or friends, it'll create an atmosphere of misunderstanding. I have this synastry with many of my platonic and romantic relationships. The most easy flowing ones were where my mercury was making a harmonious (trine, sextile, conjunction) with their inner planets.

⚡ Someone on Tumblr had made an observation here the other day about how having a 12th house venus means people showing up in dreams to seduce you. As a 12th venus and mars, I'd like to add a layer: sometimes people (and things: shadows, spirits) can show up in dreams to harm you. It's tiring and annoying as hell. I cannot tell you how many times I've seen a shadow hover over me when I'm lucid dreaming. I'm usually not scared of them but I can confirm this happens.

⚡ Jupiter dominant women 🤝 getting slutshamed by others because they have loads of male friends. This has been a theme in every single jupiter dominant woman I've met. We are NOT trying to fuck our friends, istg. Get over it!! (Honorable mention: mercury dominant women)

⚡ I recently got into the whole Mahadasha-Antardasha thing and realised that everytime I had an eye issue is when I have been in my moon antardasha. I have an afflicted moon and it basically ends up causing harm to my mom, my eyes or is usually a very turbulent and emotionally challenging time. 😭 Usually the moon is seen as a benefic but if your benefic planets are afflicted, it'll show up as problems.

[fancyperfectionsweets]

Astrology Observations 9 🧟

🖤 Girlie pop, how you hurt them is Chiron conjunction with their personal planets, that planet's quality is where you hurt them. I had this man's Chiron conjunct my mercury and nothing hurt him more than my words and communication style 😭 similarly, a man's moon conjuncted my Chiron and nothing pissed me off more than him withdrawing his emotional availability to me 💢 (Yes, when done correctly, Chiron synastry can be healing but no one talks about the downsides)

🖤 why have I never come across a scorpio moon man who likes calm women?? All of them love the kind of woman who is mean to them, berates them and in general can kill with her words. I've always heard shit like, "Yeah, women SHOULD be mean. Why should they be nice?" And I agree as a Scorpio Sun but I won't be mean to my S.O. (wtf is wrong with y'all??)

🖤 Want to lose weight? It's so easy to do so in your Saturn return (age 27-30) or when you're going through a Saturn heavy period. Saturn aspecting your first house can also have the same effect. Saturn is the planet of purge so he understands you don't NEED those extra fats so he helps you lose it faster.

🖤 Having 5th house placements with no 7th house placements usually means that you constantly end up with crushes and hot, writhing romances but not make the other person commit to you. Not good for long-term commitment imo.

🖤 Conversely, having loads of 7th house placements means constant love triangles, liking people who are already paired up (or them liking you back) or constantly "stealing" partners (even if no fault of your own).

🖤 Another hot synastry: man's Lilith conjunct a woman's mars. They are exactly each other's type.

🖤 Check for astroid lust in synastry. If their personal planets conjunct your lust, they'd be feeling all sorts of ways and feeling horny for you.

🖤 His Lilith conjunct your ascendant is "gosh! I forgot how pretty you are!" Everytime he looks at you and you can SEE it in his eyes.

🖤 If someone's Jupiter falls into your 11th house, you can overall feel very lucky to the house person. They love you for the connections you bring them. This is the same for venus. However, if your mars falls there, they may be secretly competing with you.

🖤 if their moon is your rising, you'll hear them constantly say "I aspire to be you" and mean it.

🖤 Very specific but I feel as if anytime a man has hurt me, I've had either Lilith-Sun/moon/venus/mars synastry with him where I'm specifically the Lilith person or nodal synastry where my nodes are conjunct their personal planets. This is true even for friendship synastries and at times they won't be intending to hurt me, but they will say something or do something and it annoys tf out of me. On the flipside, while Pluto synastry makes me feel obsessive over the other person, I've never been hurt by them. I usually obsess and then move on if it doesn't work.

🖤 my people with mars in the 12th house, are you prone to psychic attacks?? Or is it just me? 😭 I also lucid dream between my nightmares and wtf 😒

🖤 Something that I've realised about libra women is that them daddy issues are almost always there. The sun is in detriment in Libra and it shows. With that, they either show too much naivety or too much cunningness and it shows. It can also come across as people who get easily influenced from other people's opinions or styles. May not happen if they have strong uranus or Neptune influence or if their moon is strong.

🖤 Mercury dominant women love to play the wolf in sheep's clothing archetype. This can also be true for Rahuvian women. Being the "darker" side of the moon, they feel the need to keep illusions to test people. Mercury women are smart and that's why they love to play dumb to understand people and see what happens when they are given free will (as in how they'll treat her, if they have evil intentions towards them because most people who want to take advantage of you will let themselves slip if they think you're dumb). They also do it because they want to get things done without putting in too much effort. Rahuvian women though, do it for the plot. Literally! They want see people's reaction and gauge their own judgement based on it. Rahu is the planet of illusions. They want to create that to understand people's projections on to them and the world. Afflicted moon women also do this but they are a bit more naive in my opinion but they do love to lie or create some illusion. Lol.

🖤 I've realised that people with strong moons understand public attention as social currency. This makes them very prone to caring about their image in public. Can also be 1 house or 10 house stelliums. Weak or afflicted moon natives do not care about their public image and don't care or depend on it.

[fancyperfectionsweets]

Astrology Observation 8 💢

🌌 Neptune-Ascendant synastry is such an interesting dynamic. The Neptune person idealizes the ascendant person to the point that they can't see them in a negative light at all. It's pretty intoxicating to them: "You're so pretty, I cannot hear the words because I can't stop staring at your face" typa love. It's cute ❤️

🌐 Made a last observation about how the place moon falls in is where you'd love to get validation from. Mercury is where you go to seek advice from. E.g., my mercury is in the 11th house and I definitely go to my friend circle to ask advice on different matters.

🥺 4th House synastry and 12th House synastry is very interesting to me. If they have their personal planets falling in your 4th house, you cannot hate them because you have a soft spot for them. Literally weak for them. 12th House synastry is idealism and dreaming about them. 12th house synastry is so elusive and you cannot see the "bad" in the other person.

🍸 12th house shows how you act when you're drunk. Yes! But also check your planets here. I have my venus + mars there and I literally get so lovey dovey when I'm drunk.

💔 If the lord of 6th house sits in the 11th house and you have an afflicted 7th house (malefics in 7th house, malefic drishti at 7th house), you're more likely to listen to your friends than your partner creating conflict. I've also noticed that as a lot of times your friends end up having crushes on you and try to break you and your boo up.

🚨 I'm sorry but every Cancer stellium man I've met is a toxic mix of people pleaser and lowkey manipulative (also abusive). It's worse if this stellium occurs in the 6th, 8th or 12th house. These men scare the shit out of me. I knew two of them and both of them were obsessed with women and what they have to offer them, had repressed anger issues and could be very violent if given the chance. Also, yes, mommy issues or their general entitlement to the feminine energy is scary af.

🐎 I love how a lot of people make the astrology Observation that aquarius venuses and Sagittarius venuses don't have a type. As a sag venus, we do and it's: do they like me back?? Lol. I have noticed this in sag and aqua venuses a lot. They don't mostly think of you romantically till you can flip a switch in their head that makes them go, "huh. I think I like how they do this. And they SEEM interested in me so I'll drop hints." While the person interested in them had been dropping hints on them for AGES.

🐂 I see a lot of grounding in Taurus stellium men. Even if they have gemini placements or libra placements, Taurus as an earth energy grounds them a lot. They are absolutely down for you if they choose you. They are the literal defination of "move mountains for the woman I love" but if they don't?? YOU'LL KNOW! They make it so obvious with their body gestures and staring daggers. Lol. You can see it in their eyes that they absolutely hate someone. However, for some reason, they do not verbalize it. They will still keep up appearences and be polite because it's not in their nature.

🐏 But Aries stellium men?? Oof. They'll TELL you off tf. I have dealt with many Aries and Taurus stellium men in my life (idk why I keep attracting them) and man oh man! An Aries stellium man will call out ANYONE they don't like. They'll straight up tell you things like "you're approach to this is unhealthy and problematic. I don't want to associate with you", "this doesn't concern you. Stay out of this conversation.", "why are you even here?" And while as a Scorpio Sun I adore this quality, it can NEVER be me. 💀

⚖️ I will hold your hand when I say this to Libra Suns and Moons (especially women). You don't have to sacrifice your everything for love. 😭 Be a little bold and inconvenient. The right person will stay back. Y'all give too much, do too much and essentially sacrifice way too much. Yes, you want things out of "manipulation and peace" but sometimes you have to call people out. Please!

🐣 Most sun in the first house people look young because most of them also have Mercury in the 1st too. Mercury is always one house away from the sun because of its proximity to the sun in the solar system.

🫩 If y'all have venus square saturn, listen up. You won't find love of any kind of you hold on too tight or if they hold on too tight. The lesson that Saturn teaches in the long run is letting go. Let the universe do it's job when it wants to love and trust the cosmic plan.

💅 Venusian men (2nd, 7th house stellium, Taurus stellium, Libra stelliums) rather prefer women's company than men. They understand that women are more non-judgemental and aggressive masculine energy makes them uncomfortable. This is not because they are uncomfortable in theirs, but rather they are extremely comfortable in their masculinity and call men's mysogynistic bs out from a mile away. I also see this in scorpio moon men or 8th moon men (if, evolved. If not, scorpio moon men are literally the devils).

[fancyperfectionsweets]

Astrology Observation 7 🥂

👶 forever young people placements in my personal opinion: Mercury atmakaraka, Neptune 1st house and Mercury first house. If you have a strong mercury, that is a good indicator of looking younger than your age. Moon dominance in the first house as well (moon in 1st house, moon nakshatra ruled planets in first)

🧟 Jupiter exalted in D9? Yeah. You're going to manifest exactly the type of husband you want but be careful what you wish for because those qualities will be exaggerated. Want a guy who wants you like crazy?? Be ready to find a future husband that is OBSESSED with you and can't keep his hands off you.

📦 Which brings me back to something that is super obvious. When checking synastry chart, you can also directly overlay your charts over your partner. That will explain a lot. I promise. Let's say for example, This guy liked me a lot and when I checked his chart, I was like.. umm.. why? Like nothing "romantic" conjuncted, lol. Mostly platonic. It almost felt obsessive. And that's when it hit. His pluto (scorpio) is in the 12th. I have a venus and Mars (Sagittarius) in the 12th so.. yes. That made sense. Then I went back and checked a friend's synastry chart and boom! I knew why this girl would keep calling that one guy. 👹

🌌 Yes, gemini Venus men are fuckboys but have y'all seen sag mars people? They are fuckboys and girls 😭 like... Jupiter just be expanding on whatever it touches

🌚 This can be unpopular opinion, but when you're reading descriptions of "trait embodiment" in astrology, the embodiment usually works in terms of the woman embodying it and the man pursuing it?? For example, I was reading one of the post of @youremyheaven here talking about how the Purva ashada's are obsessed with "defiling innocence' or may have a "take her virginity" complex. And as a Purva Ashada Venus, I've actually been kind of repulsed by the idea of defiling anyone or taking their virginity. However, I've had several men come to me with the motive to "defile" me?? (Sexually, of course). And they have actually used THAT term to describe the things they want to do with me?? I was reading about someone asking recently if the Lilith is what a man embodies and I disagree for this very reason. A woman's lilith is embodied by her. A man's is what he wants in his woman. So as a woman, you're embodying venus, moon and lilith. The men are chasing that. I understand this is controversial. Take it with a pinch of salt.

🫩 Saturn in the 7th House people 🤝 never feeling like things will work out between you and your FS or just not being able to tell if they are the one or a karmic lesson 😭

💢 Everyone adores moon-venus in synastry but as someone who has experienced the negative side of it, it can translate to the moon person rationalising the venus person's bad behaviour towards them as well. It means as the moon person you'll have a soft spot towards them and the venus person can use this to exploit moon. (Especially worse if the moon person is the woman because venus will try to breach her physical boundaries). Can happen with moon-IC synastry too.

❤️‍🔥 The sexual tension of mars opposite Venus is something else in synastry. If it's a double whammy where both people's mars-venus are in opposition, you'll "know" when they want you. If it's in a masculine sign, they won't even hide it. It's absolutely insane how bold mars can get when it thinks it's gotten a pass with venus.

🗽 Speaking from experience, the most intense synastry aspects that I've experienced is Lilith synastry and Eros-Psyche synastry. Being a part of this synastry is like partaking in a cat-mouse type of relationship and it's exhausting. One person is always the pursuer while the pursued one feels guilt and shame for the other person. Late night confessions, sneaking, concealing info, are all part of the package in this synastry. (My Leo Juno hates being someone's secret and these synastries just carry the energy)

💀 What is with Scorpio in the 12th house and obsessing over people they can't have?? They will literally fantasize about having emotionally unavailable people, people who are taken, people who they can't have because the connection is taboo somehow (age gaps, different cultures). They also seem to have this scary side to them where they will have the most animalistic desires or extreme desires but know it wont be accepted so they keep their mouth shut. You can sometimes peer into it (if they let you) and it can be scary because their public perception is very clean (Virgo or Libra midheaven) and you can never guess. They also tend to have loads of people they secretly obsess over and never tell a soul or won't be seen with them in public.

🌡️ If someone's Mars falls into your 6th House, you can be in danger because of them. I don't know what is it with this synastry but even in harmonious relationships, Mars seems to harm the house person. This is especially true for me as I have a moon there. So I "pick up" things emotionally too. It is not all harmful but I can see why it's a potential red flag. On a lighter note, I picked up a cold from a friend whose mars fell into my 6th house. Lol. On a darker note, another guy who decided to play mind games with me also had his mars in my 6th house so you pick your poison, I guess.

🍹 If you're a Neptune 1st house, please be careful with the people you decide to get drunk/high/intoxicated around. The people around can protect you or harm you based on how they feel about you when you're high or drunk. This is especially true for a Neptune 1st house because they seem or are viewed as extra vulnerable or out of control. It has to do with Neptune being the literal planet of poison/drugs and it being present in your 1st house shifts your public perception when you're on drugs/alcohol. This can attract a lot of creeps who would want to take advantage of you because your gaurd seems down.

[fancyperfectionsweets]

🪾 Astrology Observations 6

🦂 People who have scorpio (Pisces rising) or Chiron in the 9th house have a difficult time with education. They usually encounter problems not made by them in the area and thus, are forced to earn earlier than their peers. (Problems could be things like parents refusing/unable to pay for their higher education, disabilities popping up that hamper them)

🌚 I have noticed that weirdly gemini moons also start working earlier than their peers but that is usually not because of limitations or financial problems but ambitions. They want stimulation and experience. Jobs help them stay calm. (If they are not pursuing their personal endeavours)

🕷️ I have a theory of the 6th house being a malefic. In ancient astrology, "jobs" were looked down upon. This was because being an agricultural civilization, vedic/ancient astrologers used to think jobs=labour=exploitation. While not a lot has changed in modern day (lol) but we still have better living conditions as compared to toiling in the fields and doing minimum wage jobs. Since the 6th house is considered the house of jobs, having planets here means that you'd be more likely to work a job. This is why planets in the 6th house were considered to be bad. This, and the fact that it's also the house of enemies.

However, when it comes to modern day, my personal observation is that people who have malefics in this house Mars, Pluto, Saturn, constantly struggle with jobs and end up working in places that have a toxic work environment. Martian influence especially is common among people who are fired out of nowhere. The flip side is also true. If you have benefics such as venus or Jupiter, it's actually not a bad placement for your work life. You'd be able to gain recognition more easily and your work will be rewarded.

🎠 ketu + Saturn in the first house feels like a cursed placement throughout life. These people have to learn to escape their fundamental self to achieve what they want. It's one of those placements where you need to let the universe take the reins after working hard. If you ignore that and give into your desires, it'll fail you. A very painful transformative placement that feels like a life long lesson.

👹 let's talk about the guru chandal yog. One of the most hated placements. If jupiter sits with Rahu (North Node), it'll create this yog. This is a "blessing stopper" placement. You can be an expert in an area and this yoga can make you lose horribly in that field. It can take away opportunities in hand. If Jupiter is in a rahuvian nakshatra, this yog can be seen forming. This can only be countered if Jupiter sits in the 4th house or is exalted. Double whammy if the moon is well placed.

🌟 jupiter in the 1st house is THE optimist placement. You tend to ovestimate yourself and while a lot of times god himself saves your ass, you'd benefit from being a realist than an optimist. And check your zodiac for this?? I've always overestimated how much school work I can do. I have my jupiter in Capricorn. Lol. I met someone with a jupiter in cancer and she's an absolute optimist when it comes to her being a "caring person". Like she'll commit to everyone: she'll commit to hang out with you while simultaneously promising to do your homework and also cook for you and then everything falls apart because how are you going to do all of this together, girl. 😭

🫀 this is not my observation but someone else's but it kinda fit true in my case so I'm just checking if y'all see this happened with any of y'all. You tend to meet your spouse early in life if you have a jupiter + venus conjunction (especially in the 3rd, 5th, 9th or 11th house), your 7th lord or darkaraka planet in 3rd, 5th, 9th or 11th house. You may also meet your spouse as kids and then get together with them later in life.

🌙 where your moon is, you'd look for validation there. It's in the 11th house, you'd want to have validating friendships, 2nd house? Yep. You value yourself in your ability to make money, have savings. Moon nakshatra's can also have an effect here.

🌌 Mercury in Scorpio here. I'm not trying to hurt y'all with my words. I'm just blunt 😭

If I do want to hurt with words though, you'll know. We don't hold back and we make it obvious.

🕸️ I think people don't understand why astrologers love exalted planets so let me put in a thought as to why exaltation is awesome. Let's say your sun is exalted (in Aries) but Saturn sits there too (Saturn debilitates in Aries). But, Saturn won't be able to give bad effects because the Sun will "handle" it. If you have an exalted planet and another planet who is weak or debilitated is sitting with it, it'll not create a problem. I can also see this in parivartan yog. Although I feel the effects somewhat are different? Like exalted planets are self assured and confident by themselves but let's say, you have a parivartan yog with Sun-Saturn. So, if you're not feeling confident, some planet that is strong in your chart will come out and help you up. How do I know? Personal experience. My Saturn and Mercury are in parivartan yog. With Mercury, sits my sun. I also have a parivartan yog between Jupiter and Saturn. So yeah, I had stage fright (weakened Sun characteristic), wasn't sure of my public speaking skills. Guess who always encouraged me? My uncle (mercury), grandma (Saturn) and then I finally met a teacher who pushed me to face those fears and actually get rid of my public speaking and stage fright (Jupiter). Isn't that interesting?

💱 Taurus moons and their motivation for money need to be respected. They are so focused and strict when it comes to money. Love it!

❤️‍🔥 Everytime I see the 7th house lord in 8th, I just know this person is going to make huge sacrifices for their relationship/marriage to work. This is because 7th house lord, indicator of marital life, comes into the house of transformation: 8th house. I've seen people move places, quit their jobs, sacrifice their careers for love if they have this placement.

📛 Funnily enough, after my "mars darkaraka men are toxic" observation, I met some women whose darkarakas were mars and one of them straight up admitted she likes "the bad boys" 😭 😭 and is very aware so she started dating a guy that she'd not label as a bad boy and it's her happiest relationship ever

💘 This may or may not be true but people with strong darkarakas (Moon, Venus, Saturn, Jupiter darkaraka, exalted darkaraka, darkara sitting with exalted planets) tend to meet their partners later in life. I think this happens because the darkaraka being the special someone, wants to make you worthy of your partner. You need to learn your lessons before you meet them so it works.

🐈‍⬛ Weirdly, strong mercurial energy in the 6th house (House zodiac is virgo or gemini), Rahuvian or ketuvian influence and especially, Jupiter influence makes the native a pet lover. All the people who love to keep pets in their house and even take care of strays like their own have such strong mercury/Jupiter energy or have their 6th house lord make connection with their chart mercury/, Jupiter. Also, I know someone who has Jupiter there and she'll just randomly adopt any pet she can. 😭 😙❤️ She's the type you see on tiktok making reels like "I brought this dog/cat randomly without telling my spouse" I love y'all sm. Another fun thing I've seen is that mercury and jupiter influence makes you ohk with any animal as a pet (especially if you have Uranus there) but rahuvian influence makes a lot of people to have cats and ketu's influence tells me you're very likely to have a dog as a pet. (I kinda googled this after writing it and came to know vedic astrology says that ketu=dogs and rahu=cat. Makes sense. Lol.)

[shymagnolia]

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

[shymagnolia]

okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now i’m thinking….maybe this is the good luck post

[flagellant]

…..not even six hours later i got an offer of a well paying full time long-term job with free room and board in queens in nyc, allowing me independence and a way to escape an abusive situation and an unhealthy environment

likes charge reblogs cast, folks, this is the good luck post

[coffee-or-hot-cocoa]

i need all the help i can get for finals

[finnglas]

Hey so

the last time I reblogged this post right before I got a great job, in a permanent work-from-home position, with benefits, retirement, and a salary literally 3x what I was making before, doing something I really like. 

So you know. 

This might be the real one, y’all.

[azaraspirit]

what the hell? i could use some luck *hits reblog*

[i-love-you-beautiful]

You know what I could use some luck

[eveningstar333]

I got my internship wth!!!

[honey-bitch-deactivated20250509]

Girls don't want boys they want Misa Amane's wardrobe

[fancyperfectionsweets]

One of my biggest flexes in life is putting together a misa amane cosplay almost down to the finer details in 3 hours because I already had most of the pieces in my wardrobe ❤️

Those were my regular clothes, haha.

[fancyperfectionsweets]

☄️Astrology Observations 5🍂

🕸️ Neptune in 7th house has victim complex. More often than not, they think that they are too giving, too loyal and everyone takes and takes from them when that is sometimes not even true.

🕸️ Moon + Rahu combination can make another person super empathetic to the point that they cannot detach and work normally if something is bothering them. This is even worse if the moon is in a planet that affects personal houses like the 6th house of routines or 2nd house of money. Be careful with this combo.

🕸️ Rahu in the 7th house is clingy af and can do drastic things to keep a relationship. They have the tendency to use relationships as a self-validation tool. This intensifies if moon is not in a healthy position. They are the kind to kill themselves or harm themselves over a relationship. They need a good circle of friends to ground them.

🕸️ Jupiter in 4th houses often come from huge families that are ready to help them. Even if the person is harsh or strict, they won't be able to do that with a jupiter in 4th house kid. It's just something so "childlike" about their vibe to their family.

🕸️ ohk. It's either because my Sun is darkaraka or it's just true but people with Sun in the first house or exalted suns (aries Sun) just have my respect. They are so naturally inclined to leadership. I wish to learn from them.

🕸️ I read somewhere that while venus is the planet of love and beauty, they are very exclusionary. This is because venus is the IT girl that says "not everyone deserves me. 💅". She's luxury. Thus, venus dominant people like Osho have very mysterious auras and have "cult" like followings that have bizzare rules. I know someone who is a venus dominant nakshatra and he's very "I don't show even an ounce of what I'm" kinda person. It's honestly very fascinating. These people will only show you the real face when they feel like you "deserve" to be in their inner world.

🕸️ However, speaking of Venus. The above does not mean she cannot be obsessive and conniving. Bharani nakshatra men, especially, I've noticed are very meticulous and have an attention to detail. This nakshatra comes up again and again in men who stalk women and basically become obsessed quickly. They are not even apologetic about it. They feel they are sort of way entitled to "their chosen women" and it's ohk to tresspass boundaries.

🕸️ venus + mars is a super comfortable placement for relationships in my opinion. Venus is the vibe you exude. Mars is your passion so this is what you chase. Thus, you like people back who like you and vice versa. You know the people who always pulled the people they wanted? Yeah. Probably mars + venus. However, it can be a painful placement because love burns deep for this person and if it fails, it can affect their self esteem.

🕸️ 6th house stelliums have this natural tendency to be pessimistic.

🕸️ Jupiter in the first house is usually never seen as "too much" but for some reason, an exalted Jupiter in 4th house/cancer is. A jupiter 4th house is full of optimism and it can piss off people. Y'all slay though. ❤️

🕸️ I've never met an Aries 4th house (Cap rising) or a Scorpio 4th house (Leo rising) have amazing relationships with their families. If your moon and Sun are strong, your parents may be supportive but your extended family will definitely be then out there to get you.

🕸️ watched nosferatu and it reminded me of Lilith synastry 😭. I bet nosferatu's lilith conjunct lilly rose-depp's character's first house/venus/moon/sun because he was so obsessed with her. I'm also thinking 12th house synastry because he kept manifesting in her dreams and she kept him hidden from her husband. Also, she's definitely jupiter ruled and nosferatu represents ketu because he just took and took from her till she fucking died. In that way, she fulfilled Jupiter's theme of sacrifice. Sacrifice is associated with Neptune in western astrology. But, it rules over Pisces whose traditional ruler is Jupiter. So I think this kinda goes.

Fin❤️

[fancyperfectionsweets]

🫀Astrology Observations 4 🫀

🍂 if more planets are in your 3rd, 2nd, 1st, 12th and 11th house, you'd more probably work in the public eye. Conversely, if they are in 4th, 10th, 5th, 9th, 6th, 8th or 7th house, you're more likely to work at spaces where you're "hidden".

🍂 I know it is said that sun opposite sun in synastry can bring sexual tension and "opposites attract" energy to a relationship but every Libra Sun I know hates Aries Sun and vice versa. This is especially more pronounced if they have mercuries opposing each other too (since mercury is almost always in the same house as the sun). Their feelings become exposed to each other and it shows up in the communication. Of what I've understood, libras feel that aries suns are always trying to assert dominance, be too straightforward and talk over them. Aries Suns feel like Libras are too passive and hate how they try to be diplomatic. To an Aries, it is hypocrisy/manipulation and not diplomacy.

🍂 Sadly, having malefics in the 5th house is my number 1 indicator of someone who has been cheated on before. I've noticed that even one malefic (like Rahu, Sun etc.) with a benefic (moon, venus) here can still indicate failed relationships.

🍂 6th house synastry is literally "you're coming along with me" and a as a 6th house moon, I cannot stand people I don't have this dynamic with.

🍂 I absolutely understand why 12th house synastry is hated so much as it does add an element of "hidden" to it. I have a 12th house venus and I've always had to "hide" my relationship from socials because I cannot risk people finding out. That's because I come from a conservative country where dating is still supposed to be not talked about until and unless you're getting married. So context matters. However, when I do get a double whammy at times, I had to be extra careful and hide the relationship from even friends, it was usually always a karmic planet making contact with my 12th house Venus (ketu, Saturn). So I understand the hate for it in western countries. Lol.

🍂 Let me tell you about another auspicious yoga in the natal chart: Gajkeshari yoga. Gajkesari Yoga is formed when Jupiter and the Moon are in the same house or when Jupiter is in the 1st, 4th, 7th, or 10th house from the Moon. It is supposed to bestow one with knowledge, be victorious over their enemies and be a good communicator.

🍂 Synastry aspect that I really like: when a partner's moon falls into your 5th house, the house of romance. I especially love this because my 5th house is empty and the moon person understands my language of romance with so much empathy. I love this one.

🍂 virgo-scorpio conjunctions in any way makes for one stubborn mf. I have two friends with a virgo stellium in the 8th house (scorpio's house) and a scorpio stellium in the 6th house (Virgo's house) and they can be super headstrong in relationships as both of their stelliums houses have venus. I watch both of them being super stubborn in love. Different angles though. While the 8th house stellium friend is super adamnt on her beliefs of love, the 6th house one is super nitpickey of her partner's actions. The 8th house stellium is nit picky about herself and how she conducts herself and then the 6th house stellium person is super stubborn of her personality.

🍂 capricorn risings, leo risings and venus 10th housers are often viewed as trophy wives/husbands.

🍂 Wherever neptune is, or whichever planets neptune touches, you tend to lie in those aspects. If it touches benefic planets, it makes you good at lying and getting away with it. Eg. I knew someone who had a Venus-neptune conjunction and he constantly lied to his partners to keep them around, I have mine in the 1st house and for the longest time, felt that I needed to improve my appearance = lie (surgery, make-up) about it to be perceived better.

🍂 Another liar placement I've realised is rahu (north node) in the 8th house. Why? I still haven't figured it out.

🍂 ohk. I may be wrong but the reason why Saturn is a "malefic" is because it can literally bring out the karma in the themes of your houses in the most vicious way. If it's not conjuncted by benefics, a strong saturn can be also an indicator of death of significance related to the house's theme. Let me give you an example, I have a Saturn in the third house which is also my lagnesh, since third house is the house of siblings, I'm a single child. My mom had a miscarriage when I was a kid. Similarly, my mother has saturn and ketu conjunction in the 4th house (childhood home, mother's home) and she lost her father at a young age, pushing my grandmother to be the protector and provider of her household. Absolutely heartbreaking. Another example I saw was this girl's saturn in the third and she lost her baby brother at the age of 26. 💔

I don't mean to scare you but I think you should definitely see if your saturn is conjuncted by a benefic or if the zodiac it's in is exalted or a benefic because that would reduce the harshness of Saturn. 🥲

🍂 I'm jealous of 2003 born babies tbh. That was the year a lot of people's chart have exalted planets. Someone I found had 8 exalted planets (especially Jupiter and Saturn) like damn! Y'all must really be happy because the rest of us mortals are struggling out here. 🫠

An extra cute cat gf for that scary introduction 🤭