Yes, masturbation is sex..
But there’s more to that statement.
Masturbation is hot sex with yourself. At least, it can be, and a whole lot more.
I’ve been in a partnership for a year now. And that has offered its own beautiful moments. But I’ve found that it hasn’t all diminished my bate life. In some ways, it’s even increased it.
I’ve seen many posts from bators here on Tumblr or on other forums that I’m not alone in feeling like this.
Masturbation is way for me to give pleasure to myself in the deepest and most physical way possible.
If partnered sex is like a fusion of two forces, masturbation—or solosex—is like an internal implosion, an internal play of energies.
Sometimes, after seeing the man I love, I still have a deep craving to pleasure myself, to be with myself, naked and erect. It’s like a meditation upon my sexual being, an exploration and celebration of myself.
Solosex, as I delve more into it, has a broad range of expression and energies, much like partnered varieties.
Sometimes, it’s really mellow. (I think of a female sexologist spoke of a “Sleeping Beauty” style of masturbating.) Other times, I’m worship my male icons in still and video form, with my hard cock dripping for hours. On other occasions, I turn into myself, facing a mirror or even with my eyes closed. IN those moments, it turns into deep expressions of self-love and acceptance. Interestingly, when my eyes have shut while I delve into pleasure, my mind can take off into all kinds of realms, hovering between visualizations and dreams.
Bate brothers, I encourage you to take time to explore solosex and ride the dragon of pleasure wherever it wants to take you. Try something new in your next session, even if it is small and see what happens.
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