About me
Something about me to know is that I'm always running a background diagnostic to decide whether I should say a thing based on whether it falls into one of four categories.
Horrific things most people have no experience with (try very hard to avoid this)
Weird but harmless things most people don't have experience with (occasionally say this to let people get to know me)
Weird but harmless things this specific group of people probably has experience with (do try to say this to encourage connections)
Commonly relatable things most people have experience with (safe topics to navigate within)
The other thing you should know about me is that I, at times, misjudge what category things belong in due to it's frequency in my life/history. Someone who kindly lets me know I've put something in the wrong category is so appreciated because it is not my intention, much of the time, to cause discomfort.
That is not to say my behavior/miscalculation is the responsibility of others. I am responsible for me. Just that I usually appreciate kind intervention when I start sticking my foot in my mouth.















