If for some reason unknowable to me or the gods, you are going to cold DM people like this, atleast do yourself the decency of reading their bio first, that way you can atleast try to find out that they are
#1 Actually comfortable with your DMs (even then opening with you're cute and a "WYD" is a shit way to get anyone comfortable in the first place)
#2 Actually what you're looking for, as in my case, you could have easily found out I was a man in the first 3 letters of my bio, but you didn't, and now you've made an ass out of yourself.
moral of the story? if you want to be kinky horny online, fine. but you aren't going to get shit if you just half-ass it like this. not only will you waste your time, you will make everyone think less of you, and you will drive away the people you're trying to interact with away, ruining the experience for EVERYBODY!! see how nobody benefits from this?!? exactly, so don't do it, don't be this guy, you have literally no reason to.



















