God I really wish carrying stuffed animals around with you was socially acceptable
I donât mean to take over a post, but I actually did a project on this for my sociology of deviance class in college!
I carried a large stuffed rabbit whenever I went in public for about a week to observe the reaction of others. The point of the project was to do something harmless yet unusual to see if the action would be considered deviant, in which case someone had to try to correct or shame the behavior.
Long story short, nobody tried to correct my behavior. I was asked about it casually, had a few lingering stares thrown my way and when I was with my boyfriend, shop employees would direct questions to him instead of me. However, nobody refused to assist me when I was alone in a store, nobody said anything about the rabbit besides âoh, thats a cute bunny!â and I attended college classes without even a teacher questioning it.
In conclusion, it is socially acceptable to carry a stuffed animal, its just not a societal norm. ^^
#for followers with a big anxiety or self hate problem #bring a friend with you (via @kingdom-for-muses)
DOING IT
My friend gave me a stuffed monkey plushy when I was struggling with uni, and I took him everywhere for like four years, usually velcrod to my backpack. No one said a damn thing, except my renaissance professor who saw it one day in the hallway and cracked the fuck up because I had a literal monkey on my back and he just looked at me like, âoh god, me tooâ. I used to leave him on desks during classes and exams (the monkey, not my prof). It was my reminder that someone cared if I was coping. But more than that it was soothing to have something to fidget with that wasnât a pen. I used to ping those fucking things across the room I was so agitated. Harder to hurt people with a projectile stuffed monkey.
I got what I thought was a normal screen cleaning kit for my computer while I was in college. Much to my delight, instead of a little washcloth or whatever, the kit came with a tiny stuffed pig.Â
So I carried this pig in my backpack all through college, periodically taking it out, spraying my screen, and using the pig to wipe it off.Â
Now, I kept the pig in the side pocket of my bag where he was completely visible.
Then one day in screenwriting class I pulled him out to wipe my screen.Â
One of the guys sitting next to me looked appalled. âYouâre wiping it off with your little stuffed animal??âÂ
I explained what the pig was.Â
Turns out, the guy had noticed it and just thought it was adorable I carried a stuffed animal with me every day. Heâd never mentioned it before.Â
Honestly, people do not care, and will not say anything. No matter the reason for your little stuffed animal friend.Â
And if youâre still really nervous about it keep a stuffed animal keychain on your bag. I have a cute little frog that stays on my backpack so when work gets stressful I can squeeze it.
For my anxious followers.
Confirmed. I take my Venom tsum tsum to uni when I need a little mental boost. The little goo always brings me good luck and overall makes my day just a tiny bit better. I havenât received a single comment about them so far.
Bring your stuffed buddies to class/work/whatever, guys. People donât care.
I have a couple of Ikea sharks* and have had cause to periodically carry them around in public - one of which I bought with the last $15 I had at the time, after making a series of big life changes. âThis is frivolous and I donât have to care about that because Iâm getting paid shortlyâIâm going to do it!â
The reactions I get range from amusement through delight and âWHERE DID YOU GET THATâ but so far, never disapproval.
The moral of the story is Carry Your Emotional Support Plushie With Pride, You Deserve It.
*pictured: not my shark
true story: I once had an appallingly awful day at the hell job and it coincided with my giant squishy Baymax being delivered from China, and no lie I hugged on that Baymax to keep from crying until it was time to leave
I travel with DC (âDonât Careâ) the Emotional Support Honey Badger. I go through TSA with him attached to my backpack, I hug him when I sleep in transit, I prop him next to me in cafes in cities, towns, and rural areas. The only time anyoneâs ever so much as raised an eyebrow at me was the TSA agent who recognized what he was, and asked it he could get his picture taken with him.
People donât judge. Kids think youâre awesome. You get a companion who never judges you. Itâs all win.
I know probably everyone has seen this post already, but its too good not to reblog.
Donât be afraid to carry your comfort items around with you! :D I take some of my stuffed friends to work sometimes, and no one ever bats an eye at them!
*looks at my pink teddy bear I named Ruby* youâre coming to college with me and thatâs not a choice
This post made me cry bcuz sometimes i feel bad for having stuffed animals/plushies
i needed this a lot























