HI I'M JACKSON. OR JAY. OR JAX. NEVER JACK THOUGH.
1997
HE/HIM
GAY TRANS MAN
^My fursona. Lykoi cat. Hi.
I'M NOT FUCKING AMERICAN. I DON'T COME FROM THIS -> 🦅.
Your local lanky, faggy vampire who was grown in a pod in a lab and goes nowhere, does nothing, knows even less. HOMESCHOOLED, UNEMPLOYABLE, BUSTED ARM, CHRONIC PAIN, TRANS AND GAY. WILL NEVER PICK A STRUGGLE, WORLDS BEST STRUGGLE JUGGLER AND LOOKING GORGEOUS WHILE DOING IT.
Enjoyer of theme parks, horror movies, gore and guts and spooky creepies, drag and performance and costumery, playing with gender like legos and dressing up like a giant cartoon animal in packed overheated convention centers. Personal accomplishments include: Working on The Hotel podcast, creating and selling fursuits and art for a decade (before being forced to retire oops), and getting carpal tunnel from jacking off way too much. Also i have a two foot long, twenty year old lizard who is my daughter, my room-mate, my most beloved and the thing that goes bump in the night all in one.
Fuck bigots, fuck radfems, i'm the big scary TRA (or TMRA if thats what the wannabe fash are calling it now) every loser poster is afraid of.
TAG LIST:
#my art
#jay talkin (my text posts, mute if you need, they can be vents. But sometimes i'm FUNNY!)
#flesh and bone (my character's story, posts that remind me of it or posts about it)
Also follow my husband. -> @subsequentibis
OTHER BLOGS:
Trans-masculine focused positivity and discussion blog: @positively-manly
Trans-masculine focused NSFW blog (forcemasc but other stuff too): @cannibaleather
The pervert lesbian is wearing a floral print bikini and has managed to awkwardly insert the saying "stop and smell the flowers" into your conversation 6 times in an hour
“For New York City Pride in 1994 (Stonewall 25), Baker created a mile-long rainbow flag that was carried down First Avenue in Manhattan. During the parade, Baker used scissors to cut segments from the flag to be rushed to Fifth Avenue for an impromptu protest march in front of St. Patrick’s Cathedral, the headquarters of New York City’s anti-gay Catholic archdiocese.
^“At the bottom of the image is the segment of the flag cut for the St. Patrick’s Cathedral protest. Photograph by Mick Hicks”
“Gilbert Baker wearing a white sequined dress (right) and other protestors triumphantly march the cut pieces of the mile-long flag past St. Patrick’s Cathedral. Photograph by Charles Beal”
I bet if i ended up with any sort of notoriety or was like gay famous i could have the power and money to finally get this fuckass town a pride parade/event, but as it is i have two bob to my name and i can't even command authority over myself so 😑
ii used to love being super specific and telling people i'm 5ft 9 and 3/4 tall, because i am, but over time i went off that specific number. For reasons. So fuck it i'm 5 10 now idc. I could lie higher ig but it'd require me to commit to lifts that make it harder to use my cane so. 5 10 it is.
immediately after an interaction: i have GOT to get more normal oh god i need to get more normal immediately i have to get more normal or they're going to hunt me down they're going to hunt me down and flay me for sport
during an interaction: and why not put a little spin on it? why not add some conversational zest?
Love trying to research sleep aids because half of them are like ummmmm 😄 this might not work 😁 and it will ruin your stomach and give you headaches and nausea ☺️ have you tried just getting better at sleep instead? 😚
Transphobia is about to be signed into law in the UK. We can fight this.
I am begging the UK trans community and its allies to attend the Mass Lobby at Parliament on June 25th, 11am-4pm, organised by Trans Solidarity Alliance.
Last year we broke the record for an LGBT+ mass lobby of Parliament. Will you help us break it again? Join us on 25th June 2026 to demand be
The new EHRC Code of Practice pushes trans people out of toilets, hospital wards, and community spaces. It normalises gender policing based on appearance and stereotypes. It becomes statutory guidance in the UK by the end of June.
Trans people are now legally their assigned gender at birth and must join gendered spaces accordingly, but if they are perceived as their lived gender, they can also be ejected from those spaces. The guidance says: either break the law, or don’t pass too well.
A mass lobby is where you invite your MP to discuss your concerns with you in-person. Ask your MP to:
Demand full parliamentary scrutiny, debate, and use their free vote on the EHRC Code of Practice.
Support any motions rejecting the EHRC guidance. As of June 4th, Labour MP Nadia Whittome has submitted a prayer motion - Early Day Motion 240.
Write to Bridget Phillipson, the Minister for Women and Equalities about our concerns
Your MP does not have to be an ally, they do not have to respond to your email for you to show up and greencard them (details below the cut.) What matters is that as many people as possible show up.
I cannot stress this enough: Showing up in person matters. It is much more effective than petitions, emails, and letters.
It is a horrible, stressful time, and I am so sorry if you're trans and live in the UK. But I was at last year's mass lobby and the line for greencarding alone stretched around the back gates. It was a record breaking mass lobby and made us impossible to ignore. Let's do even better this time. Details under the cut:
Worried about what to say?
Bring your personal worries about transphobia being signed into law, and trans friends being excluded from public spaces. You are a living person who deserves dignity. Remind your MP of that. You will also get guidance and brochures from Trans Solidarity Alliance that outlines our demands. This is mine from last year.
Money issues?
Trans Solidarity Alliance provides a travel bursary that you can sign up for via the link.
Got a refusal or no response from your MP?
Come anyway! You can request a same-day appointment with your MP through a process called greencarding. They will come and see you if they’re already in Parliament. Even if they don’t, they’re made acutely aware of your cause because you showed up in person. This is my greencard from last year.
Here is the EHRC Code of Practice in full. It's a tough read, but some highlights are:
Organisations can’t provide trans-inclusive, single-sex services, or they risk being sued for discrimination.
e.g. domestic violence support for women including trans women, men’s rugby group including trans men (12.68).
Trans people will have nowhere safe to pee.
If you’re a trans man, businesses can't allow you to pee in the men's, and you can also be ejected from women’s bathrooms if you’re perceived as a man. Vice versa for trans women. EHRC suggests a ‘third space’ bathroom, which is discriminatory and unworkable for most businesses. (13.130-133)
Sports organisations must exclude trans people from single-sex competitions (13.73).
A women’s only sports competition must exclude trans women because of their biological advantage or face potential lawsuits (13.74), but a trans man who has undergone testosterone treatment can also be excluded based on fairness rules (13.81).
Trans women are stripped of the legal definition of ‘lesbian’, and therefore no longer have legal protections if they’re discriminated against on the basis of sexual orientation. (2.50, 2.92).
Here is the Good Law Project's better explanation of the EHRC Code.
I have also made a PDF printout of QR codes for the government petition, email your MP tool, and mass lobby link to pass around your communities. DM me and I'll send it to you.
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