🪽 CJ 🪽

22 💗 lesbian lover of butches, defender of women radlearning :) cryptos are safe here! don’t stalk my profile weirdo :3

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Pinned - about me!

I am CJ. I’ve vaguely been in radfeminist spaces since 2023, but I only started considering myself a learning radical feminist in october 2024. Again, I am still learning, so if you are here to get mad at me for not knowing everything, I am open to being taught things but I will block anyone for any reason, including if you’re an asshole 💞

I am 22, I don’t shave, and I am anti-religion + atheist.

I am a lesbian. I also have a small yuri manga collection :)

‘Terf’ implies that I exclude trans-identified females from my feminism; I don’t. I exclude males, including those who believe themselves to be women.

My asks are open! I also want to clarify that I struggle with wording. Be patient with me!

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i am logging out again mwah

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whats with the uptick in bisexual women suddenly thinking they’re lesbians? the cognitive dissonance to delude yourself into believing you’re a lesbian because of stereotypes and harmful ideas of what lesbianism is to the point that they almost forget that homosexuality is what makes you a lesbian, not your anger at men or your short haircut. Not your attraction to femininity’ in men. Not your exhaustion with dating men. Yes, many lesbians come out later in life but I think there’s a difference between a homosexual woman who has faced societal pressure to marry men and a bisexual woman who is sick of men despite holding attraction for men.

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my last part was lowkey worded weird and im wayy too tired to fix it but just know im not validating women who willingly date men and then get into a relationship w a woman and ‘realize’ they’re lesbians 😭 oops lol its not the focus of my post so idrc about fixing it and explaining because i think my explanation wouldn’t even properly convey my thoughts anyway

but yeah anyway i totally understand the nuances that can impact the way someone views their own sexuality and can make them doubt their attraction sometimes but i think theres a difference between someone questioning who they are and engaging in thoughtful self-evaluation and all that and someone who views sexuality labels as similar to aesthetic descriptors and switches from identifying as bisexual to lesbian in a similar manner they’d switch from labeling themselves metal to goth lol. its not wrong to question yourself. it is wrong to ignore that lesbian means something (homosexual female) and instead attributing ‘lesbian’ to a set of stereotypes and an aesthetic to identify into. :3

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do yall think more young women are opening their eyes about female liberation or is my algorithm just that good

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whats with the uptick in bisexual women suddenly thinking they’re lesbians? the cognitive dissonance to delude yourself into believing you’re a lesbian because of stereotypes and harmful ideas of what lesbianism is to the point that they almost forget that homosexuality is what makes you a lesbian, not your anger at men or your short haircut. Not your attraction to femininity’ in men. Not your exhaustion with dating men. Yes, many lesbians come out later in life but I think there’s a difference between a homosexual woman who has faced societal pressure to marry men and a bisexual woman who is sick of men despite holding attraction for men.

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im inactive and everything but my brother in law just announced he’s transitioning to a woman to me and then jokingly called me a dyke

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The internet has decided it's time to turn on Hasan Piker. Is it because of all the misogynist things he said about Kamala Harris? Because he's a silver-spooned, champagne-drinking frat guy who lives in a mansion while preaching about communism? Because he admitted to flying to another country with the purpose of raping women?

No! It's because he might have used a shock collar against his dog! Raping women and joking about it is a-okay, but Lord forbid a dog might get hurt.

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17 year old coworker is breaking up w her cheater bf and has been arguing w him for like 3 days and she’s updating us on it and he sent her a video of him and his friend w guns. what the fuck is wrong with men

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i just got physically sick looking at my misogynistic vents from 2019 i wish i didnt exist i hate who i used to be but i hate who i am now

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sorry i might genuinely deactivate or smth but the only reason i dont is bc i enjoy some of my mutuals 😞

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i just got physically sick looking at my misogynistic vents from 2019 i wish i didnt exist i hate who i used to be but i hate who i am now

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watching step brothers and thinking about how it was meant to be funny and exaggerated but theres actually, like, men out there like this.

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"Investigating the sex lives of vulnerable women and broadcasting these sex lives to their audience" YOU ARE BROADCASTING YOUR KINKS AND FETISHES. YOU ARE DOING THAT.

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‘incredibly popular fetishes’ meaning their little sister rape fetishes by the way

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leg day is evil so i did an hour and a half of cardio instead. why is my gym’s leg press hard to use like its my favorite machine and my old gym had a nicer machine but now i gotta spend time positioning myself on it bc of how weird it is

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wondering what the radfem take on this is

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genuinely whats the correlation

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Female celebrity controversy : she said a slur when she was 14

Male celebrity controversy : raping and killing a child

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so much of being a lesbian right now is covertly apologizing for being a lesbian. sorry i don't like men; here's a funny presentation about "men who are for the lesbians" to reassure you that i still care about men's feelings and will center them in my life. sorry i like women; here's a funny joke about me being no better than a man to reassure you that i still uphold gender norms and will dutifully assume the role of the man in my manless relationship. sorry my sexual orientation isn't a choice; i promise that i will try to unlearn my "genital preferences" and will apologize again and again for my inherent bias against maleness. sorry sorry sorry.