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Okay so what if didn’t

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I am in full agreement with this statement

I need to vent so bad. I think I’m just gonna go to sleep instead

Sharp stabbing pain in my chest is it lung cancer finally coming to get me or is it just my body crashing in on itself because I drank too much caffeine today?

Vodka + multivitamin juice

Just saying...

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Hello beet *reverts into baby food*

This is the best photo of me ever

I don’t think I’m ever gonna be able to quit smoking :/

Don’t mind me. Just. Pining for a 2d man

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I saw a review for Doukyuusei that said it was “like all the other stereotypical yaoi anime that promote rape culture” and the characters “don’t know that no means no” and I really don’t think they watched the whole movie. Kusakabe kisses Sajou once that Sajou verbally tells him not to. And immediately afterwards, he’s punished for his actions. Sajou says they aren’t dating and that he won’t kiss him anymore.

The other times we see them kiss, Kusakabe either asks permission or kisses him in a really inconspicuous area where no one will see him, because that’s what Sajou disliked about the kisses. Sajou didn’t like being kissed right by his cram school because there were people that could’ve been around. This is a major part of his character.

The scene where Kusakabe asks to kiss Sajou, Sajou says no, and Kusakabe kisses him anyway while they’re in a rainy alleyway with no people around directly mirrors the scene in the end where Kusakabe asks to kiss Sajou, Sajou says no because there’s too many people, Kusakabe doesn’t kiss him, and Sajou kisses Kusakabe in a bright sunny area with people around. It’s supposed to show the characters’ growth and how they respect and love each other. They’ve learned to know each other better, a concern that they both bring up, which is shown by Kusakabe replying to Sajou saying there are too many people with “I thought you’d say that.” Just like how Sajou kissing Kusakabe in public shows that Sajou knows Kusakabe better, because he knows that would make him happy.

It doesn’t promote rape culture. Partially because neither of the characters have sex. Kusakabe doesn’t even talk about sex to Sajou, and he only thinks about sex in the first place because he feels like Sajou isn’t as passionate about their relationship as he is. But, it is definitely not about lacking consent either because, as I said, Kusakabe gets punished. Also, they are two teenaged boys. Which doesn’t mean they don’t understand consent, but Kusakabe’s character is very much lax towards it in the beginning, he develops as a character. He starts as a teenage boy being in his very first relationship with someone he actually cares about and grows into an adult.

Teenage relationships sometimes have uncomfortable moments where you misread your partner. That’s why communication and making sure you’re both on the same page is important. Doukyuusei is a film that promotes healthy communication, taking time apart if you need to, and making each other happy.

Drunk on a Tuesday evening and eating a full plate of cherry jello... this is life

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My Chemical Romance, Three Cheers For Sweet Revenge (2004), Reprise Records, 2016 reissue, white cassette tape

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Got my official HPD diagnosis last week. Adding it to my collection of various personality disorders and mental illnesses. I always kinda knew I had it but having it written on paper is kinda overwhelming. It never really ends, they keep adding up and I can’t help but ask myself when I’m gonna get my final diagnosis. Maybe this was the last ?

Just realized most of my tumblr friends don’t know what I look like hehe

Happy birthday to my favorite album ever <333

Hey let’s all do the make out with me challenge

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