Fatspiration.

21, Singapore

[proud2bmeus]

Your relationship with your body is just as complex as your relationship with a friend. It takes time, effort and self-awareness to keep it within a healthy medium.

Dana Land, Is Body Love Just Another Form of Body Obsession? (via proud2bmeus)

[dearbody]

15 Awards Everyone Who Struggles With Body Image Deserves

Relationship status with your body: It's complicated.

Yaaaas Buzzfeed. Yaaas.

[theloveyourselfchallenge]

[wordsnquotes]

I think I could have loved you better than anyone, and I can’t stop making lists of all the times I almost told you that.

Caitlyn Siehl (via wordsnquotes)

[caitcorrain]

This is the same man.

[jadelyn]

This works quite nicely at debunking the “beefcake guys in comics are objectified for women just like women in comics are for men!” imo.  On the left: a magazine tailored for a male audience, showing him in full beefcake-type mode with headlines about how you, too, can look like this.  On the right: a magazine tailored for a female audience, which has a headline about romance and shows him looking more or less like a normal dude.

Tell me again how comic book guys are designed for female sexual enjoyment, completely equivalent to anatomically-improbable spines and giant tits with their own individual centers of gravity, and totes aren’t just male power fantasies.

[lilacbreastedroller]

COMMENTARY

[deletingthisnow]

Women don’t treat men the way men treat women.

[its-me-bexy]

it’s also worth noting that despite all the geeks complaining about women’s impossible standards, the fantasy on the right sets a really really easy low bar to meet:

“cool clean friendly non-aggressive man who will cook a food for u”

yep what an unfair standard to be subjected to

[peonymoonflower]

that last comment was beautiful

[ficklefandoms]

Pretty sure I’ve RBd this before, but doing it again for the penultimate comment.

[nottheoneicheckatwork]

@fullten here’s that post you were talking about

[fullten-deactivated20240430]

Yes! This one 💖

[miss-maela]

Fun commentary!

[theslaybymic]

These feminist high schoolers are using ‘The Scarlet Letter’ to protest dress codes

Students at Charleston County School of the Arts in North Charleston, South Carolina, have had enough. Too many girls have been sent home because of a strict dress code policy that they claim targets girls unfairly. Now, they’re doing something about it. Not just to protest the dress code — but also how it’s being enforced.

Follow stylemic

[runwithskizzers]

So. Badass.

[vaveyard-deactivated20250708]

GET IT

[dogphishead]

All these post about teens stirring shit up, and demanding to be taken seriously really piss me off. For real tho.

Like, I’m fucking PISSED that I didn’t have the courage to stand up for myself and my peers like that when I was in high school.

I fucking adore this generation.

[heavytitty]

lets be real, finding social media gurus and celebrities that look like you is hard as a fat girl, even harder as a fat girl of color. so, im here to help out my fellow chubby bunnies w/ a list of my favorite plus size youtubers and bloggers! they cover everything from fashion, makeup, and hauls to romance, friendship, sex, advice, etc all from the perspective of fat girls! ive found these ladies to be very inspiring and helpful in the journey of self love. i hope its the same for you : )

sarah rae vargas

who? my personal favorite! she has such a laid back and warm vibe to her, you really feel like you’re a good friend while watching her videos. 

what? what i like i about sarah is that she isn’t chained to one ‘genre’ of youtube videos. there’s tons of hauls, makeup, and other fashion related things but my favorites series of hers are “lets talk about sex” (i learned to be so confident during sex because of this series), “ask sarah” a general faq and inquiry series, and her other chit chat videos

where? youtube - instagram - website - @ravingsbyrae 

chanel boateng

plus size fashion blogger, youtuber, and model. possibly one of the most adorable human beings in existence. she exudes confidence and unashamed self love!!

everything fashion, makeup, and !!! natural hair !!! for us black girls!! she has the occasional q/a, vlog, and random chit chat video. 

youtube - instagram - website

d0llfacevirgo

plus size fashion blogger, wig and weave reviewer, sweeter than pie, unique fashion sense, and absolutely gorgeous

she doesn’t upload very often, but where she does its definitely something youll want to watch!! most of her videos are about natural hair, wigs, affordable bundles, and plus size outfits of the day

youtube - no instagram or site

ivy dear

plus size blogger, hair stylist, ABSOLUTE QUEEN of sew-ins. im serious guys, she’ll slay herself and her clients to the point where you’ll question if its actually weave, even if u saw her installing it. she’s THAT good. im fairly certain she popularized the ‘flip over method’ in the youtube natural hair community, so thats pretty cool!

allll you need to know about natural hair, wigs, bundles, sew ins, and everything in-between. her videos are SO thurough and informative, i learned almost everything i know about sew ins from ivey!

youtube - instagram - bookings/hair appointments

vanessa manley

plus size vlogger, such a kind heart and soft voice, it makes her videos feel very relaxing and personal!!

her youtube is almost completely fashion hauls and lookbooks!! lazy day? concert? need bathing suit ideas? vanessa has you covered! her videos are so well thought out and creative!! she has the occasional chit chat and confidence chat as well 

youtube - instagram

[lucidnee]

I love ivy dear with all my heart

[igxbaddies]

[bouncy-babes]

[inkskinned]

Can I tell you a secret? You don’t have to be in a relationship.  I mean it. I know they force it down your throat until you choke on it. Girls aren’t pretty unless they’re wanted. Boys aren’t men unless they’re having sex with someone. People aren’t lovable until they’re dating someone.  But a relationship won’t always make you happy, and as wonderful as romance is, it isn’t the only love that exists. I have seen friendships that are deeper and more pure than couples who swear it’s forever - and yet the friendship is the one people ignore.  I have heard so often “nobody loves me” out of the mouths of people who are single. And it kills me because if you ask them: where are your parents, your teachers, your classmates, your pets - they say, yes, okay, but it doesn’t count. Of course it counts, love doesn’t diminish just because someone doesn’t want to have sex with you. In fact, doesn’t it sort of make that love more real that they want nothing - not even a date - out of you? It is pretty to be in love. It’s magical, I’m sure. But it’s also wonderful to stop for ice cream in your prom dress with six other girls. It’s also wonderful to go visit the world with nothing but a bunch of buddies who are really excited about learning.  The problem is: we’ve made everything about “the one”. But maybe “the one” is just you, loving yourself, having fun, and being happy. Maybe instead of looking for our other halves, we should be piecing ourselves together. Maybe I wasn’t born unfinished. Maybe I am the one who makes myself better.

Single serving size // r.i.d (via inkskinned)

[just-fashion-world]

Ashley Nell Tipton <3

[mollybrooks]

i liked beyoncé’s lemonade video a totally normal amount, and this was an excellent use of my time. 🍋🐝

[subliming]

[skellydun]

please be gentle with yourself. you’re trying. if it’s taking you longer than you thought to achieve something or get somewhere that’s okay. try not to compare yourself to others too much because not everyone gets to where they need to be right away. you’re alive that’s what matters. keep trying. you’ll get there.

[crianabristal]

[fffffxjjjjj]

The worlds calmest, most melodic crazy bitch anthem, of all time. 

[hoemami-deactivated20171229]

[thesadghostclub]

You’re important and your feelings are valid x

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