my name is andromeda. i use it/its and they/them pronouns. i am a dyke, but would rather not elaborate on what that means.
i’m part of a traumagenic plural system, and currently one of the primary fronters. while we are traumagenic, we don't have DID, so jot that down if that's going to be an issue.
bodily an adult in our late 20s, mentally i am permanently stuck in our teenaged years.
i like pastel goth, plants, succulents, halsey, early 2000s emo music, undertale, and a bunch of anime. this blog is mostly aesthetic, but there’ll be random fandom posts reblogged periodically, although i will try to tag my fandoms.
i might reblog CGL/ageplay and yandere aesthetics sometimes, sorry but that’s a non-negotiable part of following me.
while i will use the reply function now that i have my own main blog, i use reblogs as responses and i encourage you to as well when interacting with me. you can always reblog to respond to something i post. if i do not want something reblogged, i will turn reblogs off.
i try to tag everything, but let me know if you need something tagged!
ID tags:
#ID: harrowhark
#ID: doll
#ID: ruby
#ID: pearl
#ID: angel
#ID: alice
#ID: dragon
taglist:
#dramatics
personal text posts
#wishlist
items/clothing i wish i owned
#hoard
like #wishlist, but for items that are pointlessly beautiful, and that i want to hoard, dragonlike, in piles about my bedroom
#heads rolling for the one i adore
my yandere tag
#dizzy love turned a star lily pink
pink aesthetic
#your awful heart to song
music
#they will see us waving from such great heights
girlfriend tag
#i didn't mean to fall in love tonight
... boyfriend tag
#out there's a world that calls for me
things i want to do, places i want to go. a life i wish i had, outside of these walls.
#cut a six inch valley through the middle of my skull
erotics
#there is a roadway muddy and foxgloved
a difficult tag to describe--i shorten it to "fae aesthetic," but in truth, this is my tag for things that evoke the feeling i have had since my youth of being a changeling. a strange, alien creature, one that belongs in a fairy-world, a world of passions and sensations and the fever-dream state of nature, not in reality.
#i'll write my loneliness in poems
another difficult one to describe. a tag for academia, for writing, for coffee and books and tea, for quiet dusty attics and iron-framed windows, for the person who is so wrapped up in its own art, it cannot think of anything else, and it drifts through empty hallways as a lonely, self-obsessed savant.
#odyssey on odyssey and land over land
high fantasy, swords-and-sorcery, and the like
#she keeps me warm
wlw/sapphic/lesbian tag
#i'll be the grapes fermented bottled and served with the table set
maid tag
#i'm searching for something that i can't reach
2014-16 never ended. i can never leave. everyone else simply left me behind.
#what does a dragon want with a crepe pan?
dragons tag
#if aught but death part me and thee
griddlehark tag
#why am i so sure that i'd rather be this than everything i was supposed to be?
rupphire tag
#when you live for someone you're prepared to die
rosepearl tag
#as long as you remember her you are not alone
madohomu tag
#it's all for queue
queue tag
DNI:
personally, i do not see much utility in DNIs as a social phenomenon. however, i acknowledge that it is useful to indicate who i am totally unwilling to form friendships with, when such constraints are not obvious from what i post on my blog.
while i do not post about these things often, you will most likely dislike me or get blocked if you follow, if you fall into any of these categories:
radical feminists, including trans-inclusive radical feminists.
those who ID as “kink critical” even if they do not directly ID as radical feminists.
those who engage in "syscourse."
intersex exclusionists or otherwise individuals who are against the total abolition of the sex binary, for any reason (yes, including transgender individuals who want the sex binary to continue existing to validate their genders).
those who regularly engage in "callouts" or public gossip about other individuals online, even if i technically agree with the content of the callouts.
again, i do not wish to post "discourse" or engage in political arguments with strangers on the internet. however, these are topics which are quite relevant to my day-to-day life, and so even though i do not wish to discuss them with strangers, it must be noted that i simply cannot be friends with anyone who has these positions within these topics.
aquarium date? sorry, I mean museum date? sorry, I mean planetarium date? sorry, I mean botanical garden date? sorry, I mean grocery shopping together? sorry, I mean
Recently, I got to instruct captive on how to be a useful little sex toy and get me off with its fingers. My nails are too long right now, and my finger joints ache when get myself off so I much prefer to use my toy.
I showed it exactly where to apply pressure and didn’t let it uncurl its fingers even as it got tired. My hand on its wrist kept it in place as I got myself off. It would never dream of moving or letting its fingers relax before I’m done with it. It knows that its purpose is my pleasure. It knows it’s made to be my sex toy. It wasn’t allowed to get itself off after, either of the times I recently used it like this. Why would a sex toy get to orgasm? That’s for people.
