fleur void tea collective. tag: 🪻🌌🫖 sys account. pro endo. quoigenic. searching for community. not too open to syscourse but it will be a topic on this blog. bodily an adult
- fleur void tea collective. tag: 🪻🌌🫖. alters have their own emoji tags as well.
- quoigenic. we know we're traumagenic but there's a lot of nuance to other subsystems/median subsystems/hemisystems. we're not sure about anything and we're trying to figure it out. diagnosed system btw.
- they/them collectively. alters have their own pronouns + most of us love neopronouns.
- komo & aethervox have a sideblog for sfw furry art and to share their art journey. @komovoxfurart
- no collective orientation. alters have their own preferences.
- no nfsw permitted on this blog. we are syscource avoidant but it will be a topic here anyway. we were previously anti endo but now our stance is: we cant control other sys' systems. we cant say what they experience or what they dont. we cant say anything about them but want to learn more about different origins. so for now, pro endo. all systems are welcome here no matter what they are.
- anti radqueer, anti abelism. however i dont really have a dni, just dont be a bad person :). i& block freely.
- this was originally typed months ago by ir, but i (aethervox) edited it to be more recent.
- link to the liomogai pronouns/honorifics/terms/labels survey (link) we made! it's the link to the tumblr post in specifically.
This pride month, I want to remind folks that anattractional and loveless folks exist + are part of the queer community.
We(/sys) do not feel any urge to engage in relationships with specific people, or an urge to have specific types of relationships at all. If we want a partner/friend/etc, we decide who the best option is based on current compatibility, threat analysis, and logic. There is 0 emotion involved in the decision.
We do not experience love. We experience care and compassion and some form of interpersonal connection, but not love. partners, friends, family, none of them are loved.
In the spirit of the month, if you have questions about what its like/etc ask away!!
We like talking about ourselves lol. If you ask us a question we don't want to answer, we'll just say that - no offense taken or anything.
Fellow anattractionals and loveless folks are welcome to share experiences/answer stuff as well, we're super interested to hear what it's like for others in our community.
alright I've got to do some quick math to explain attitudes towards AI to my boss.
we're looking to create an AI policy, and when we were talking about this, my boss (older millennial) was genuinely shocked to hear that younger people do not (seem) to view AI positively (a la the recent commencement speakers being booed)
please rb for larger sample size!
Question 1/3
What is your age, and do you feel AI is a net positive or net negative in our lives today?
This poll hasn't even been active for 24 hours yet. I am so obsessed with it. I made a spreadsheet about it. And I look forward to adding the final results once it has closed.
There's a lot of "sample bias" feedback and although you're not wrong, I would challenge anyone to find a platform or sample source without that bias in either direction and an even bigger challenge would be finding literally anything else that over 97% of responders agree about.
I don't think over 40k of us can be so easily dismissed and companies and marketers would be choosing their own bias to ignore the market with its very loud feedback.
Are you nonhuman, alterhuman, otherkin? Are you queer? Take our survey!!! This survey is gonna be used to see if creatures view there queerness and non-humaneness+ as connected and if so in what ways!
Exploring the intersection of nonhuman and queer identities
These questions are completely anonymous and some are skip able
There is more after the cut. I just had to add it cuz I got sick and tired of it clogging up half of my reblogs/posts
Anti-endos are genuinely exhausting because they repeat the same recycled arguments over and over again like parrots and then act shocked when nobody outside their little echo chamber takes them seriously anymore. It is the exact same script every single time: “you’re invading our community,” “you’re stealing resources,” “you’re fake claiming DID,” blah blah blah. At some point it stops sounding like concern and starts sounding like people who are addicted to outrage and desperately need a group to villainize so they can feel morally superior online.
The funniest part is that plurality as a whole is already severely under-researched. People act like psychology has every answer about consciousness, identity, dissociation, and plurality when in reality the field still barely understands huge portions of it. Plural communities and discussions existed before DID was even formalized as a diagnosis, yet anti-endos love pretending history magically began the second medical terminology became convenient for them. Human identity is messy. Consciousness is messy. Trauma is complicated. The brain is complicated. But anti-endos flatten all of that nuance into the dumbest black-and-white worldview imaginable because complexity terrifies them.
And honestly? The “endos are invading our community” argument is one of the most hypocritical and irritating things they constantly scream about. Endogenic systems use tags like #plural because they ARE plural. That tag was never exclusively owned by anti-endos or medically recognized systems. If anti-endos deliberately lurk in inclusive plural spaces, stalk endogenic creators, interact with endogenic posts, and obsessively search tags they already know contain endogenic systems, that is not “intrusion.” That is them intentionally inserting themselves into spaces they KNOW are mixed and then whining afterward because they saw people they dislike existing peacefully.
You cannot knowingly walk into a broad community tag and then cry because the community is broad. That is your own damn fault.
And then anti-endos LOVE to scream about “resources being stolen,” except half the time they don’t even know what the resources themselves stand for. They constantly bring up things like Simply Plural, PluralKit, and Tupperbox as if those are exclusive DID-only sacred spaces being desecrated by evil endos. Meanwhile all three are openly inclusive or pro-endo. PluralKit and Tupperbox have outright acknowledged that even roleplayers can use the bots. Simply Plural allows people to use it as OC storage too. These resources were intentionally designed to be broad and accessible by the people who CREATED them. Anti-endos do not get to override the actual creators just because they personally dislike inclusivity.
That argument completely falls apart the second you look at reality for more than five fucking seconds.
And another thing anti-endos somehow STILL cannot understand despite how painfully simple it is: endogenic systems are not claiming to have DID. If someone believed they had DID, they would say they have DID. That is literally the point. Calling yourself endogenic is already separating your experience from DID/OSDD frameworks. This is not some impossible galaxy-brain concept. It is one of the easiest statements imaginable to understand, yet anti-endos intentionally twist it constantly because pretending endos are “faking DID” sounds more dramatic and gives them an excuse to justify harassment.
It genuinely feels like some anti-endos are less interested in protecting trauma survivors and more interested in controlling who is “allowed” to exist in plural spaces. The obsession is unhealthy. The harassment campaigns, stalking, mockery, dogpiling, misinformation, purity culture, and constant aggressive gatekeeping create more toxicity than the people they complain about ever did. You cannot preach about mental health while acting like a chronically online bully whose entire personality revolves around invalidating strangers on the internet.
And the irony is insane because anti-endos constantly prove the exact point people criticize them for. They claim they want safe spaces, yet they make plural communities hostile as hell. They claim they care about education, yet they spread misinformation constantly and refuse to acknowledge how little plurality is actually researched. They claim they care about respect, yet dedicate absurd amounts of time to mocking, harassing, and dehumanizing people they disagree with. If your movement relies more on aggression, ridicule, and social policing than actual discussion, maybe your position is not nearly as strong as you think it is.
At the end of the day, no amount of screaming online is going to erase people you dislike from existence. Reality does not magically disappear because anti-endos throw another tantrum on the internet.
And before anyone twists this around: this is not targeted at diagnosed systems. This is targeted at anti-endos specifically, because anti-endos can absolutely be singlets too. Being diagnosed does not automatically make someone anti-endo, and being anti-endo does not automatically make someone a system. The problem is the hostility, harassment, and obsessive gatekeeping — not whether somebody has a diagnosis.
i don't think any type of little/syskid are fully accepted at large.
we all know already that littles who like horror, or sex, or do drugs, aren't accepted. we know they're looked down on. & that's not okay! every system is different, & just cause that's something that would be unsafe for the littles in your system doesn't mean it's that way for everyone else.
but i've also noticed that littles that need help taking care of themself, littles who can't be online alone, littles that need help bathing, using the bathroom, & eating. littles that need out of the system caregivers. they aren't accepted either. but when i see people talking about littles that like mature things, i feel like they think dependant littles are accepted. maybe that's just me making assuming things.
every type of little is fine. every system is different & thats okay. everyone should be accepted & treated with respect.
Because it still bothers me that people use A-spec like it only means asexual, here’s a list of all the identities under the a-spec umbrella. If I missed one, please tell me and I’ll add it.
well you can get one. drawn by me. and you just have to pay whatever you want!! whatever amount you desire!!! Right here!!! in my kofi
ummm just send me a screenie that you sent and send me the flag and I’ll make it for you yauy. it’s at £1/$1 idk minimum but I would do 2 critters probs for that idk im not really fussy i just need motivation. anyway yah idk if theres gonna be any interest for this but uhhh yauyh
IMPORTANT ADDITIONS I SHOULD HAVE SPECIFIED PROBABLY
firstly thank u for the interest :3 now some mumbo jumbo
1. this is a no sketch no revisions commission. you send me the flag I send you the critter. with the exception that I might do some minor tweaks at the end if u feel super strongly about something. it’s a for funsies thing
2. if you created the term that it’s based off of and/or the flag then I’m welcome for you to keep that critter and do whatever you like with it. if you are requesting a flag/term somebody else made I would recommend talking to the creator of that term (and/or flag maker if that’s a different person) and coming to a mutual agreement about it
sidenote. I also made a little animated version of occunous would ppl be interested in animated versions? It would be pay what you want but maybe like $5 minimum? idk
Anyway I hope this is more helpful than my stupid 4am promo hahaha if you have anymore questions let me know
oh i'm. this awakened something in me they are So Cute I Love Them Oh My God Actually !!!!!! i Love Them So Much !!!! i am so inspired to do Something like "take Concept and turn into Something Else"... i for some reason have never thought of them but oh the fleurika one is so pretty and the occunous one is so cute and. oh these are amazing!!! i would Love To Request !!! i will see if we can but ! /pos!! very pos! - 🗡️ (vis) (he)
Do you care about people? (Must be alovespec to vote!)
100% a lot and very frequently
75% a decent lot and decently frequently
50% some and somewhat frequently
25% a little and rarely
0% Never / barely ever
A lot in short bursts, a lot but rarely.
A little, but often. A smidge but frequently.
Voting ended onApr 30
The definition of care is defined by you. But our definition would be: For something to matter to you. It's not personal, but you wouldn't want that thing to die or struggle.
I see the occasional bit of positivity for large systems, but the numbers never even get close to what we experience. I get it, but it makes me a touch sad. So, here's to my fellow enormous systems!!
Shoutout to systems with 10,000+ members
Shoutout to systems with 100,000+ members
Shoutout to systems with 1,000,000+ members
Shoutout to systems with 1,000,000,000+ members
Shoutout to systems with infinite members
Shoutout to systems with an uncountable amount of members
Shoutout to systems who are constantly splitting
Shoutout to systems who don't or can't keep track of who's who
Shoutout to systems who are so large they function as one person
Shoutout to systems who are constantly blurry
Shoutout to systems who are so large they can't ever function as one person
Shoutout to systems who are large due to polyfragmentation
Shoutout to systems who are large due to willomancy
Shoutout to systems who are large due to walk ins
I'd like to give a shoutout to very large systems in general :] I'm glad there's such huge diversity in the plural communities. Feel free to share your experiences in the comments! I'd love to hear from more folks like us!!
