The Lover of Flowery Names

Writer. Gifmaker/Editor. Proud Aroace and Aegosexual who loves cats, fashion, food, and fictional characters. Feminist and Proshipper. Multifandom blog of hyperfixations.

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[atlaandlokcontent]

Femslash February Day 15 = Kya & Lin

I had a dream

I got everything I wanted

But when I wake up, I see

You with me

And you say, "As long as I'm here, no one can hurt you

[atlaandlokcontent]

Femslash February Day Two : Korra & Asami

And in a blink of a crinkling eye

I'm sinking, our fingers entwined

Cheeks pink in the twinkling lights

Tell me 'bout the first time you saw me

I'll drink what you think, and I'm high

From smoking your jokes all damn night

The brink of a wrinkle in time

Bittersweet sixteen suddenly

[atlaandlokcontent]

Femslash February Day Three : Ginger & Asami

Say my name and everything just stops

I don't want you like a best friend

Only bought this dress so you could take it off

Take it off

Carve your name into my bedpost

'Cause I don't want you like a best friend

Only bought this dress so you could take it off

Take it off

[atlaandlokcontent]

Femslash February Day 16 : Kya & Lin

There's so much I wanna do

And tonight I wanna lay it at your feet

'Cause, girl, I was made for you

And, girl, you were made for me

I was made for loving you, baby

You were made for loving me

And I can't get enough of you, baby

Can you get enough of me?

[coldresss]

好久没画

[coldresss]

^^

[atlaandlokcontent]

Femslash February Day 9 : Mai & Ty Lee

I just wanna get to know ya

Guess I didn't quite think it through (nah-uh, girl)

Fell in love with the thought of you

Now I'm choked up, face down, burnt out

Baby, why don't you come over?

Red wine supernova, falling into me

[atlaandlokcontent]

Femslash February Day Two = Jin & Song

I remember when I met you

Well we fell in love, we fell in love

In the purple fields and sky blue

Ah Ah Ah

Well the turtle doves were singing

Well we fell in love, we fell in love

You and me at the beginning

[silvaurum]

"i would kill a pedophile to protect my child" ok but would you teach your child how to say no? even to adults? even to adults you like? would you teach your child the words "penis" and "vulva" and then use them? would you let them ask questions about their body? would you answer them honestly? would you learn how to cope with your feelings when you talk about human bodies, so they don't feel ashamed? would you set a positive example for how you talk about your body? would you tell your child they don't have to hug or kiss anyone? would you tell your family the same? would you stand by them when they refuse to hug someone? even someone you know has never done anything to hurt them? would you let your child avoid food they don't like? would you let you child avoid people they don't like? would you believe them? would you sit in the discomfort of not knowing all the answers and not take it out on them? would you love your child the same if someone did hurt them? would you make them feel valued just as they are? would you let them talk to doctors or nurses in private? would you let them express their feelings? would you show interest in their life? would you let your child say no to you? would you help your child feel safe coming to you when they make a mistake? would you apologize to your child? would you believe them? would you put aside your anger to focus on what would make your child feel safe and loved? would you put your ego aside for your child? would you take your child's concerns seriously? would you listen to your child? would you believe them?

[black--stars]

Hey, when you talk to children, you know you can explain things to them right? thats theyre capable of comprehension? In fact you should be explaining things so they understand comprehension better?

Earlier my little sister slammed her closet and room door-- not out of anger as far as im aware, she just pushed them too hard. I yelled at her to stop it.

she said she would, but it was clear from her tone she just said so out of obligation and was annoyed. i tell her to stop making loud noises a lot, so she probably assumed this was just another example of that.

realizing this, i explained her the reason: our rooms are right next to each other. When she slams doors, the wall shakes. When the wall shakes, my mirror shakes, and if it shakes too hard it can fall and break

after the explanation, she apologized genuinely and actually understood the reason instead of just thinking im nagging her or just want quiet. the fact that she knows the reason means shes more likely to remember, and she can apply the knowledge in different ways: "even if my older sibling isnt home, their mirror could still break, so i still shouldnt slam the door." She knows im not just trying to annoy her or assert dominance over her like a lot of rules and demands we give to children do- i just dont want my mirror to break. It helps her understand cause and effect.

Would this result be the same if i had just screamed at her or spanked her? Or did it make more sense to just explain? After all, it was a simple mistake. I could see my parents doing the same thing-- when you close a door, youre not usually thinking about the walls in the other room.

Children are humans, humans use logic. Use logic with children. Its simple.

[clickrtrained]

i do unironically think that if all this internet age restriction stuff hit when i was a kid i would Not be alive rn

like just saying

[clickrtrained]

surely isolating children even further for years can do no harm to them whatsoever

[aconstellationcollective]

dehumanization as horror is great and all but what about humanization as horror. Being forced into a role that was not made for you. Being forced to fulfill expectations that you can never achieve. Being made to exist in a society that so cruelly expects you to act in a way that is against your nature.

[dachosmin]

Highgarden.