Thoughts about Modern Female Led Marriages

Content: +18, Adult, NSFW, no minors Middle aged German husband blogging about his experience, thoughts and dreams of modern female centric marriages. Taken. Always looking for nice conversation. Write me! Interests: F/m, F+/m, FM/m, cuckolding, BBC, female led relationships, female dominance, female supremacy Mosts Posts are reblogs, except those marked #me. I assume them as public domain. If you want your content removed, message me.

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[flrguybln]

Goodbye

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[flrguybln]

That is the way a husband should be treated by their wife. His sexuality is something that must be responsibly managed.

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[flrguybln]

I do :-). Now her boyfriends are the only ones who were able and permitted to pee standing. My wife tells them that they don’t need to worry about the squirts. I will clean the toilet afterwards.

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Female Supremacy is NOW, Women put the inferior males in the place they belong.

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[flrguybln]

Don’t challenge her authority. She is the one in charge. Don’t bother her with your selfish desires.

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[flrguybln]

This way she ensures that I am aware of any single guy who dumped his load into her. I know, she hates this cold and sticky cream in her panties. I am going down on her in a second.

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[flrguybln]

My wife would bust my balls for this :-).

[flrguybln]

Cuckold Wives - Mine is for Life - When I married Sue I had not even heard of the word cuckold let alone what it meant, but that was all to change within two years of marriage. As a lot of couples experience after a while some of the magic always seems to wear off, and this was certainly the case with us. Sue complained that I was not large enough to satisfy her, I came too quickly, and that she was becoming increasingly frustrated, and very unhappy with our marriage. I was mortified as I loved her so much, and told her so, and that I would do anything to make her happy, and it was at that point my whole life changed.

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[flrguybln]

Oh my ..

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[flrguybln]

Hot but naturally.

[flrguybln]

Males in a number of species respond to the threat of female infidelity by guarding their mate to keep her from mating with other males. A woman always knows that her child is her own, but a man can never be as certain. Men, therefore, value chastity and sexual fidelity in a mate more than women do.

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Stripping Hubby of Independence

I remember reading a blog about female led marriages once that used this phrase, and it has always kind of stuck with me for some reason.

“Stripping Hubby of Independence”

Wearing a full time chastity device, secured with a piercing, and giving her the key certainly accomplishes this on one major level.  It’s hard to imagine anything putting a husband in his place the same way losing access to his favorite little play toy would.  

But there is one other thing that ranks right up there.

And that would be money.

Stripping Hubby of Independence was in reference to dominant women taking over complete control of the household finances, and it has been something mulling around in the back of my mind since the day I read it.

But I’ve always been afraid to bring it up to my wife.  Which is absurd considering all the chastity talks we’ve had over the years.

“Darling, I would like to have my little penis pierced and lock it in a tiny steel cage so I can’t play with it and it can’t get hard and then you can hold the key and I’ll just be a quivering puddle of sexual angst begging to kiss your feet and lick your asshole and do the dishes every night forever is that okay?”

That one I got through no problem…

“Darling, I’m not the best with money and you are really good with that type of thing and I think our family would be better off if you took care of our finances and just gave me an allowance you feel is reasonable and of course I will help with anything you want but I will respect your decisions is that okay?”

Yeah.  That second one took me another decade to say to her…

Probably because, deep down, I knew exactly what her reaction would be.

So about two months ago, I finally worked up the nerve to actually say it.  

Let’s just say she was not opposed to the idea.

Within 15 minutes, my two personal credit cards were gone, locked in her safe where she also keeps the keys to my chastity device.  I still have one card from my employer for work related items.

My wife and I have had a joint bank account for 20 years.  

Within two hours, we had opened two completely separate checking accounts at a new bank, and the following Monday morning I emailed payroll at my office and directed them to split my direct deposit between the two accounts… mostly to hers.

Over the weeks since then, she has continued to tighten the financial noose with little things like changing passwords and deleting all the ‘saved’ payment methods on Paypal and Amazon.

My allowance started at 10% of my salary but has since been reduced to around 6%, which is the exact minimum amount to maintain free basic checking.

Going from a place where I probably considered a third of my salary to be completely discretionary, it is quite an adjustment.  Most of what I keep now has to be carefully budgeted for basic things, like fuel, a haircut or a doctor’s visit.  

For me, Starbucks is out, I make my own coffee at home or wait until I get to the office now.

Workday lunches are the same.  If I’m not taking clients out that day then I bring something from home.

If I need to pick something up for her, she can use her phone and transfer the money in less than a minute.

The change in our relationship dynamic has been noticeable.  

They say money is power, and power is sexy, which really is the truth.  Just taking a few steps down this road has already compelled me to offer signing over all of our collective assets to her.  

So far, she’s responded to that the same way she responds to my talk about permanent chastity.  Which is to say she tickles my fantasies and says maybe someday.  Probably just as well on both.

As we go through this transition I’m still involved with the budget and bill paying, and I can tell we are seriously saving money on this plan.  Which I’m sure is going to encourage her to embrace this lifestyle even more.

And now that I know she’s watching I want to please her and spend as little as possible.

If I just fall short and need money for something I should have budgeted for, she can review my account transactions and help me understand where I went off the rails.

Probably the same way she reminds me I’m not supposed to look at porn or play with my little penis.

That would be the Thunderbolt.

[flrguybln]

It’s pretty much the same for me. Up to now my wife doesn’t strip my financial independence while she has no problem with orgasm denial. Maybe sometime I will be as courageous as this guy.

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Wife’s Twelfth: Pregnancy Update And Delivery Decision

     The delivery date is only 12-14 days away; we are literally counting the days now! =) I think baby is as ready for the delivery date to be here as much as I am. The last few days I’ve been feeling some kicks and pokes a little more than I normally do and I think that is a pretty good sign. Contractions aren’t that great, but hey it’ll be over soon. And if I am as lucky this time as I was with my first pregnancy the contractions on day of delivery will hurt, but not be over bearing like it is for some other women. I’ve been very luck so far though with both pregnancies, so I have no concerns really. I think it has a lot to do with following the “her body, her choice” motto. If it’s what your body and mind agree on, then it will make things easier. That’s just me though, and I could just be bias.  😉😇

     Also, as far as the day of delivery goes we have decided what the best course of action will be. I invited my gf to be there for the big day, and she was more than happy to be there supporting us. If my bull does come, then my gf and hubby will stay in the waiting area with my daughter. And if my bull doesn’t come, then my gf can be in the delivery room with me while hubs stays with our daughter.

      But in any regard, I am very excited to see what the gender will be. 😍

[flrguybln]

All the best!

[flrguybln]

I also believe a wife does not owe her husband anything, because that is based on a very flawed traditional view of society. We are not obligated to sexually please our husbands, based on the premise that we are married to them.     We can marry whomever I want, but we also have the ability to choose who we have sex with, and whom we produce children with. I do not believe it is a husband’s right, or his entitlement, to have sex with his wife or to impregnate her. That is solely left for us to decide with our bodies

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