the thing about that ask that really bugs me is the fact they called forcefem a dehumanising kink. what about it is dehumanising? what makes forcefem in particular worse than other kinks? it all circles back to people thinking that women, trans women in particular, cannot be as human as everyone else. if you are helped along in your transition it is coercive on the part of the person helping you, and dehumanising on your end. to transition into a woman is an act of violence, and it's something no one could ever possibly want to happen to them. forcefem is not inherently violent or humiliating!!! to me it is a great act of love and liberation. you see a girl who is in pain and you get to tell her that it doesn't have to be this way and she can be happy and beautiful and the person she always needed to be. isn't that beautiful?
















