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izzy's playlists!
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Cookie Run:Kingdom Official!
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"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
occasionally subtle
Sweet Seals For You, Always
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Jimmy Eat World
Love Begins
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@fordaysatatime
ppl that get mad at people for not preferring the more ‘wholesome???’ ship blow my mind like
“why would you ship x when x is right there!”
???????
i dont stand behind u at mcdonalds and tell u to get the salad instead of the big mac like shut up and let me have my garbage as long as it isnt hurting anyone else
Getting real sick of this being all I see in my messages window because I know some of you have sent me messages but for months this is all I get on the mobile app 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻I hope you’re all well and know that I still I love you. Anyway: https://hollywoodlife.com/2018/06/21/miley-cyrus-liam-hemsworth-secret-wedding-ceremony-malibu/ I want to say fk HWL but they have had some scoops lately turn out to be true so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. I wish them nothing but the worst.
I really really need good vibes and happy thoughts put into the universe for me right now. If you have any to spare I’d be forever grateful.
Reblog if you've found friendship because of your fandoms.
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how to stop your OTP from ruining your life
lmao you can’t
Gale knows I chose him over Peeta when I didn’t make a run for it… But since I don’t plan on making it back alive a second time, the sooner Gale lets me go, the better. I do plan on saying one or two things to him after the reaping, when we’re allowed an hour for good-byes. To let Gale know how essential he’s been to me all these years. How much better my life has been for knowing him. For loving him, even if it’s only in the limited way that I can manage.
But I never get the chance.
Coming into a fandom late
Coming into a fandom early and watching it become an angry clusterfuck
Being in a dormant fandom that suddenly comes alive again after a new book/movie
Don’t forget about those who come in the midst of a fandom war.
Accuracy at its best
Being in a fandom and not even knowing there’s a war going on…
all of this shit…lol
When You’re Not In The Fandom But You’re Nosy AF
When you get into a fandom only to discover it’s dead
This gets better every time I see it.
@fuboos-mess
Being in a dead fandom…
Or being in such a tiny fandom that it feels like youre the only one
The accuracy hurts.
Being in a fandom that had a shit ending.
When you’ve been fangirling long enough, you’ve experienced all of the above.
Being in a fandom meant for kids.
This just gets better..
@mi-kleos
When you realize that joining the fandom has ruined you
Fandom hell in general
A master post
sorry for ignoring you i was mentally dead
Things you shouldn't cringe at: A thirteen-year-old posting their first fanart or fanfic in a fandom when they're new to art or writing.
Things you should totally cringe at: Fully grown adults acting like five year olds when someone doesn't ship their OTP.
Tumblir mobile: you have five new notifications!
Me: oh can I see them
Tumblr mobly: hehe
Me: May I See Them
Tumblr: :)
Dude filmmaker: We wanted to cleverly critique the way women are brutalised then sidelined in films. To do this, we had the women in our film brutalised then sidelined. I think you’ll find it incredible; I found it so good that at one point in the film you can hear me audibly groaning “ahhh, cinema” from behind the camera.
never wonder where I am - cause I am always b y y o u r s i d e
Do you know that tingly sensation you get when you really like someone? That is common sense, leaving your body.
“what is shipping?”
one of the more valuable things I’ve learned in life as a survivor of a mentally unstable parent is that it is likely that no one has thought through it as much as you have.
no, your friend probably has not noticed they cut you off four times in this conversation.
no, your brother didn’t realize his music was that loud while you were studying.
no, your bff or S.O. doesn’t remember that you’re on a tight deadline right now.
no, no one else is paying attention to the four power dynamics at play in your friend group right now.
a habit of abused kids, especially kids with unstable parents, is the tendency to notice every little detail. We magnify small nuances into major things, largely because small nuances quickly became breaking points for parents. Managing moods, reading the room, perceiving danger in the order of words, the shift of body weight….it’s all a natural outgrowth of trying to manage unstable parents from a young age.
Here’s the thing: most people don’t do that. I’m not saying everyone else is oblivious, I’m saying the over analysis of minor nuances is a habit of abuse.
I have a rule: I do not respond to subtext. This includes guilt tripping, silent treatments, passive aggressive behavior, etc. I see it. I notice it. I even sometimes have to analyze it and take a deep breath and CHOOSE not to respond. Because whether it’s really there or just me over-reading things that actually don’t mean anything, the habit of lending credence to the part of me that sees danger in the wrong shift of body weight…that’s toxic for me. And dangerous to my relationships.
The best thing I ever did for myself and my relationships was insist upon frank communication and a categorical denial of subtext. For some people this is a moral stance. For survivors of mentally unstable parents this is a requirement of recovery.
If it wasn’t stated outright - it wasn’t said.
The happiest couples are those who consider each other their best friend. Source Source 2
