Your Sweetest Nightmare

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Work hard for what you want because it won’t come to you without a fight. You have to be strong and courageous and know that you can do anything you put your mind to. If somebody puts you down or criticizes you, just keep on believing in yourself and turn it into something positive.

Leah LaBelle (via foreversmiles)

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She was like a rose, but a black rose. She was as beautiful as she was dark.

My Dark Mind (via foreversmiles)

[faithhopeloveandtherapy]

Why changing thought patterns is so hard

(As told to me by my therapist this morning.)

Imagine a baby crying because they have a need.

If someone comes and meets that need, the baby feels better and she learns that she can have an influence on the world around her. A pathway forms in her brain to that effect. But if the baby cries and no one comes, she feels helpless in the world because she starts to learn that she can’t change anything around her. And a pathway forms in her brain about that.

Now many years later she’s grown up and still struggling with a sense of feeling helpless. That’s an example of how struggles can be related to deep beliefs that can have been forming since as early as babyhood. And it’s hard work to change those pathways.

Now imagine a jeep driving every day through a field of long grass. The well-used path is easy to drive along but always gets to the same place. If you want to get to a different place, you have to forge a new path. At first it is very hard going to push through the long grass. If you only do it once, the grass quickly grows back again. But the more often you travel that new path, the easier it becomes. Every time you travel along that path, you are pushing that grass out of the way and making the path a little clearer for the next time, but it takes a lot of repeated travelling over that path while also not taking the other path, before the new path becomes the easiest one to take.

And this is why changing neural pathways takes a long time and a lot of hard work

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Things that make me happier than they should

…(or precisely as happy as they should) and may or may not make me squeal with delight on occassion. (Posting to remind myself)

1) Coffee in the morning

2) Writing that “perfect” paragraph for my fictional friends

3) New followers, likes and reblogs on Tumblr

4) Learning my ship becomes canon

5) Not having to set an alarm for the next morning.

6) Hanging out with my best friends

7) Being able to my pay bills

8) Realizing how close I am getting to graduation

9) Pets. (almost) All of them.

10) The friends who who are FRIENDS and not “friends”

[bekwek]

Every think above is so true. Apart from coffee.. Sadly I don’t like it.. I don’t like tea either.. Never mind porridge is a good I’m the morning ^_^

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I know right Q.Q Life isn’t bad at all… overall. I could do with a little more money :P

I can’t do without coffee though hahaha (and I don’t drink it with milk and sugar so I’m not one of those who need warm milk and sugar to get me going in the morning x’D)

[sunfl0wer-spirit]

I forgive people but that doesn’t mean I accept their behavior or trust them. I forgive them for me, so I can let go and move on with my life.

(via bl-ossomed)

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A positive attitude is something everyone can work on, and everyone can learn how to employ it.

Joan Lunden

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Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.

Maya Angelou

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this is the kind of content we all deserve to see

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Peace is its own reward

Gandhi

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And that's another thing. People don't care about whether or not you're alright. They want the illusion of you being alright. People are shallow.

My Dark Mind

[unordinary-girl]

After so long, I finally realized that I deserve someone who will fight for me. I deserve someone who will truly care about me and make me see the good in myself that I am not able to see. I deserve to be loved in return. I deserve to be respected and to be someone’s first choice.

[fashionsensexoxo]

I used to walk into a room full of people and wonder if they liked me… now I look around and wonder if I like them.

Rikkie Gale (via fashionsensexoxo)

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I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship

Louisa May Alcott

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everyone who reblogs this will get a poem/short story based on what it feels like to scroll through their blog

and i mean everyone. i need to practice!

[fanboyingoverdemigods]

We all change when you think about it. We’re all different people, all through our lives…and that’s okay. That’s good. You’ve gotta keep moving, so long as you remember all the people that you used to be.

The Doctor (via fangirlingoverdemigods)