*✩‧₊˚Age regression: the side of healing no one talks aboutﾟ*✩‧₊˚
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possible tw, def dont read if little.
{this is a thread about my process of healing within the agere community and what its like and why no one speaks about it}
*Why does one regress?
this is a question thats has many different answers to it, my answer doesn’t mean its the same like someone else’s answer. Tho, i regress because i never had a childhood to experience, i forced myself to grow up and experience things i wish i hadn’t. Regressing gives me that childhood i long needed and plus, its a great way to help stress and to cope with other events in ones life
* whats the healing process like?
some people dont heal. some people regress until their 50s and thats fine. Your ready when you feel ready. tho, the healing process and the realization •I dont need this coping skill anymore• is tough. its hard to let go of something you knew for so long. Even when you barely even get to regress, its hard to let go. I am the type of regressor who can’t regress on their own this is bad because i suck at talking to people and my past cgs would leave me behind (dont feel bad idc) while they were gone i began to think more. is this something i truly need to help me, to cope, to relieve stress, or is this something i want to have for those reasons no one talks about leaving the agere community. everyone just sticks in it because well most of us of our problems and it’s the only place to go to. so why leave? regressing is healthy but dont be afraid to think about other ways to cope that are also healthy. if age regressing is the best coping skill for you then there you go a good coping skill. but dont be scared to leave it behind, i was scared to leave it behind because i didnt know what else i’ll so with out it. Still i dont know if i should stay or leave, its not like im active. I believe no one likes talking about leaving and healing because its a rare process for lots of people, some people do heal but a good of us dont and thats okay. dont be scared of this topic its okay to move on :) I will most likely still be active each month, maybe even regress some days but all and all i know that i can let go and soon enough i will.
