Married to the money.

Frenchie & boujee. Stripper. Mother Of Cats.

[theambitiouswoman]

[111wishesss]

How to avoid getting used by a man:

• Don't move in with him until you're engaged/married

• Don't sleep with him until you're engaged/married

• Don't do wifey things when you're just a girlfriend to him, don't cook or clean for him

• Don't do 50/50 with him, let him pay more for you

• Expect princess treatment: he provides and protects you

• Follow you intuition and don't waste your time. Your presence is valuable

[babyphat05-deactivated20250613]

I can’t emphasis enough how important it is to NEVER communicate to anyone what your standards are. If you have to TELL someone how to treat you, you’re already disrespecting yourself by continuing to talk to someone who’s not on your level. If they don’t come correct, let them go.

[barbienefertiti]

When you bring a new vibration into your life and don't sustain and feed it, it causes an internal havoc. For example you want to cultivate a certain lifestyle but your old programming is judgemental of people who live or dress like that and so you stay in a state of turmoil. Or you want to try a new hobby but your other self is bullying you because it's expensive and bougie and so you war with yourself.

I feel that's why there's so many trends in and out. The insecurities and self doubt don't want the new.

[middleeasterndime-deactivated20]

They will rarely ever show it, but deep down people always respect a gold digger. Even if it’s in a perverse, subconscious way, people will have respect for someone who set stringent high standards and refused to tolerate anyone who wouldn’t meet them. Most people who mock hypergamous women are just jealous they don’t have the discipline and self-respect to maintain those same standards in their own lives.

[heroinsight]

PINK ROBIN Lives Tasmania-Victoria Australia By Alwyn Simple

[lafemmefatalee]

Madeo, West Hollywood

[evermore-fashion]

Favourite Designs: Joyce Spakman ‘Mermaid Sea’ Porcelain Corset [x]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“She needed a hero so she became one.”

— Unknown

[medoshii]

[a-state-of-bliss]

Naomi Campbell @ Istante Spr/Sum 1996

[highmaintenancee]

Costume Ideas 🧡

[fashioninfographics]

Pout palette to match your complexion

[boredgirlsclub]

pink pilates princess

[meangirlnurse]

i feel like no one really wants to hear that sleep/exercise/nutrition/hydration are major factors in treating mental health issues bc we’ve all talked to that person who thinks your depression would be cured by one good session of goat yoga or whatever but unfortunately they do help and i’m chronically annoyed about it

[haruharuz]

How did you get into dancing? Do you recommend it to others? Are there certain types of people that should avoid dancing?

Long story short, 17 year old me stumbled upon the world of SW and outright decided I wanted to try stripping one day. At 20 I decided to say fuck it and go for it, moved halfway across the U.S. and went to an audition.

I don’t recommend it to anyone, but I also don’t say that they shouldn’t. I love dancing but the industry is fucking BRUTAL. I’ve watched good girls become felons from drug charges and a plethora of other things. It really depends on if you WANT to dance and if you have the skill set. There’s a massive skill set needed to dance, if you don’t have it or learn how to build it you won’t make anything.

Absolutely, In no particular order, if you have these you might want to reconsider:

(People with/who:)

Jealousy issues

Little to no self esteem

Money management problems

Past drug addiction issues

Past alcoholism

Addictive tendencies

Fear of rejection

Little to no stamina

Low pain tolerance

No rhythm

No variety in music taste

No social skills

Little concept of being seductive

No makeup skills

No hair skills

Can’t handle being touched

Don’t like being judged

Have bad hygiene skills

This is a small list of things you may want to consider going in. You have 100% certainty to be judged for your body, skin, teeth, hair, voice etc. You WILL need money management skills (send an ask if you want a list of mistakes and advice). And you absolutely cannot avoid being rejected, laughed at, touched in some cases, bruises, scraped, and in pain.

Thank you for the ask babydoll, ask box is still open always <3

[cov0cateur]

a while ago i saw a post where you said you would write how you got harvard to up his allowance from 800$, did you write it ? great blog :)

Lol I never did write about it. It’s a long story and I’m lazy. But basically here is the condensed version. It took a lot more subtlety and emotional “manipulation” (for lack of a better term) than this portrays.

Immediately after his initial insulting offer of $800/ month, I got him to increase to $1500 for the month and I agreed to that because he claimed he could only see me once or twice a month. I know guys always say that but are never, ever able to do that…they always need more. So I agreed very specifically to that number ONLY if it was 1-2/ month (twice would be rare according to him) and then charmed him so much that it was basically impossible for him to only see me once or twice a month.

So Lesson #1 If a man has small amount of cash to go around, initially agree but make it clear it’s only for a small amount of meetings.

I then told him to think about increasing my allowance since he wants to see me more often. He offered $2000 or something like that for a definite twice a month. Given that whenever I was in town he’d try to see me twice a week, I knew twice a month wouldn’t work either. He craved me more than that.

I told him we would go on at least one more date and I’d give him my answer at the end of our date. I made sure to have an incredible time and hook him emotionally. Hook him on the idea of being my friend, confidant and lover. Then at the end of the date I told him very plainly, “I’m sorry, I decline your offer.” It was simple and definitive and he was clearly devastated. His face fell but he accepted it.

From there I let some time go by allowing him time to miss me and think about what he would’ve done to keep me then I contacted him with a per meet offer. $800 per date. Of course he was jumping at the opportunity to see me because of how I constructed our last meeting- amazing time then abrupt end. Plus it wasn’t an absurd number. But this offer was per date…nothing more implied.

I made that per meet date very short and within the same week I asked him to see me again. Again he was jumping at that opportunity because the last meeting was short and sweet and I’m sure he wanted to have the opportunity to push our physical and emotional boundaries. I made it so he was the one trying to get emotionally close to me and win me over instead of the other way around. I notice in the bowl a lot of SBs chasing men. The goal is to be so enticing they are chasing you.

Lesson #2 always make them feel like you can walk away at any time and it’s up to them to keep you happy. They must be jumping at any opportunity to see you. This will make them ripe for agreeing to whatever offer you make that comes next.

This continued for a little while because it was very lucrative for me. Short meetings at $800 a pop happening several times a week and I always left him wanting more.

So here we are. We went from $800/ month to 1500-2000/ month back down to $800/ meet but I knew I had him hooked so we were seeing each other a couple times a week- whenever I requested it. During that time I would talk to him about his deepest secrets, be non-judgmental but genuine at the same time. I was sweet and funny but also a bit of a ball breaker (to add to the genuine factor). And I made sure to look drop.dead.gorgeous every.single.time!I repeat DROP.DEAD.GORGEOUS EVERY.SINGLE.TIME. You can not compromise this.

All of this was happening but again, our meetings were usually very short and convenient for me. I’d leave him wanting more time with me. I wanted him craving me emotionally and wanting to be that guy who spends more quality time with me. I wanted him to need to be the man in my life. And I did it. I’d have him dropping important calls and meetings to spend half hour with me just grabbing a coffee or bringing me my favorite salad couple of times a week—whenever I said the word. And I’d get paid for this.

Eventually after about a month or so I brought up that he had given me about $8000 that month and asked “doesn’t my original offer sound much better now…in fact it would be like him getting a discount”. Of course he agreed because he knew that he was at my beck and call and was simply unable to say no to me whenever I wanted to see him and in that case a flat monthly allowance was a much better bargain than the amount I could extract from him at $800 every single time we saw each other.

Additionally, he was one of those guys who didn’t know how to hide money from his wife since they have a joint account and she pays their household bills (he doesn’t have time to do so.) In the time we were getting to know each other, he took some time to set up a separate account his wife doesn’t know about with half of his bonus in there to use on me as he pleases. I think he told her he only got half of what he actually received this year so half went to the household and the other half to his “SB” account which he uses for my allowance, the costs of taking me out and my gifts. Nowadays he spends a lot of time intercepting mail that has information about lump sums from his investments and info on his bonus so he can put that money into our account without the wife knowing he got it.

So essentially I got him to go from $800/ month to $4000/month by changing it to a per meet amount then emotionally and physically hooking him so it was essentially impossible for him to say no whenever I wanted to meet. After getting him to spend $8000/ month in per meet dates, a fixed $4000/ month was basically a bargain :)

[cov0cateur]

Omg I should make Harvard answer why he was such a cheap salty bastard in the beginning. That would be helpful to you guys who have to deal with salt daily.