My custie bought me a new laptop ꒰ᐢ. .ᐢ꒱₊˚⊹! I love being a stripper and I LOVE being spoiled so much
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My custie bought me a new laptop ꒰ᐢ. .ᐢ꒱₊˚⊹! I love being a stripper and I LOVE being spoiled so much
Hot take:
Social media has ruined sugaring and sex work. It’s convinced an entire generation of girls that all you need is a cute face and an Instagram account, and suddenly you’re flying private and collecting bags. Meanwhile, the reality is that even if you’re exceptionally attractive, if you don’t have mental game, you’re going to get played and probably traumatized. I won’t even discuss the average looking women who think they can succeed.
This isn’t a fantasy, it’s business and strategy. It’s emotional (and physical) labor. It’s psychology. And some of you are walking in with zero boundaries, no sense of power dynamics, and asking questions that make it obvious you’re not ready, all while thinking someone is just going to hand you a fat stack. A lot of you want the reward without risk.
These men are smart and know how to make you feel like you have the power when you don’t. Women who accept the bare minimum have made bottom of the barrel men believe that they too can have a sugar baby, which is a luxury.
Like yes, absolutely do your research. Those of us who have succeeded had to fail and research in order to figure it out. But at a certain point, the questions need to stop being “how do I bring up money?” and start being “why do I think I’m ready to do this if I can’t even bring up money?”
The internet loves to sell this as easy. It’s not. Pretty girls get used every day, because pretty isn’t the flex if you don’t know how to use it.
(/--)/ does anyone want a discord for girlie's that are trying to level up their life? Especially those of us with sugaring / hypergamy / dancing etc?
What You Need to Charge if you Want to Make 70-250k per Year
Sit down and do this right now. This formula can be used by anyone including strippers & sugar babies
A/B=C
A= your yearly minimum salary - (minus) the minimum amount you need in order to live comfortably for the year. This figure should include taxes, all living expenses, and business related overhead. This amount could be larger or smaller than you imagine, depending on how familiar you are with your own finances.
B= the realistic number of billable hours per week you think you will work, multiplied by the number of weeks in a year you think you’ll work (be sure to include vacation time, or time off if you don’t intend to work during your period). Again, this number might surprise you. If you’re starting out, you have no real idea of how popular you will or won’t be. A goal of one billable hour per day (multiplied by how many days you think you want to work) is a reasonable starting point. If you’re going the high end route, total the number of billable hours per week you think you’ll have, whether with one client or more.
C= minimum suggested hourly rate. Even if you know you want multiple hour appointments, the suggested minimum still applies (multiply the number C by the number of hours in your minimum).
The formula in action:
If your goal is to make $70,000 a year (A) / 250 (B= 5 * 50) = $280. This means your minimum per hour needs to be $280.
$100,000 (A) / 260 (B= 5 * 52) = $385 c
$250,000 (A) / 520 (B= 10 * 52) = $481 c
$250,000 (A) / 320 (B= 8 * 40) = $781 c
The number C is to start you thinking. Your rate structure should not be something you pulled out of thin air or what everyone else is doing. If you want to create a certain image with your rates, then adjust accordingly.
Here’s a quick example of a rate structure:
$400/ 1 hour $700/ 2 hours $1,200/ 4 hours with dinner $5,000/ 24 hours
Checklists.
As a full time sugar, I have a lot of things to keep in order.
So, I thought I would share my checklists with you lovely ladies if you
A) Wanted to know what a full time sugar does
B) Needed a reference
or
C) Wanted direction of some kind
So enjoy.
Daily Checklist:
Shower
Leave-in hair conditioner
Lotion
Eyebrows on point
Check websites (SA, WYP, EM, SD4M)
Respond to POTs privately (private email, phone, skype)
Watch news or read up on current events
Workout (I use the 30 Day Challenge workout app for iPhones)
Update calendars (There’s one on my apple account for devices and I keep a whiteboard calendar)
Yoga
Every Other Day Checklist
Run with Lucky (very fat dog of mine who’s getting in shape with me)
Top coat of nails
Shave/wax
Clear out trash in room and car
Record weight (only to make sure I’m within a healthy 5 lb fluctuation range)
Update POT/SD information (details about them, what they’re offering, how much I’ve gotten from them)
Weekly Checklist
Exfoliate
Tan
Record finances (where my money is going, where it’s coming from, planned expenses)
Check on goal progress
Go out with friends at least once for sanity reasons
Weekly day off for sanity reasons
Actually clean everything that needs to be cleaned
Laundry
Plan for next week
Rock climb
Monthly Checklist
Bills paid
Correct amount of money put into savings, emergency, etc.
Check closet organization
Car check up
Read at least 2 books (1 for pleasure, 1 for knowledge)
Lunch with sisters
All POT/SD details updated
Hopefully this is helpful to other SB’s, feel free to add anything or change it to your personal life if you wanted a template. Most things are general, but some (rock climbing, closet organization, sister lunch, etc) are personal.
Oh, and if I left something out you think is crucial, please let me know or reblog and add it!
WE USED TO BE A COMMUNITYYYYY !! *I scream as I'm dragged back into 2025 tumblr*
This is the valentines day heart. Reblog for cold hard cash.
some of my favorite archived stripperweb posts - hustle hut (pt. 1)
💗The full archived version of Stripperweb can be viewed here💗
I'm going to make this a series in order to help sw'ers, especially those who may not have been around to experience Stripperweb. I'm also kick-starting this series with some of my favorite posts/threads from the Hustle Hut forum so we can all make some fat stacks! Reblog to fatten a hot girl's wallet tonite!!! 💰🤑💰🤑💰
I've read almost all of these at some point!!!! (o・・o) and I can tell you they're great. Some of these are exactly what helped me increase my income hehee
Stripper Chronicles —
When trying to get your shit together as a stripper, it can feel defeating. Almost as if you feel smaller or less than others. But the important part is doing it anyways.
My makeup is running low and I had a meh night at work. It was quite tiring despite having not done much. Some bitch stepped on my toes for whatever reason.
Tonight is a new night, though. The world is mine 💛 I started a new savings challenge so it's godspeed now
I ended up hitting five bills. So, I've got a little extra to spend on myself since my bills are taken care of. This week the goal is to re-establish savings.
In good news.. I'm back, baby! TLDR: clientele, pot fell through, new laptop incoming (?!), nail talk
Met this sweet guy who's giving me a new laptop soon. I didn't even have to ask. I'd been rambling on about a project of mine and he offered. I'll call him JJ.
One of my occasional clients seems like he could be a POT. Now, I'd want to keep it minimal with him. That being said I know he got a massive raise and is pulling around $20k in monthly. So I think after a few more visits I want to begin asking for my nails/hair paid for. It'll move up from there.
One POT fell through. He refused to respect boundaries at work and was promptly put in his place. Sucks a little, as I wanted him to pay for my hair and a shopping spree. But for now it's fine.
I think I'll buy some back up clothing and nails. I've been slowly stitching myself back together after everything. My medications are helping me lots. Do you guys think french tip, red, or pale pink would be classier? I have quite fair skin so I'm not sure. Will post my cheap outfit ideas soon.
On Sugaring/Stripping , possibly controversial..
So much of the bowl has been completely ruined. Tell me why I'm seeing girls accept the absolute bare minimum but providing top services? It's like they don't know how to finesse at all.
One of my friends is going on a few POT dates and they all want PPM. Which isn't necessarily bad but I swear most men I meet ALL want PPM. I am not that kind of girlie. I was telling her recently that she needs to ask for things like hair/nails/tuition/etc. She seems to have such a hard time with asking for money and lowballs the fuck out of herself. Like babe step it up
And girls in the club sometimes have such low standards. So many GOOD clients are ruined. There was one man that used to be an EASY $300 because he was easy to control. He'd rack up dances like it was nothing. Now? Constantly asks to suck your tits and makes at $160 when you say no. It annoys me to no end.
Stripper Chronicles —
When trying to get your shit together as a stripper, it can feel defeating. Almost as if you feel smaller or less than others. But the important part is doing it anyways.
My makeup is running low and I had a meh night at work. It was quite tiring despite having not done much. Some bitch stepped on my toes for whatever reason.
Tonight is a new night, though. The world is mine 💛 I started a new savings challenge so it's godspeed now
I miss the SB and Stripper tumblr soooo bad sometimes. Truly had the best tips and loved seeing girlie's win.
Choose your DAILY non negotiables
(any combo)
Morning Skincare (with list)
Night Skincare (with list)
Brush your teeth
Oil pull
Floss
Self massage
10 minute Morning Walk
10 minute yoga session
Green tea / ginger tea / chamomile tea
20 minutes technology free
Journal
Sketch
20 minute tidy session
1 hour productivity block
20 minute study session
15 minute Freerice session
10 minute gardening
10 minute meditation
10 minute workout
1 gallon water
Fruit and veggies plate
Protein shake
Protein smoothie
15 minutes instrument playing
10 minute news browse
1 chapter of a book
1 documentary
Eat veggies with every meal
Eat veggies with every 2 meals
Affirmations
Compliment someone
Swimming session
Write 1 thing to be grateful for
Any hobby for 10 minutes