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ᯓ★ 25. INTJ-T. 5w4 . 𝜗𝜚 ᝰ.ᐟ vade mecum

[creepfever]

I say I want friends but I never go through with actually talking to friends daily . I suppose that will be changing and I will be getting lots of friends . As if it ‘ s hard . The only problem is I get tired of people easily if they aren ‘ t interesting . I should start making mutuals .

[randomfriendlyloser]

when others start hating me because of their OWN insecurities, its pretty exhausting to deal with, like theyll start avoiding me because they think i hate them or dont care for them, start treating me badly because theyre jealous of either me or me talking people other than them, WHY are you making ME go through the consequences of your own issues? I'M not responsible for you, i'm not responsible for how you think of me you cowardly selfish twat, this is why i dislike people that cant just be honest or direct with me about what they think or want, its annoying because then i have to run around praising them until they calm down from their little episode so theyll be useful for me again (useful as in go back to normal and do the bare minimum without being sensitive) because OF COURSE i have to be their babysitter. like i didnt even do anything but im somehow getting affected from it because youre too fucking lazy to deal with your problems by yourself

[frenic]

person told me that i make them so emotionally vulnerable and helpless whereas every other interaction in their life with anyone else feels like nothing to them. while of course I don’t care, it does fuel my ego so I guess I can thank them for that. how cute.

[proxima-centauri-ii]

aspd/npd culture is having a lot of people who consider you a friend but you dont consider them a friend

[stitch-away]

having aspd and/or npd and trying to comfort a friend is like trying to run a marathon without any training istg

[the-bonfires-ember]

fellow narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths,

we're going to hear those words being thrown around a lot over the next few years. more than we already do, which is not an insubstantial amount. i want you to remember that you are not monsters, or fascists, or scum.

as more and more people throw around diagnoses they do not care to understand and words that they do not see as harmful, i want you all to remember that you are not alone and that the entire world is not against you.

there are people out there who care and understand and are not afraid. you are not alone, and you are not unloved.

dont let them make you fearful of yourself, you deserve so much better than that.

stay safe

[frenic]

why do others still act surprised when they can’t get a reaction out of me, as if I’m being difficult.

it’s as if they need me to react to feel validated.

like silence or indifference isn’t an acceptable response.

so they keep going until they get upset.